thatonestupidcomic
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MLM trans guy who can’t wait until he can get on T already :P
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SCHOOL CHEAT SHEET!!
soothe yourself | self care
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helpful sites
music for studying | more music
note taking methods | another one
studying methods
english | physics | chemistry | biology | maths | languages
how to learn a language
ultimate guide for writing | writing resources | writing helps | tips for writers
how to write a kickass essay | write a great essay | stuff you need to write essays | essay tips | essay checklist | grade your essay
how do I study for…
bullet journals | a guide to bullet journals
the testing effect
everything you need to succeed in school
time management
organisation
how to annotate | another one
guide to aesthetically pleasing notes | improve your handwriting
create a study guide
resources | helpful websites | there’s an app for that
get more out of google
productivity resources | 14 apps to become productive | how to stay productive
lazy night owl school survival guide
apps for a better life | useful websites for students
masterpost of studying tips
social media citation guide
college masterpost | another one | starting college on the right foot | packing for college | how to survive in college
how to ace that college interview
food to stay motivated | motivation guide
how to stay awake in class
balancing a healthy lifestyle
studying on your period
huge masterpost for the semester
a very long list to help you survive school
not enough time to finish an assignment?
100 delicious cheap recipes
53 posts for students
high school cheat sheet
other cheat sheets
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I think I’m deleting
Not that I have any followers, but I think I’ve outgrown this blog. It’s seen me through a lot of phases, revelations, opinions and general pieces of my adolescent life. But I’m an adult now, 2020 is my first full year as one and I think it’s time I move on. I’m moving over to @shittysuede to start a new chapter of my life; the adult one. I don’t have many people on here, but if you want it’d be nice if I was followed on there by anyone who still wants to chat ect. I’ll leave this blog up for a little while before I delete it :)
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i’m so in love with domestic sweetness.
cooking dinner with the one you love while they wrap their arms around you. taking quick kiss breaks in between folding fresh laundry. washing each other’s hair in the shower. giggling and rolling around in the fresh sheets you both just finished putting on. dusting while showing off your latest dance moves and having your sweetheart show off their vocals.
it’s so comforting to have someone that you just enjoy making a home with. because chores done with someone you love isn’t such a chore after all.
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Anyway ur blog is gross for the nblm dni thank u for doing ur best to invalidate my identity
i mean this blog is for binary males, so if you’re nonbinary, then ur the one invalidating ur own identity by entering a strictly binary space
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Sorry to break the news, but you did not report the person behind that blog. Instead, you reported me. And I am still suffering the consequences.
I did not run that blog. Yes, they used my image. All my pictures from Facebook and Instagram, my statuses, even the captions. And then interspersed them with animal abuse images, fantasies about beastiality, other fucking disgusting sentiments.
You people found my Facebook, where I listed my wildlife rescue group. You didn’t think, for a moment, that it was odd that none of these abuse fantasies appeared on Facebook. A girl who was apparently willing to put her face, her location, the names of her family her local fucking vet clinic on her zoophilic Tumblr page, strangely had none of these thoughts on a just-as-public Facebook page.
Not one single person thought, “This is a bit odd, maybe I should reach out to this person just to confirm that it’s them.”
You people, high on some fantastical idea of justice, called the authorities. And I did not even know about the existence of the blog until the RSPCA showed up on my doorstep one night.
THEY, thankfully, had the sense to believe me. As soon as they showed me the page and I broke down in tears, they got the idea. So they told me to go to the police. The police palmed me off to ACORN (a cybercrime body) who dismissed the case because “nobody in the images was under the age of 18.”
Meanwhile, Tumblr had taken the page down, only for it to resurface again last year.
I then pursued a civil case. Emailed lawyers in my local city. They advised me only to take it to Tumblr, who shut down the page a second time. No further action was taken.
I never received another call from wildlife rescue because I was unable to prove that I did not run this disgusting blog. Wildlife is my biggest passion in the world and I may never work in that industry until I can clear my name.
So I messaged this page - report-a-predator. They told me to prove it - fair enough. So I sent them EVERYTHING. The screenshots, my emails to ACORN and SAPOL and Tumblr and the lawyers. They did not respond. I emailed them again, begging them to clear my name. They did not respond.
I am furious. I am fucking enraged that this post even still exists on their page, because the actions of this so-called “justice group” has directly impacted the life of an innocent person and they will do nothing to acknowledge it. Not even respond to a simple email. Not even take down the incriminating post.
I know my blog is tiny, I know nobody follows it, I know this will probably never be seen. But I am not going to be silent.
