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talktomyselftoomuch · 6 years
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Watch Disney & Disney Pixar Movies For Free!
Make sure to have an adblocker enabled! And never download anything from free movie sites.
🍿 Finding Nemo
🍿 Shark Tale
🍿 Mulan
🍿 Mulan 2
🍿 Brave
🍿 Cars
🍿 Cars 2
🍿 Planes
🍿 Planes 2
🍿 The Little Mermaid
🍿 The Little Mermaid 2
🍿 Aladdin
🍿 The Return of Jafar
🍿 Aladdin and the King of Thieves
🍿 Bambi
🍿 Bambi 2
🍿 Wall-E
🍿 Up
🍿 Bolt
🍿 The Incredibles
🍿 Tangled
🍿 Tangled Ever After
🍿 Beauty and the Beast
🍿 Toy Story
🍿 Toy Story 2
🍿 Toy Story 3
🍿 Shrek
🍿 Shrek 2
🍿 Shrek 3
🍿 Puss in Boots
🍿 Tarzan
🍿 Tarzan 2
🍿 Peter Pan
🍿 Tinker Bell
🍿 Chicken Little
🍿 The Jungle Book
🍿 The Jungle Book 2
🍿 Cinderella
🍿 Sleeping Beauty
🍿 Robin Hood
🍿 Alice in Wonderland
🍿 Snow White and the Seven Dwarves
🍿 Frozen
🍿 The Lion King
🍿 The Lion King 2
🍿 Pinocchio
🍿 The Hunchback of Notre Dame
🍿 Lilo & Stitch
🍿 Hercules
🍿 The Aristocats
🍿 Pocahontas
🍿 The Princess and the Frog
🍿 Treasure Planet
🍿 The Emperor’s New Groove
🍿 Wreck-It-Ralph
🍿 Dinosaur
🍿 Monsters, Inc.
🍿Monster’s University
🍿 Ratatouille
🍿 Atlantis
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talktomyselftoomuch · 6 years
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I just want
I just want to be babied, I want to have strict rules. I need someone to tell me what to do. I feel out of control and need to be little. I just wanna be told no
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Just curious
Reblog if you and your blog is:
A safe haven open for people of any gender
A safe haven open for people of any race
A safe haven open for people of any sexuality
A safe haven open for people to be themselves
A safe haven open for you to be yourself
Also reblog if you don’t like your safe haven being ruined by bad stuff- hate, discouraging comments, bullying, and other bad things.
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Things that put me in Puppy Space!
👉🏻small crunchy snacks like dry cereal 👉🏻beef jerky 👉🏻when my hair is in pigtails 👉🏻chokers 👉🏻my ears and tail 👉🏻watching Pokémon 👉🏻sitting on the floor 👉🏻when someone plays with my hair 👉🏻head pats 👉🏻butt wiggles
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I’m clingy
I’m clingy. No matter who you are.
I’m clingy with my friends. I will always give you a hug. I will hold your hand while we walk around the store. I will dance with you at party’s.
I’m clingy with my family. I say hello and goodbye with hugs. I cuddle with them on the couch. I sneak up behind them for surprise hugs.
I’m clingy with my boyfriend. I worm my way into his lap when he is gaming. I hold his arm when we’re in public. I’m always asking for more kisses. I lay right next to him at bedtime and put my head on his chest.
Just know that I’m clingy. It’s just a fact of life.
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talktomyselftoomuch · 6 years
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When Baby is on her Period
-she might be more little or less little than normal. Listen to your babies cues and hints. If she is feeling little, treat her little. If she is feeling big, treat her big. Don’t try and coax her into feeling big or little, just let her be where she needs to be. 
-She might be in a limbo stage. Not big or little. Give as many choices as possible, cup or sippy for example. But don’t force her to choose. If she cant choose, get her both. That way one minute she can be big, and the next little. This is helpful because just like mood swings are prevalent during this time, switching between big and little also happens, at least to me.  
