okay, tumblr. let's try this again.

> safewords are 100% necessary in any BDSM activity.

> "no", "stop", and other plain language *are technically* safewords.

> everyone involved in a BDSM activity can use a safeword, not just the s-type or bottom.

> safewords must be negotiated in advance before play in order to ensure everyone is on the same page with what is and is not a safeword for that BDSM activity.

> even the most extreme of 24/7 TPE M/s free use CNC dynamics still have and use safewords.

> if someone tells you they "don't believe in safewords", or "safewords are for beginners only" (or the inverse, which i've personally experienced in conversation, "safewords are for advanced play only"), or "you can negotiate ignoring a safeword", run away.

Doggy style is great but when we fuck we're starting with missionary. Get on your back while I destroy you so I can slowly watch your face twist into that cum drunk, blank expression that means I've successfully dumbed you back down to where you're supposed to be. Put your legs on my shoulders so I can slide deep and watch your eyes roll back further with each teasing inch I allow you. Then when you're all brainless and flushed, I can flip you over, push your head into the pillows and break you completely.

When you barely have the energy to keep your hips up, your legs are shaking and you have to lean on my chest for support because I've spent you, you're in the right place, sweetheart. Biddable and submissive, like a well-trained pet.

My feelings about monsters is more than just sex. Loving them is just as important, if not more because if I don't love them then how can I love myself? To look past the nightmare and see the beauty that lies beneath. All I want to do is make them feel as loved as I do, even if they might not exist

uhhh still thinking about teasing while acting all oblivious about it >:)) leaning over their shoulder, crowding them into a corner, getting up in their personal space and pretending you don't notice them getting all blushy and flustered. casually showing them how easy it would be to overpower them. especially if they're trying to hide how much it's turning them on. you can grab their hips and speak low into their ear. "aww, what's wrong darling? are you feeling ok?"

hnngg interesting. a tdick pump can be used as a denial toy. lock that dick in there and give it a few pumps, and you'll see it throbbing with need, but you can't do anything about it. fun

Happy alien day 👽

From senior executive director Tala Arcadio-Yutani

we do NOT focus enough on the “for sport” part of hunting you for sport. i’m in it for the chase i want to feel my heart pounding i want to feel my blood flowing i want to pound my feet into the dirt as i chase after you. i want to hunt and stalk you through the woods. this is a game for me this is exercise this is my sport i train for this i practice for this i need to hunt you for sport

I want a dom to film me while they fuck me blindfolded. My whimpers and moans and slutty chanting unknowingly caught on video. They send me clips unexpectedly that send shivers down my spine and tingles to my cock at the memory. My voice slurred by mindless arousal, repeating, "I'm a good boy, I'm a good boy, I'm a good boy," while my hard, wet cock is being rubbed back and forth. Another of me spreading my fucked out holes while moaning, "please fuck my greedy holes, please play with your needy toy, please, please, please." another of me yelling, "thankyou-thankyou-thankyousomuch" while they spank my cock as I cum. The last one of them pushing up the blindfold and spitting in my open mouth, watching me look past the camera at them as they push their cock into my drooling mouth. Along with their message, "we should do this again."

what kind of nest?

silk nests that cover like a large bed area?? like an oversized bird nest

like a closet space filled with trinkets and warm things that they can just press into and sleep

a completely cold nest made of stone and precious metals enough for the vampire to lie in like the fucking vitruvian man???

Our home is our nest. The manor is mine. We fill it with all the things we love, whether that be trinkets, blankets and pillows, silks and tapestries, expensive furniture, etc.

How would a vampire nest compare to, say, a werewolf nest?

Werewolf nests are messy, if still very comfortable. Vampire nests tend to be pristine.

Came multiple times to your blog. I wish I could have a passionate first time with you. Loving the pleasure my body gives you tenderly but cruelly. your animalistic tendencies might then come through clearly. to be another one of your willing victims, ridiculed by being so pliant while I'm bred to the brink with your hot seed and enjoying every minute of my one night-long(or luckily, more) confusion would be a dream come true.

ill never not want to be a sub being ravaged by you, only able to hold onto you while you sink your hips in me and hold me down, and bite your clavicle/shoulder areas while losing it, bitten and toyed with as you'd like in return. <3

That's a lovely fantasy.

i get that it's a fantasy, and i know most people mean it in the context of fantasy, but some corruption stuff on here doesn't feel like it's respecting the difference between play and reality. if you feel ashamed, afraid, disgusted, or in any way bad about a sex act you did or the kinks you're playing with, either before or after the act, the answer is not to "just edge and corrupt yourself more until the feeling goes away!" you can do genuine harm to your mental health that way. i worry a lot about the number of people, usually subs, who express what looks like sincere fear or unhappiness about a kink or the like who are met with waves and waves of strangers telling them to just do it more until they like it.

if you like [insert any kink here] but find that you feel gross in a bad way every time you do it, that's your body telling you that something isn't working here. it doesn't mean that you're bad or your partner(s) are bad, it just means that right now that kind of play isn't safe for you. maybe you need to work through some things in therapy and then it's fine. maybe it's something you can continue to fantasize about but it's not something you'll ever be able to safely play with IRL. maybe you just need to tweak the scene to avoid some specific triggers. the answer is not to keep forcing yourself to play in a way that leaves you feeling empty and hurt. that is self-harm.

again, i know that a lot of this shit is fantasy and people are just pretending, but if it isn't. if the porn you're watching or the play you're trying really does consistently make you feel ashamed or sad or gross or wrong, don't listen to the freaks who tell you to ignore your body's warning signs. take care of yourself.

Do vampires nest?

Absolutely.