Updated Library For Kinksters
I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…
Aftercare
Aftercare 101
Aftercare For Dominants
Coping With Emotional Subdrop
Dom Drop
How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
Online Aftercare
sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
Subdrop and Aftercare
Subspace and Aftercare
Consent
Consent & BDSM
Guide to Consent
Doms, Daddies & Masters
7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive
25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles
30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman
45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For
50 Rules for Daddies
100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess
101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)
Alternative Names For “Daddy”
Alternative Domme Titles
Aspects Of Control
Asserting Ownership - Rules
Daddy Up!
Defining A Daddy Dom
Dominants Need Training Also
Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles
Help For New Doms
How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive
How To Be A Good Dominant
How to Find a Submissive
Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man
New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom
Observations On Doms By A Submissive
So you want to be a Dom?
So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her
Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know
The Dom Commandments
Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind
What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective
What does the title Daddy mean?
What is a Daddy Dom?
What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?
What It Means To Be A Dominant
What Makes A Good Dominant
Littles, Subs & Slaves
6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
7 Common Types of Submissives
10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
26 Baby Girl Jobs
50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
A Bottom’s Responsibility
A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive
A Man Who Knows You…
A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom
Acid Test For Subs
Ask A Million And One Questions
Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective
Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
Care and feeding of Daddies
Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
Feminist Submissive
Finding Your Dominant
Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.
How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
How To Find A Dom
How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
Novice Submissives
Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’
Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
Submissive Pride
Submissive Traits - Intelligence
Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
What is a Little?
When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.
Why I call him Daddy
Your Rights As A Submissive
Long Distance Relationships
10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship
How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope
Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans
The Long Distance D/s Relationship
Mental Health
BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers
Body image & BDSM
How to Get Over Feeling Sad
Is BDSM normal?
Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!
Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship
Meditation And Mindfulness
On Cutting
Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories
Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction
Tips for Recovering from Codependency
What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)
Why Do I Feel Unloveable?
Relationships
10 Habits of Happy Couples
10 Top Communication Mistakes
10 Types of Emotional Manipulators
12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget
50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”
BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End
BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways
Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
Communication Is Key
Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships
Daddy Doms and their little girls
Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More
Date Night In A Jar
DD/lg In Public
D/s and Domestication
Factors That Make A Relationship
Finding Love When You Least Expect It
Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests
How To Be Present In Your Relationships
How To Build A Healthy Relationship
How To Get What You Want In A Relationship
How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”
How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level
Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship
Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship
Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait
Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore
Searching for a D/s partner?
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships
Stop Arguments Before They Start
The Rewards of a Submissive
Types Of Relationship Insecurity
Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship
What Is Real Love?
When He Doesn’t Call
Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better
Safety
Another life ruined because of the morality police
Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!
Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t
Limits in BDSM
What is Emotional Abuse?
Self Improvement
10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life
10 Steps To Self Care
10 Ways To Be Happy
10 Truths To Live By
Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive
How to be Yourself
How To Deal With Your Enemies
How To Ignore Haters
How to Recognize a Toxic Friend
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
Slut Shaming Explained
Tips for Healing a Broken Heart
What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?
Sex
50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women
Basics of Breath Play
D/s or Kinky Sex?
Fetishes Explained
How To Make A Girl Squirt
How To Tell Your Son About Sex
Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality
Sensual Biting
Sex: Myths & Stereotypes
Sex: Practical Details
Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control
So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women
Squirting Educational Video
Squirting Notes
Toys
Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs
BDSM on a budget
Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)
Training
10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten
40 Very Important DD/lg Facts
Age Play: A Short Guide
BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play
DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
Etiquette in BDSM Part 1
Etiquette in BDSM Part 2
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind
Glossary of BDSM Terms
Guide To Blood Play
Guide To Bruising
Guide To Talking Dirty
Guide To Wax Play
How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest
How To Make A Comfort Box
Introduction To BDSM
Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting
Punishments in BDSM Relationships
Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships
Some Thoughts On Rules
The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility
The Need For Rules and Discipline
Topping from the bottom
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The whole room was ugly. Cream walls (my least favourite shade of white), patterned curtains that clashed with the patterns on the various items of oversized baby furniture and a dull beige carpet. The whole thing was uninviting, but it was nothing compared to the purposed it all.
The inhabitant of the nursery was sitting up in the pink crib at the far corner from the door. She was patterned too, encased in a huge pink onesie that appeared too big for her yet not big enough to hold the bulging diaper around her waist. Her happiness was disconcerting. Being trapped as a babified prisoner was not an appealing idea yet she was convincingly enjoying it.
I was not enjoying my visit. My straight jacket was debilitatingly uncomfortable, made all the worse by the fact it was riding up between my thighs because I was hanging off the ground, hoisted around by a massive oaf of a man. My tour guide led us over to the crib, attracting the attention of the childish occupant.
“Say hi Maddie,” instructed my pompous captor. In response the woman in the crib stared into my eyes as she giggled out the word “hi.” I couldn’t find a plea for help in her face. That over cutesie voice and bashful innocence seemed to somehow be sincere. I found it genuinely scary.
