nobody's unlovable and loneliness isn't new, this just what happens when the first generation of men and boys allowed to say "I desire kindness" emerge at at same time as women and girls allowed to say "I don't owe men anything".
And they're both right, they're both correct- Masculine figures are allowed to ask to be treated gently and Feminine figures are allowed to decide who they share intimacy with.
The PROBLEM is men thinking "I deserve gentleness" is the same as "someone owes me intimacy".
Men need to start GIVING what they ask for.
If men were kinder and gentler, if we raised our boys with emotional literacy and taught them compassion and self-care and generosity, personal responsibility and concern for others, they wouldn't see WOMEN as a united monolith marching out to deny them their "right"- they'd have support networks and friendships of their own to rely on, not just a mom or a wife to dump all their needs onto.
Men being lonely isn't new. They're just allowed to talk about it now. And, coincidentally, the socially-conditioned second-class-citizen support role is rapidly vanishing.
We've yet to stabilize: its that instability that has people chewing at the rope.
It's a rough transition, but that's all it is. A step to something better.
So tumblr has now rolled lives for my account too and reading their rules..
MIDDLE FINGER IS BANNED I REPEAT DO NOT FLIP THE BIRD on live IT IS VERY VERY BAD IT IS LITERALLY SAME AS IF YOU GOT FULLY NAKED AND WOOP WOOP HANKY PANKY BOJOINK WITH AN EQUALLY NUDE PARTNER ON THE STREAM I REPEAT HIDE YOUR MIDDLE FINGERS PUT THEM AWAY PUT THEN AWAY NOW A CHILD COULD SEE AN OBSCENE FINGER ON TUNGLR DOT COM
I realized from lot of tags and comments lot of you are unaware that the underlying issue is BIGGER than just tumblr. I even skipped the part about dress code bc its the same on every app now, nothing special unfortunately, the middle FINGER was news. you just never read the ToS and the reason is US LAWS, Credit card company monopoly, advertisers wanting everything to be "family friendly" etc and things are only going to get worse if you don't start opposing and repeling the torjan horse laws. Here, let's have someone who knows better explain it:
Hi uhā¦ so I MAY have made a questionable financial decision and now need at least 40 dollars, so Iām opening my commissions here!
PRICING
Headshot - $30
Full-body - $50
Partial Reference Sheet - $40 for an OC, $50 for a custom
Full Reference Sheet - $70 for an established character, $80 for a custom
EXTRAS
Props: +$0-$10, depending on complexity
Backgrounds: +$0-$20, depending on complexity
Extra Character: +80% of the og characters price (ex: $24 for a headshot)
Other stuff: Just ask!
WHAT I CAN DO: Pretty much anything that isnāt in my canāt do section! Although Iām kind of horrible with city backgrounds and other artificial looking scenery (im trying!), Iām also horrible with mecha however I do want to try some soooo
WHAT I CANT DO: NSFW, romantic stuff, anything bigotedā¦ thats rly about it, although for fandom content (which I will usually be ok with!), know that I can refuse anything. Im also generally fine with suggestive poses as long as nobodyās buck ass nude or if thereās another character in there (NO!! SHIPS!!!)
Feel free to dm me! My primary payment method is PayPal but m fine w anything
EDIT: Iām tagging all the reblogs with #inyxes reblogging comms again
Thisāll mean u can actually block the posts because yeah thatās a lotta reblogs. Sorry to anyone on my dash holyyyy
EDIT 2: This post has my other socials and more examples! Feel free to look at it if you need some more information :3
Hi uhā¦ so I MAY have made a questionable financial decision and now need at least 40 dollars, so Iām opening my commissions here!
PRICING
Headshot - $30
Full-body - $50
Partial Reference Sheet - $40 for an OC, $50 for a custom
Full Reference Sheet - $70 for an established character, $80 for a custom
EXTRAS
Props: +$0-$10, depending on complexity
Backgrounds: +$0-$20, depending on complexity
Extra Character: +80% of the og characters price (ex: $24 for a headshot)
Other stuff: Just ask!
WHAT I CAN DO: Pretty much anything that isnāt in my canāt do section! Although Iām kind of horrible with city backgrounds and other artificial looking scenery (im trying!), Iām also horrible with mecha however I do want to try some soooo
WHAT I CANT DO: NSFW, romantic stuff, anything bigotedā¦ thats rly about it, although for fandom content (which I will usually be ok with!), know that I can refuse anything. Im also generally fine with suggestive poses as long as nobodyās buck ass nude or if thereās another character in there (NO!! SHIPS!!!)
Feel free to dm me! My primary payment method is PayPal but m fine w anything
EDIT: Iām tagging all the reblogs with #inyxes reblogging comms again
Thisāll mean u can actually block the posts because yeah thatās a lotta reblogs. Sorry to anyone on my dash holyyyy
EDIT 2: This post has my other socials and more examples! Feel free to look at it if you need some more information :3
Hi uhā¦ so I MAY have made a questionable financial decision and now need at least 40 dollars, so Iām opening my commissions here!
PRICING
Headshot - $30
Full-body - $50
Partial Reference Sheet - $40 for an OC, $50 for a custom
Full Reference Sheet - $70 for an established character, $80 for a custom
EXTRAS
Props: +$0-$10, depending on complexity
Backgrounds: +$0-$20, depending on complexity
Extra Character: +80% of the og characters price (ex: $24 for a headshot)
Other stuff: Just ask!
WHAT I CAN DO: Pretty much anything that isnāt in my canāt do section! Although Iām kind of horrible with city backgrounds and other artificial looking scenery (im trying!), Iām also horrible with mecha however I do want to try some soooo
WHAT I CANT DO: NSFW, romantic stuff, anything bigotedā¦ thats rly about it, although for fandom content (which I will usually be ok with!), know that I can refuse anything. Im also generally fine with suggestive poses as long as nobodyās buck ass nude or if thereās another character in there (NO!! SHIPS!!!)
Feel free to dm me! My primary payment method is PayPal but m fine w anything
EDIT: Iām tagging all the reblogs with #inyxes reblogging comms again
Thisāll mean u can actually block the posts because yeah thatās a lotta reblogs. Sorry to anyone on my dash holyyyy
EDIT 2: This post has my other socials and more examples! Feel free to look at it if you need some more information :3