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tendermelanina · 11 hours
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having sex with your friends is so very normal please stop poisoning the youths minds with shame surrounding hooking up with your friends. especially if you’re gay
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tendermelanina · 11 hours
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maybe this is the end of everything but also, maybe this is the beginning. maybe in 1000 years people are gonna look back and go 'oh what archaic times. they were so mean to each other.' what if there IS a future without war, without oppression. what if there's a gentler world out there waiting for us to catch up. what if --oh God-- what if the meek DO inherit the earth? what if everything changes? what if we heal?
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tendermelanina · 11 hours
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”getting thicker skin” is great in theory but I think for some people “get better at handling your thin skin” is gonna be way more helpful advice. I have strong emotional reactions to criticism and they might never go away, but i can continue to try and handle each situation maturely and that’s the important part. Sometimes irrational feelings are chronic and living with them is better than trying to beat yourself up into not having them.
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tendermelanina · 11 hours
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to every liberal who wants to sanitize the black panther party and make them seem like harmless liberal pacifists
They were opposed to the United States government.
They supported violent self-defense against police and eventual armed revolution.
This is a good thing.
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tendermelanina · 11 hours
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aloof trans women who are brash and graceless and boyish and dont pass well i have so much love for you in my heart keep going i want to see more of it
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tendermelanina · 16 hours
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where is fairuzfan?? their blog is gone
She got spontaneously terminated by Tumblr !!! She’s trying to get in contact w Tumblr Support rn !!!!
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tendermelanina · 16 hours
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can we just have, like, any feminist movement whatsoever. did everyone just stop caring?
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tendermelanina · 16 hours
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A WoC: *has an opinion based in facts and life experience about colorism, fandom racism, and how the treatment of WoC differs to white women in hollywood*
the White Feminists™ jackals: MISOGYNIST!!!! HOW DARE YOU BRING UP YOUR RACE IN THIS DISCOURSE™!!!! THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT!! WE DONT SEE #COLOR!!! IN FACT, YOURE THE ONE BEING RACIST HERE, HOW DARE YOU NOT SUPPORT OUR NEW WHITE FEMALE FAVE™!!! HOW DARE U PICK THE MoC OVER HER!!! ANTI WOMAN!!!! 
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tendermelanina · 16 hours
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tendermelanina · 17 hours
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The spirit of Diogenes is alive and well
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tendermelanina · 17 hours
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i told my friend’s dad that he was hot (it was in context with the conversation, he was complaining that he was feeling old, etc), and he said a very genuine thank you and the conversation moved on to other topic, my friend was now talking about something else entirely when his dad goes
“i think if i were born in your generation i might have been bisexual”
and friend got kinda mad at me lmao
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tendermelanina · 19 hours
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I remain shocked. I will never get used to the cruelty of white supremacy. How do you just terminate a blog that's currently mobilizing to save people's lives in Gaza. like this place is actually run by fucking fascists. the masters tools will never demolish the masters house but wow. just wow.
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tendermelanina · 19 hours
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tendermelanina · 19 hours
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Im becoming a therapist and starting a unique therapy practice where I teach black and white thinking and binary emotions. No i don’t take insurance im in it for the money
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tendermelanina · 19 hours
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Allowing a Palestinian blogger to just be terminated out of nowhere sets an extremely dangerous precedent not only for other Palestinian bloggers, but also the pro-Palestine movement in general. Med already dealt with this when their previous blog, helpgazachildren, got spontaneously terminated as well. This should not be normalized behavior on the Tumblr staff’s part. We should always be highlighting and checking deliberate targeting campaigns like this.
To bring this to the staff’s attention, please contact Tumblr Support directly and relay Med’s (@fairuzfan) termination to them, as well as the reasons why it’s not fair conduct. The key is to specify that it’s a terminated account under the category dropdown—otherwise Tumblr won’t get to it as quickly.
Please reblog this so people can report this en masse. The fact that this is twice now that this has happened is insane. Tumblr did not get back to Med when she tried to contact them about helpgazachildren, so I feel as though this needs to be spotlighted for Tumblr to address it in any way.
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tendermelanina · 19 hours
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So tumblr staff didn't just delete 1 blog of Med's without warning (fairuzfan), they deleted 2. The first blog was helpgazachildren, which was Med's blog to campaign for donation drives for Hussam who distributes basic necessities on the ground in Ghazzah. They have consistently shown proof of acquisition and distribution of goods as results for every donation drive. There is no reason to kill this blog other than to kill the Palestinian children and adults alike that rely on it for survival. Make no mistake, the actions of this company, Tumblr, and its CEO have real life consequences for the people who use it as a lifeline for survival.
That makes up an entire section of the people trying to survive genocide in Ghazzah. And now with both of Med's blogs gone, there is no recourse.
Tumblr is going to be the reason for the death of several Palestinians. And if I'm right in suspecting they're taking my blog down next, this will happen to the groups served by both Mona, and Hussam, and the families who have contacted me through this website and are relying on my fundraising campaigns to get to safety. This is not a minor issue.
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tendermelanina · 20 hours
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Allowing a Palestinian blogger to just be terminated out of nowhere sets an extremely dangerous precedent not only for other Palestinian bloggers, but also the pro-Palestine movement in general. Med already dealt with this when their previous blog, helpgazachildren, got spontaneously terminated as well. This should not be normalized behavior on the Tumblr staff’s part. We should always be highlighting and checking deliberate targeting campaigns like this.
To bring this to the staff’s attention, please contact Tumblr Support directly and relay Med’s termination to them, as well as the reasons why it’s not fair conduct. The key is to specify that it’s a terminated account under the category dropdown—otherwise Tumblr won’t get to it as quickly.
Please reblog this so people can report this en masse. The fact that this is twice now that this has happened is insane. Tumblr did not get back to Med when she tried to contact them about helpgazachildren, so I feel as though this needs to be spotlighted for Tumblr to address it in any way.
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