The grotesquely bubbly woman leading me around seemed even happier at hearing “Maddie” speak to me. I heard her gleefully laugh by my side before she leant over the railing of the crib so the captive woman was in reach. Cheerfully and unnecessarily loudly she chirped, “Is it time for your diaper change?”
Maddie rolled her eyes up to gaze off at the ceiling, still grinning but now with some hint of mischief in that face. I tensed painfully at the mention of diapers. I was already trying to prise my eyes away from the comically large diaper Maddie was encased in. My captor continued her cringe-worthy questioning, sort of singing,“Have you got a wet diapie little baby?” I wanted nothing more than to stop existing, especially as my anxious mind forced me to see myself in that crib. I wouldn’t let myself believe that was really going to happen though, it just wasn’t possible.
Maddie let out some giggles, drooling slightly as she did to my disgust. Still not making eye contact with the woman, she babbled out a response of, “I u’nno?” The woman laughed proudly again at the pathetic sight before us.
“Awww, of course you don’t know,” she said as if it was the most obvious thing in the world. She made an exaggerated turn towards me and looked me dead in the eyes. I stiffened under her gaze, not sure where to look. Staring at me with a half maniacal look, she continued on. “Babies can’t be expected to tell if they have gone pee pee or poopie in their diapers.”
I hated this woman. She was toying with me, trying to bring me to the peak of embarrassment and uncomfortableness before striking. I knew what she intended to do, but I couldn’t admit it. I needed her to stop tormenting me with coy allusions to what was coming but I prayed that she wouldn’t go ahead and resign me to the terrible fate that was bouncing excitedly in the crib before us.
She had finished the foreplay though and said those awful words that ushered in the real torture I was to be subjected to.
“Let’s take our guest round to pick out some extra cute, extra soft diapers and Maddie can keep playing.”
Image Credit: adultbabysource.com
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“Don’t worry, my sweet little doll,” Daddy’s kind words rumbled within my memory. “You’re not the one in control anymore, remember? So no matter what happens, sweetie, just let it go…”
Oh, how hard it was to do just that. For so many years, I’d been taught that the key to success, to happiness - to life itself - lay in taking control. Control your finances, your friendships, your emotions, your own body. Do all that, and you would be a success. Fail, however, and you would be nothing but an abject loser, spiraling downward into failure and well-deserved ridicule…
And then I’d met my Daddy. He’d taught me so much about life: how mindless pursuit of control was itself a pathetic loss of autonomy; how real power lay in allowing oneself to accept and release power as easily and naturally as the pulsing tides; how that in yielding up power, one found true freedom and peace. All that he had helped me to discover, and more. Yet old habits persist, and old mentalities even more so.
Here I was this rainy afternoon, dressed up in my pretty new party frock and triple petticoats, dolled up and diapered up as much as any obedient little girl dolly could want. Oh, yes, diapered; Daddy had particularly insisted on me yielding up all control, even over my toileting. And he had been right, too. I’d been mortified the first few times he’s gently but firmly forced me to soak and soil myself, but the waves of delicious surrender that always came in its wake were unlike anything I’d ever felt before…
And so yes - I was now diapered thickly under my frilly skirt, those tripled layers of fluffy padding ensuring that I would waddle prettily for my Daddy whenever he came back home. Ensuring, too, that thanks to my mandated constant fluid intake, I wouldn’t leak and leave puddles everywhere…
That was the idea, anyway. But here I was, barely five hours into my day, and already I was feeling those telltale seeping feelings of an imminent leak. One more flood, and my lovely thick diapers, soggy to the point of failure, would start trickling warm pee down my shaved legs and into my lacy white socks. Couldn’t I just try to hold it? I hated that feeling of a leaking diaper so much. Surely it couldn’t hurt to hold on just a little longer. Daddy would be home in a few hours, and I could beg him to change me before I leaked…
And that’s when Daddy’s words echoed within me. “You are my little diapered dolly now,” he’d told me sweetly, patronizingly. “No matter what, you’re not in control right now, okay? Daddy will diaper you, dress you, change you, make your meals. You want total freedom, sweetie. And only by giving me all your control will you find it…”
He was right. I flushed, mind suddenly made up, and leaned against the wall, unconsciously thrusting out my round little diapered bottom under my skimpy little skirt. Daddy was right. No control - that was my lot now. And that meant wetting uncontrollably, no matter what. Leaks or no leaks, I wasn’t allowed to care. Daddy would care. Daddy would take care of everything…and so I relaxed.
And as the warm flood swelled into my saturated padding and I felt the first warm streams tickling my legs, I simultaneously sensed a smile blossoming on my face. Oopsie, guess Daddy’s going to have to clean me up tonight! I’m such a good, wet little diapered dolly, aren’t I?
Image Credit: @062dia75 of Twitter
Please don’t remove my caption; if you do, may you get lots of nasty sock fuzz stuck between your toes.
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