-be understanding, give punishments less frequently and less harshly. Try to remember that she is probably in pain and is just trying to express it. If you would normally give spankings for doing something, try lines, or corner time, and if you do give punishments during this time, after care is so important! She is probably very emotional and vulnerable right now and need reassurance. 
-Get her some medicine and a cup of water or juice to help her get it down. Your baby is probably in pain and medicine helps so much. Basically the only time I ever take pain killers in during this week.  
-If baby wants cuddles, she should get them. If she wants to be left alone, leave her be for a bit. 
-LOTS of liquids. If your baby wants a special drink, try and get it for her, unless its alcohol. If you normal don’t let her have soda, consider it once or twice during this week. She is losing LOTS of fluid, and it needs to be replenished. Water and juice are the best, but any drink gets some liquid back in her system, except for alcohol. I always like to have like three cups at all times during this week. Three different drinks in three types of cups.  Maybe a cup of coffee, a bottle of juice, and a sippy of water. This way I can have lots of choices.
-Try to remind her to change her pad or tampon. I know this may be awkward for some, but if she is feeling extra little it might be hard for her to remember. Try to give reminders every two hours to be safe. 
-snacks and meals. Similar to drinks, try to be lenient.  She still should be eating healthy, but if she has a craving, try to get it. If she wants mac and cheese, try and make some, but also make her favorite veggie. She might not want it, but it will help if you get it ready. If she is not hungry, I never want to eat during this week, encourage her by making some of her favorite foods and snacks and give her the choices. Don’t force her to eat, but if you keep her favorite foods around and ready, it will help her find the will to eat. 
-Your baby might be more tired than usual, encourage naps and rest time. 
-Set up a bathie or shower for her. Warm baths are the best, but if that isn’t an option, get her a warm shower towel and help her get in. Getting the energy to get up and actually take a bath or shower is hard, but it helps so much! She will feel much better during and after. 
-If you can’t be with her, like if you need to go to work, send as many cute messages as you can. It makes us feel really special and loved. 
-If she needs to go to work, remind her that it’s very important. If she needs to take a sick day, that’s fine, but encourage her to only do it once. Usually for me its the first 24 hours that’s the worst.
-Set up her favorite show or movie and lay her down. If you have a TV in the bedroom, her bed is probably the best place. Lots of pillows and blankets, so she can sit or lay. I always get cold, and then hot, so try to have a fan and blankets so she can switch back and forth. Ask if she want to watch a big show, or a little show, but again don’t force her to pick. If she can’t make a choice try a teen movie or show, something she might like to watch no matter what she is feeling, or if you have a special show you two like to watch together do that. 
-Ask your baby if she needs anything. Try to be helpful in any way you can. 
-Remember that even if your baby is fussy she still loves you and really appreciates all the things you do to help her. Emotions always run high during this week. She might be really sad, really happy, really mad. It might switch every few minutes. Keep a level head. If you get emotional, it won’t help. 
-remind her constantly she is beautiful, cute, sexy, loved. She might be feeling really self conscious, bloated, or just ugly in general. -Never ever blame a littles behavior or emotions on her period, even if you know that’s why. Yes, we are more emotional or likely to act out, but NEVER say “are you acting out/being bratty because of your period?” Our feelings are still valid and very real.
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What to do when your little is sick
Figure out what they are sick with. 
This may require a visit to the clinic… which is scary! “I don waaaannna Daddy! Don make me!” CAN NOT be the end of the discussion. Your little needs to see the doctor and her is how to help. If it is possible for you to make the appointment do it, if not write a script for your little to read so they don’t forget anything important.
“Hi I’m _(full name)_ I need to set an appointment with _(dr name)_to get _(tested for/ checked for)_”
Stay with your little while they call the doctor, have them put the phone on speaker so you can listen and help with questions by prompting your little with the correct response.
Go to the doctor. This is going to be difficult. Accept that now so we can move on. Here’s how to make it slightly better.