If you’re ever caught up in a whirlwind of pseudo-justice, maybe check the facts first.
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terfs are really like “if im not biologically more moral than men and i have to actually care about other people in order to be a good person i will literally freak out”
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the vast mostly silent majority of trans people, both over the centuries and today: all we want is to be given the same basic respects and rights as anybody else and to be left alone to live our lives in the way that makes us content.
a loud minority of freaks on the internet, most of whom are very obviously not even trans, just fetishists or extreme SJWs doing it for political gain: UwU haha look at my boipussy/girldick! crossdressing is hot so i must be trans, validate me! being gnc means you’re trans, go on hormones NOW! misgender me and DIE! date me or you’re transphobic! gender and sex aren’t real! give your children hormones and surgery!! kill cis people!
terfs/transphobes: WELL…. it’s sure obvious which one of these groups is representative of every trans person ever. we will now base our entire opinion of trans people on that group. lol
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why is “give your children hormones and surgery” a bad thing to say? do you not want to medically transition?
by “children” I mean young kids. you shouldn’t do anything irreversible to your body until you’re old enough to make your own informed choices. even puberty blockers are not reversible, that’s a myth, they still have lasting effects. I know going through the wrong puberty is hard, but it’s better than risking making such a huge mistake and being stuck in a body you don’t want. especially for AFABs, many of testosterone’s changes are very visible and irreversible, and ofc for everyone surgeries are hard to fully undo. I know plenty of horror stories from detrans people who were essentially roped into it when young by parents or friends or Woke gender therapists (do yourself a favor and don’t go to gender therapists lol), or were dissatisfied with life and thought transitioning would help, and now they’re stuck with altered bodies they thought they wanted but once they got them it was wrong. It’s not a situation you wanna put anyone in, especially not a kid.
trans kids can still socially transition, though, because it can be undone, and they should if dysphoria is causing them serious distress and they live somewhere that will accept them. coming out into a hostile environment can be twice as harmful as staying closeted... but you should be at l e a s t 16+ to medically transition imho. I’m 17 and I’m not going to be able to transition at all until I’m at least 20 or so because of unsupportive parents, and it really feels terrible, but honestly it could be for the best if in the next few years I suddenly have an epiphany and realize I’m not trans. I doubt that will happen though lmao
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cis gay men be like: i'm a trans ally! *very obviously uncomfortable with any mention of vaginas or periods or etc whatsoever*
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Since joining Tumblr, I’ve met a lot of young queer people. Look, I’m a bisexual man in a gay relationship, and I’m approaching 30. I was still a kid when Matthew Shepard’s story was being covered on the news. I remember thinking, “I better keep my mouth shut about these feelings I’m having.”
And then I met Dominic when I was 12, and people could see how in love we were. And we got the shit beat out of us. The year I met him, some kids in the grade above me held me down against the bleachers in our gym and stomped on my hand until my fingers broke. Instead of sending me to the nurse, the teacher sent me to the assistant principal to explain the situation. She asked why the kids had beat me up. I said, “They were calling me gay.”
Her response was, “Well, are you?”
My, “I don’t know,” earned a call to my parents, and I was outed. Efforts were made to keep me from seeing Dom. Throughout high school, Dom’s stepmother intensified these efforts. He slept in the basement of the house. Although he was an incredibly talented student, he was prohibited from participating in any extracurriculars. He suffered a lot of physical abuse during those years.
The day he turned 18, he packed up everything he had and walked to my house, and we’ve lived together ever since. Things are better, but they’re not perfect. I’ve had trucks pull up next to me at stoplights and, seeing the pride sticker on my car, through old drinks and garbage into my window. I no longer speak to my dad’s side of the family. I haven’t been to see them for Christmas or Thanksgiving in years. One of my uncles had cornered me at Thanksgiving when I was 17 and said, “I’m not going to judge you, but I’d be happy to break your neck so God can do the judging a little sooner.”
I joined a support group for trans and intersex people. When I joined, 40 people attended regularly. Within the year, the group was half the size it had been. Some couldn’t make it anymore, because they were staying at the shelter, where their stay hinged on them agreeing to instead to attend homophobic sermons. Some were put in correctional therapy. Five of them died. Three of those, I didn’t know, but I knew Alex, the 19 year old who was fag-dragged in Kentucky and died a day later in the hospital, and I knew Stephanie, who went home to Alabama to care for her mom in hospice and was beaten to death with a baseball bat by her mom’s boyfriend.
