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You will never be able to escape from your heart. So it’s better to listen to what it has to say.
Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
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Why do I keep letting money slip through my hands? Do I not value it or me enough?
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Learning to self abandon less. Reconsidering what I might actually need and want. I self soothed a lot with alcohol. What if I actually tried for something that is good for me and my personality now that I’m older?
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Wow this is so crazy. I started up this blog when I started stripping…5 years ago. That’s the amount of time I dated X. Crazy to think about. He was the nicest, youngest and cutest guy I met in the club. He felt like home. Unfortunately he was moving away. I started dancing at the beach back and forth and he decided to message me out of the blue. I wonder if he was lonely or shooting his shots because he had no luck on other dates. I remember our first dates…the book shop, the museum and the cute bar with board games and sofa nooks… The saddest part of a relationship is always the beginning. There’s so much hope and warmth.
I was drinking a lot at work, more than usual because of my time at the beach. I was a wreck. He invited me out for a week to visit and see if I liked it. I thought why not? It was so much fun 🤩. I think I came on the 2nd date at Universal. We got a hotel room right? I also tried the maple bacon donut there. Too good. So many memories. So many firsts. I hope to believe I’ve become a better person because of it. I had the chance to travel and consistently go to therapy. I have a cat now. I have taken voice lessons and acting class. Been to a few wineries and tried amazing and expensive food. Got to see how he thought. His creativity and rigid playfulness lol. Did we love each other? We’re we both the closest thing to love we could find at the time? I’m forever grateful to have met you. I hope you’re happy. 💜
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“Travel far enough, you meet yourself.”
— David Mitchell; Cloud Atlas
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I will turn this Tumblr into my stripper one. I just recently started back up dance and man am I out of it. It’ll take time though...
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Oh, hello.
Last week, on the first day of Mental Health Month, we asked you two questions:
What are you doing today to make life easier for yourself? And if you feel up to it—if you feel like you are in a good enough place yourself—What can you do to make life a little bit better for someone else?
How did you answer last week? Has your situation changed? Maybe you feel a little bit stronger this week. Maybe you feel like you need a little more help. Whatever the case is, consider letting your followers know what you’re doing. Make a post. Tell ‘em what you’re doing, or plan to do, for yourself or someone else. Inspire each other, Tumblr. We’ll be curating the best art and text posts in a special Explore page in two weeks.
Oh! One more thing: when you make the post on your Tumblr, tag it #MHM2018 so we know where to find it.
Love you, Tumblr. Hope you’re taking care of yourselves. Don’t forget, if you need a little help, we have a list of free and confidential counseling resources just for that.
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CORBIN ALEXANDER WEALLTH GUIDANCE: POSTED 05/06/2018
STARTING OUT FROM SCRATCH – POST #1 IN MY SERIES
BUDGETING:
50/30/20/RULE:
For the person already living life, this is an essential rule of thumb:
- 50% to Needs: utilities, rent, food, car insurance (never buy a car on credit/payments and be required to pay collision coverage: only buy a used, 3-8 years old; Honda/Kia/Toyota for the best value/bang for your buck), gas, clothes allowance, etc. Essentials needed to live!
- 20% to Savings & Investment: used to pay bank loans/student loans, monthly deposits into a retirement account and an investment account, credit card payments (pay off the entire balance each month and not just the minimum payment to avoid paying interest on interest = that’s what eats you alive causing you to NEVER pay off the balance(s)) and never buy stuff from Fingerhut/Rent-A-Center or the like…..the interest on this stuff is outrageous and you pay 3x-5x what the item is actually worth in the end – if you ever get to the end of the payments!
- 30% to Wants: vacations (limit one per year – do day trips for the other week taken on paid vacation benefits) and future “Wants” such as saving for a house: if you need the monies in less than 5 years, then bank it – if you need the monies in over 8 years, then invest it; that is the industry rule of thumb when it comes to “Wants”.
Two methods to keep you on track:
- The spread sheet method: this is where you track your budget in MS Excel.
- The envelope method: this is where you assign envelopes labeled by each expense.
EMERGECY FUND:
This where you have a bank savings account holding a minimum of six months of expenses to pay “all” your monthly bills in the event of a job lose or an illness: you are NEVER to dip into this unless you are in a dire straight situation.
Establish this fund FIRST before all other suggestions are followed.
SAVINGS & INVESTMENT:
- Start saving for an emergency fund first.
- Do not use the Overdraft protection feature on your bank debit card = avoid getting into the habit of paying Overdraft charges over and over again! But do have it on the account – in the event of an emergency = like your car breaks down, etc. and avoid using a credit card and carry a balance.
- Start an investment account at Ally.com/invest and invest in my Model ETF Portfolio that I’ll outline at a later date…stay tuned!
- Start investing in my ”ALL PURPOSE” Model Mutual Fund Portfolio: starting in your mid-50’s/early 60’s.
- Start investing in my designated Model Mutual Fund 80+ Portfolio in your 80’s; exact allocation percentages to also be revealed at a later date!
CREDIT CARDS/BANKING MANAGEMENT:
- Establish a credit history at 18 years old before working a full-time 9-5 or going to college: now is the time to obtain a pre-paid debt card through Capital One.com or a similar lender. And do not forget to get a small personal loan ($1,000.00 minimum) at a local bank using a co-signer to qualify for the loan.
As you SLOWLY establish a credit history; apply for a no-fee/low credit limit card through Discover.com and/or Capital One.com.
HAVE YOU RUN UP YOUR CREDIT CARDS TO THE MAX AND DROWNING IN DEBT OVERALL? – CONSIDER CLAIMING BANKRUPTCY AND START OVER – JUST BE CAREFUL; DON’T SCREW UP AGAIN LIKE THE LAST TIME.
- Earn interest in an interest-bearing savings or CD account:
Not all banks are created equal; which is why most are banking wrong:
BANK OF AMERICA: This is a “fee city” bank. You name it, they have a fee attached
TD BANK: This is a bank with convoluted morals. Good luck banking in this environment; more horseshit then you can shake a stick at!
- If your balance falls below $100.00 at TD at any given time during the month; they hit you with a $15.00 low balance fee ($180.00 a year!).
You are better off going to a local bank or a federal credit union for your banking needs.
BE ON THE LOOKOUT FOR MY NEXT SERIES INSTALLMENT POST ON 6/3/2018!
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All these fucking customers expecting me to go out with them, but none of them want to spend a fucking buck on me. What the fuck? How does that even make sense? You're willing to pay for dinner and drinks out with me, but you can't buy a fucking lap dance? Get out of here.
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