-bring a stuffie. The doctor won’t mind, I’ve always brought a stuffed animal to the doctors and no one ever says anything
-bribe your little. The promise of ice cream, extra cuddles candy, a new toy, all of these will be good motivation for your little.
-go in with your little (if they want) if your little says they want you in the room the doctor should be okay with it.
-hold your littles hand and offer reassurance and encouragement throughout the appointment
-get the strep test, or blood test or what ever you need done. Calming words, hand holding, and reminders of new stuffie to come, or inside jokes are all appropriate here, and should be given constantly. This is the scariest part.
-get the medicine. That’s why we came here. Go to the pharmacy with your little and get the medicine. Also get any OTC medication you may need.
Now that the worst part is over go home, and get your little comfy. Pajamas, onesies, pillows, blankets, stuffies, everything. Set your little up with anything they need to be comfy. make sure they have something to drink, preferably in a sippy or bottle. Make some soup. basiclly anything that a mom does for a sick kid. Thats what you should do. 
Once your little is a settled in spend some time with them and help them be little. Watch little shows with them. Play with stuffies with them. Help them feel safe and small and cared for. 
warm baths always help sick littles feel better. 
long naps and early nights. Sick littles need lots of sleep and rest. 
lots of cuddles!
oranges. just lots of oranges. and juice. trust me. 
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Cheesy Things to Make Any Little Smile
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*Seeing a new stuffie* Oh wow! He/She/It is almost as cool/beautiful as you!
You know you look even more smol than you feel, cutie.
You look great today, but I bet you’d look even better on my shoulders!
Have I told you that you’re adorable and I love you in the last 5 seconds?
Do you know how cute your stuffies think you are? They told me they’re too embarrassed to admit it in front of you.
*Pushes them behind me and grabs their hand when someone tries to come up and talk to them*
I’ll pay you three kisses to do that, but I only have a five. Can you make change?
You’re a lot warmer than my blankets. Help a daddy out? 
Alright we can cuddle but to get into my bed you’re going to have to pay the toll: One bear hug. Give me all you’ve got, little one. >:3
<U3, Because U will always be big in my heart! 
I tried to write you a song but I can’t put words to beauty I can’t comprehend.
*Gives them a spiderman kiss on the nose when they’re laying on the couch*
Goodnight, little one. Rest easy and may your dreams be as sweet as you! <3
*Gives a small kiss on the back of their neck while they stand their and grab their hands from behind* I love you.
🐻💜🐻💜💜🐻💜💜💜🐻💜💜🐻💜🐻
There are all sorts of sweet and cheesy things you can do and anyone can do to make their little one smile. I didn’t list tons here but I am one who definitely goes over the top with this stuff at times.
You could say I’m…
Mac and Cheesy
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YEAHHHHHHHHH!!
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*after hearing Daddy cuss*
Little: That’s a dollar in the swear jar.
Daddy: That word doesn’t count
Little: But…I can’t say it
Daddy: You’re little. I’m big. There’s nothing else to it.
Little: *stumped* Fine.
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talktomyselftoomuch · 6 years
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Rules: Why Giving a Little Rules is NOT Comandeering (in most cases)
Hello, littles, caregivers, and the like! This post is being made especially for new caregivers who think that by giving their littles rules they are being too comandeering, bossy, disrespectful, etc…
You aren’t.
In fact, many littles need rules to help induce regression and boost their security and comfort levels with you. If your little mentions wanting rules in a conversation, don’t be put off by it or feel like your regular activities aren’t enough to satisfy their little needs. When life gets extraordinarily hard or stressful, we get antsy. We don’t regress as easily or when we do we don’t feel “good” or like we make you proud and that can take a lot out of us.
Some of the benefits of having and enforcing rules:
· Support; When we follow the rules and do well and receive praise, we feel like we actually earned the praise and feel happy to make you proud.
· Structure; We feel like we aren’t losing control in life, we have something to adhere to.