Tumblr is not reality. The dynamic here does not reflect the dynamic out there. Here’s the part where I finally make a point, and it might be extremely unpopular - but guys, value your allies. Value each other. We are met with enough hate in our daily lives to enter an online safe-space and meet more hate from our own, over petty things. Don’t go after one another over every little thing you find problematic.
Learn to see nuance. Maybe the word “queer” bothers you, and you see a gay man using it as an umbrella term. Maybe someone called a trans man a trans woman because they’re confused about terminology, but the post where they did it was voicing support for the trans community. Maybe someone is just asking a question, wanting to learn more. Stop. Attacking. These. People.
Allies are being driven away. Members of our own community are being ostracized. Others are feeling nervous and estranged, and it’s largely because of places like Tumblr, where the social justice movement is quickly becoming violent and radical. I am begging you, stop nitpicking “problematic” things and start directing your efforts to create real change. When it comes to comes to your allies, forget the “social justice warrior” mentality and put down your torch. Educate calmly. Be respectful. Be understanding. Be forgiving. And I’m certainly not saying that your anger doesn’t have a good place - when you are met with bigots on the street, congress members who want to pass hateful laws, violent protesters, abusive parents, prejudiced teachers, that is when you need to be a warrior. That’s when it counts. In the real world. When you have the opportunity to protect people from real harm. Attacking your would-be allies via anonymous asks is just going to lose us ground in the long run. And we don’t have time for that, not when trans women of color are being murdered every day, not when states are still fighting against marriage equality, not when there are politicians in office who believe that trans people are possessed by demons, not when we’ve just lost 50 brothers and sisters to one gunman, not when the media won’t even admit that the attack was homophobic.
Please step back. Look at the big picture. Look at where we are, globally. Don’t just log on to your safe space and attack your allies over small missteps. That’s like washing the dishes in a house that’s on fire, kids. Let’s fight on the battlefield, and when we come home to each other, let’s just focus on bandaging up our wounds so we can go out and win the war.
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ok so ur transphobic
i dont think the guidelines we set out are very restrictive.
if youre not purely mlm, dont interact with our purely mlm posts. if theyre open to both mlm+nblm, its totally fine to interact with those. if theyre just aesthetic posts, anyone can interact.
we are not in any way transphobic. we have absolutely nothing against nonbinary people, we just dont want nonbinary people to interface with binary spaces. binary gay men (whether cis or trans) need individual spaces too.
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Hey, Transmeds.
Look, I know we’ve had our fights. I know we’ve picked some of those fights. I’m not proud of it.
But what I’m about to tell you? It’s not about any of our usual arguments or talking points or any of that. It’s critically, critically important, so even if you hate me and never want to hear me again… if you ever listen to anything I say, please let it be this.
That narrative in the back of your head? The one that tells you that you have to be miserable because you’re trans and not “normal?”
That’s an abuser’s narrative. That’s the leash they use to keep you under control.
You might have internalized it deeply - that’s what makes it effective! - but it’s something meant to limit and control you, and you will be so much more free when you learn to resist and reject it.
Please, stop giving your abusers real estate in your head. Stop cutting off pieces of who you are because they’re “weird” or “wrong.”
You’ll be so much happier when you find space to exist as you are. I promise you.
Sincerely, someone who slipped that very leash.
(If you want to have a sincere and reasonable discussion about this, I’m open. Clownery will get the usual treatments.)
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tumblr freaks: i love and support autistic people uwu!!!!!!!!!
also tumblr freaks: *shits on men with intensive interests that they talk about a lot and like being the Expert on, shits on men who are socially awkward and nervous about talking to people, especially women, shits on men for forgetting deodorant, shits on depressed men, shits on men who are low-empathy (which is NOT a synonym for being heartless!!! please do your research on what low-empathy actually means), shits on men who aren’t independent yet and live with their parents, shits on men who struggle to control their anger, shits on men who don’t understand social norms well and therefore accidentally say rude things without intending offense, shits on men who have poor emotional awareness, shits on men who use media like video games to escape, aka shits on men for literally every symptom of autism/Aspergers ever*
you guys love autistic people until we show actual symptoms other than “uwu cute hand-flapping and shyness and stuffed animals!!”…. then we’re weird and gross and creepy. ASD is called a social disorder for a reason, it makes it hard to socialize and function in the world like most people. Please be more patient and less ableist.
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someone: I like men :)
freaks: uhhh honey why would you say this? why do ya want male validation so bad? men don’t love you back so?
freaks: oh nevermind you’re a mlm blog uwu so cute gay rights!
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imagine if cishet men thirst posted like tumblr gays "hmnnhnhn..... girls 😳" i would send myself to the psych ward
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