straight people: haha marriage sucks bro! getting married is like going to jail!! my wife keeps NAGGING me, bro i miss being single and clubbing man! dude, i gotta get away from the wife and kids for a while marriage is such a DRAG!
i wish men understood that when women are talking about feminism and rape culture and shit, it’s not just a political conversation. it’s not about being a “social justice warrior” or whatever. it’s about our actual lives being shaped by misogyny since childhood, and the daily reality of living in fear of violence. this isn’t a fucking game or philosophical debate. this is our fucking lives.