The way you change your immediate reactions to things is that you catch yourself having an uncharitable/bigoted/overly judgmental thought and you catch it and replace it and then you do that a hundred times a day for your whole life and eventually one day like five years later you realize that you think differently now and you’ll always be working on something but that’s how life goes and that’s fine.

Just so we’re all clear, it is okay to miss people you no longer want in your life.

Sometimes self-care is, actually, NOT getting onto the computer and little treats and watching youtube videos. Sometimes those things are self-care, but sometimes they're also avoidant behaviors.

Sometimes self care is waking up and just. Fucking getting in the car. And driving to the bank. And the store. And buying the cat litter. And changing the cat boxes you've been avoiding because your brains been stuck in a hole. And picking up the trash you've been piling up. And getting a load into the wash. And mowing the lawn before the village council sends you a formal complaint and potential-fines warning.

Like its hard and annoying to do because it sucks. It sucks so much. But if I don't start working on this pile of bullshit I've let build up because it stinks and i was stuck in deer-in-headlights mode, I risk letting it turn into fuckery. I do not have the patience for fuckery that I once - foolishly! - thought I had.

Inner child, come back to me I wanna tell you that I'm sorry, I'm sorry

Phantom by Rina Sawayama + Ghost Photography by Angela Deane

So this is what a KFC break up feels like

Yuuri do you remember last year banquet...

since the tender age of 11 i have been so Scared due to everything being so Scary

Same

my science experiments are soo ethical. u can trust me bc i wear glasses btw

Id fuck tigress from king fu panda

but would she fuck you? humble yourself

if you’re so heterosexual why’s your narrative foil a man

She took my ability to die in the divorce

needed to bring this important venn diagram here