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trans-man-experience · 6 months
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"The trannies should be able to piss in whatever toilet they want and change their bodies however they want. Why is it my business if some chick has a dick or a guy has a pie? I'm not a trannie or a fag so I don't care, just give 'em the medicine they need."
"This is an LGBT safe space. Of COURSE I fully support individuals who identify as transgender and their right to self-determination! I just think that transitioning is a very serious choice and should be heavily regulated. And there could be a lot of harm in exposing cis children to such topics, so we should be really careful about when it is appropriate to mention trans issues or have too much trans visibility."
One of the above statements is Problematic and the other is slightly annoying. If we disagree on which is which then working together for a better future is going to get really fucking difficult.
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trans-man-experience · 6 months
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trans-man-experience · 9 months
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What did the author mean by the curtains being blue? Hi, literary expert here to help! Navy blue means anal sex but light blue means oral sex. Curtains on the left side of the window mean top but curtains on the right side mean bottom.
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trans-man-experience · 11 months
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Just so like... it's clear... anyone who censors words that contain "man" or "men" to anything like "xxn" that's TERF shit.
Any reference to women/womanhood that solely revolves around having a uterus or "womb" is TERF shit.
Any sentence where the OP says they support people being "trans identified" with quotes around ""transwomen"" or ""transmen"" is TERF shit.
I'm seeing a lot of you baby Tumblr gays out there not knowing what these specific TERF dogwhistles look like.
"Wombxxn" is an incredibly dumb way of spelling "woman" that treats the word "man" like a slur and also reduces women to their ability to give birth.
"Trans identified" is their way of saying "this person calls themselves trans, but I don't believe they are."
Saying "People should be allowed to identify however they wish, but we still need to protect women/children" IS TERF SHIT.
Learn to identify this garbage, because not all TERFs are going to spell out their intolerance for you. Some of them are going to try and seem reasonable and polite and normal, and it's fucking dangerous to our community.
Also unpack any internalized transphobia and your transmedicalism, because both those things will have you quickly siding with TERFs and bigots.
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trans-man-experience · 11 months
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I always say pride month instead of happy pride month because if it was a happy pride month joanne rowling would be dead
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trans-man-experience · 11 months
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I'm a trans man, right? And I'm also a femboy. Been wearing skirts a lot lately and i absolutely love it. My problem is, that i don't have a dick, like it fucking breaks me sometimes, y'know? My boyfriend and i talk about it all the time, how fucking great it would be, but it will never happen.
I just want a femboy dick to hide under my silly little skirt, so that I'll feel fucking right.
I don't know what to do, yeah i can wear my packer and it does help but it's just not enough honestly.
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trans-man-experience · 11 months
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Happy pride month to:
Lesbians who are boys who are also girls
Lesbians whose gender is lesbian
All trans women
Nonbinary people who are in a constant state of mental torment because they can't decide if they want to transition or not
Boys who are girls
People who identify as transsexual
The trans girl who hacked the no fly list
Alucard from Castlevania
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trans-man-experience · 11 months
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STAY SAFE!! [ID: the Gilbert Baker pride flag with the words “Happy pride to all those who are unable to celebrate openly and safely. You are loved and seen!” in all-caps black text over it. /end ID]
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inside you, young transmasculine person, is a voice that will tell you not to like certain things because they're For Girls. that is the voice of the devil, and you must never listen to it.
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Blah blah kink at pride discourse blah blah the BDSM community that I joined in 2010 used to team up with other BDSM communities to volunteer at the local pridefest to do security and distribute drinks and other tasks they were needed for. (They probably still do this, I moved far away)
The BDSM community I was in was teamed up with the local queer resource center (whose manager was a trans dominatrix in the local scene) and AIDS charity center and we regularly collected food for their pantries and helped assist at fundraising events for them. Leather communities and BDSM communities do this sort of thing all the time.
And sure, it's important to point out that "no kink at pride" can be boiled down to mean "no pride at all because all queer people are sex perverts according to society" but it's also important to acknowledge that the people keeping your queer resource centers going are often the people running events on safe knife play and rope suspension and hypnofisting and electrostimulation. Nobody is forcing you to participate in kink but show some fucking gratitude to the perverts in black leather for the hard work they do for YOU.
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june is NOT pride month. it’s the month when people on the internet who have never been in irl lgbt spaces or have irl lgbt friends will be like “lgbt people need to STOP sucking and FUCKING during pride parades” and then when you go to a parade, instead of seeing the promised sucking and fucking, you get pelted with gay pens from bank of america 
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We need kink at pride because “kink” isn’t just kink. “Kink” is:
That boy wearing jeans that are too tight
Your neighbors and their “friend” that lives with them
Having a beard and wearing a skirt
Wearing any kind of choker
Literally anything else they decide goes against the “norm”, and it can be literally anything. That is why we need kink at pride.
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Trans men and transmascs and butches and masculine gnc folks and masc gays show the world that masculinity can absolutely be beautiful and freeing and fun and is an important part of the queer community and experience and I wanna personally thank all y'all for that. You're not less queer or toxic or gross or bad for being masculine and I love you so so so much
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If your goal is to normalize gender-nonconformity you’re gonna have to accept that some people will fuck with gender as hard as they can while still being unequivocally, 100% cis and that is okay. There’s no egg to crack or callout to write. This is a good thing actually.
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what is your cishet male trait mine is being a car fan
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