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tao-lay · 8 hours
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There’s no such thing as work-life balance for neurodivergent & chronically ill people.
This is because everything in my life requires work:
maintaining friendships
keeping up with my hygiene
managing bills
making money
remembering my basic needs
sleeping regularly
outputting creatively
All requires some aspect of work for me.
And when everything in your life requires work, your balance goes out the window.
If you're neurodivergent and overwhelmed — I see you.
If you're chronically ill and overwhelmed — I see you.
You're not dysfunctional.
You're not incapable.
You're doing your best.
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tao-lay · 13 hours
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say it again, daddy!
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tao-lay · 13 hours
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society really lost the war when dressing nice / slutty = “gay” “metrosexual” “is he 💅🏻”. we had decades of men wearing crop tops and short shorts without blinking an eye and now it’s ye ole pilgrim standards and talk of scandal if they show their knees
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tao-lay · 2 days
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this post is for you. yes, you! you are so deserving of a good, happy, content life. you are so strong and resilient, and i am proud of you. you will make it through all this hardship and come out the other side doing better than ever.
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a quick UPA inspired Starscream
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tao-lay · 2 days
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its just so funny how an aunt (dad's sister) who i never even grew up knowing tried to snap back at me on the facebook messages group chat by saying "wow, you're really your father's daughter" after i called her out respectfully to not blame my dad for his outrage on certain things happening.
like?
woman? u think thats supposed to hurt me? i dont even know you. i will be taking that as a compliment, thanks.
goodness, the older generation are so fucking annoying lmao.
if this happened to me when i was in my teenage years, i would be apologizing to that old hag. but lol guess what, im almost in my thirties and i honestly dont give a damn what she thinks about me.
also lmao, this is the second time aunts are getting heated at me for me talking back and defending my parents. when i did this last for my mom was back in 2020 and that wrecked me when my aunts disowned me, because i knew them and they knew me. but this time? for my dad? i dont even know this old lady, she could be a fucking karen for all i care lol.
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kamikaze girls (2004)
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⋆˙⟡♡ a love story in two parts ⋆˙⟡♡ these two risograph prints are available in my shop!
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jennette mccurdy should be allowed to hunt nickelodeon past and present execs for sport
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super high school level BESTIEEE
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tao-lay · 2 days
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LIFE UPDATE: I GOT MY TOOTH EXTRACTED YESTERDAY AND I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER <333
tldr: tooth hurty, i am feral
want to punch smth to feel whole again bc my toothache is taking me the fuck out frfr i literally cannot function well all my life force is getting drained from nursing the pain holy fucking hell
it has been several hours after the dentist visit and theyve given me meds for the pain and antibiotics too (it hurts bc of an abscess) (FUN TIMES WOW) but the meds arent kicking in yet and the pain meds are just dulling the pain and not really covering them up entirely and the pain reappears after 4 hours on the dot
im watching the clock tick by bc i get to drink a second round of antibiotics after 30 mins and i cant wait to kick the abscess away with meds i want to cry
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tao-lay · 3 days
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soooo this happened on today's episode 💨
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