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If someone beats you up for being "cishet white male" and nothing else, is this okay? Did you deserve it?
what if the world was made of pudding
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why don’t femmes (generally) make the first move? I see a lot of posts on twitter, and with friends I have irl, talking about how they just kinda make eye contact and wait for studs/butches to take the hint but how did that come to be a thing? I feel like fear of rejection is about equal on both sides so why is one fear expected to be “sucked up” or else the interest is illegitimate? as someone who doesn’t really id as one or the other but mostly dates femmes, it can be very frustrating ://
when you’re talking about this in the context of the butch/femme dynamic, it’s not about a fear of rejection. it’s like… idk i feel dumb saying this, but it’s a ritual. it’s just how we interact. if a femme makes a certain kind of eye contact with me, that is a move. that’s saying “alright, let’s see what you’ve got”, and butches love both the permission and the challenge of that look. it’s not that the femme is passively waiting for me to catch her eye, but that she’s waiting for me to take my turn. 
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“GIMP is an alternative to photoshop” is misinfo because GIMP sucks 
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no shade but some of you really need to stop arguing about stupid shit on the internet and start having gun duels about it
like if it’s THAT important to you then why not just settle things the old-fashion way, i.e., at ten paces with a .45 Colt
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I’m just a children’s squishy toy and God is mercilessly cutting me apart with scissors for an Instagram video
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be sure to understand ur s/o’s way of showing affection and make them aware of yours.. some ppl show affection by buying u things and some ppl will say I love u a million times and some will make u breakfast some will leave u the last ice cream, but it’s really important to know about these things bc u could not notice them and feel unloved while your s/o feels taken for granted and it’s just all a big misunderstanding so please talk about these things
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everything i have ever known about james charles i’ve had to learn against my own will.
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Isabelle from Animal Crossing: New leaf! loves you unconditionally !!!
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growing up gay is like. Emotional Turmoil Made Viewable To High School English Teacher
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y'all ever get bored but like in an angry way….like you keep picking things up and putting them down bc none of them is The Right Thing and you have like pent up manic energy but absolutely nothing is holding your interest long enough to release it and you’re just >:(
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if ur not shitting at work r u even a communist
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my [104M] gamer gf [22F] says because i was born before the great war i’m banned from all night gaming sleepovers with her and her gaming coach. is this fair
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i have some sort of issues not sure though, maybe disorders or syndromes. gonna keep you guys posted
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Does that
deep yearning to be physically beautiful
ever leave, ladies? Does it ever stop, girls? Am I going to be free? is this void going to tear me apart like silence black hole eats light?
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