· Self-Care; The more rules we have pertaining to self-care, the happier and healthier we will be, which in turn will boost our confidence and ability to regress.
That being said, rules aren’t always easy to just create so I will list some below as examples. Please please please make sure to discuss rules with your little, add more or take away some over time, don’t enforce something they aren’t comfortable with and be patient.
If your little is breaking rules there could be more to it than simple disobedience. At times, littles may break rules when they are struggling with mental health or when they are feeling unstable and questioning whether or not you will actually enforce them. If they get upset when you do try to enforce them, it is likely the first option. In this scenario, slow down and please take care of them first. Comfort them, find the problem, and remind them that you love them regardless of their acting out and that you are proud of them. This can be crucial in having a happy little. However, if they don’t become agitated or emotional after you enforce a rule, then they were likely testing your reactions. Still, make sure to ask them why they acted out and make sure there isnt an underlying problem.
Examples of rules that may be beneficial to you and your little:
· Bedtimes (keep in mind their current sleep schedule and wean them into a new one if it is necessary. Be patient)
· Language use (potty mouths arent always acceptable, but if your little swears a lot in big space please be lenient!)
· Manners (Please, thank you, nice words, food manners, etc…)
· Tasks (If you know you will be busy, give your little something to acconplish for when you come back; i.e, color a picture, draw, write, clean something up, etc. Put it in a nice way like “Maybe while (daddy/mommy/other title) is out you can (task)? I would really like to see it.”)
· Confidence Boosting (no self-depreciation, insults, neglect, or harm. Remind them that when they are mean to themselves it makes daddy/mommy/title sad)
Discuss goals with your little and make rules gradually based off of those goals. Sometimes the base rules I listed above are not sufficient or beneficial for each individual case.
Rule Enforcement:
When enforcing rules please utilize a warning system. Don’t immediately jump to punishments or discipline, ESPECIALLY when you are trying to train your little away from a habit or self-hate. This can lead to more harm than good and cause your little to lose trust in you. Remind them of their rules, warn them, and then discipline.
Good SFW Punishments/Discipline:
· Writing lines (“I will not…” 25 times)
· Corner time (gradually increase time if they act up multiple times)
· Chores/Not fun tasks (discuss this first for sure)
· Take away screen time (No video games or TV until they apologize or complete a task)
The main point is to think as if you were disciplining an actual child. Never take away comfort items such as stuffies, blankies, pacis, and the like as that can again just cause harm and instability.
Don’t discipline out of anger, or snap at your little. They will not learn and will feel unsafe.
I know this was a bit of a longer post but I hope it helped!
Much love and happy regressing!!!
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When a little needs to go to bed
Daddy: It’s already late little one, lets go to bed
Little: But Daddyyy i’m not tired yet
Daddy: Littles need sleep to have enough energy tomorrow
Little: Daddy you will come sleep with me right?
Daddy: Daddy has some work to finish first
Little: Okays Daddy, night night. *Takes her stuffie with her*
Daddy: Looks after her and thinks thats my girl
~ Some minutes later
Daddy: Walks into bedroom and sees little sleeping with stuffies an blankies. Goes in bed next to little
Little: Making little noises “mmhmm”
Daddy: Kisses little on her head
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Being a caregiver is essentially just learning how to negotiate with very stubborn people and learning the power of bribery. We’re helping you learn valuable life skills, you’re welcome.
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How do you know if you're a little? Advice to understand it ...? Thank :D
It’s kinda an answer you have to find within yourself, but for me it started with seeing posts about being little and the dynamics of having a caregiver and I was like oh that sounds nice, I would like that! Then I realized my best friend kinda treated me like that already. Especially when I was tired and wouldn’t go to bed she would be very firm and “make me”. I realized I feel very out of control when I’m stressed and I like to feel like someone else can handle it or just handle me. I love being told what to do when the person knows what’s good for me, because that means I can listen and not have to worry. It kinda took me a while to get there and realize I was a little. But I love stuffed animals, always have, I love fuzzy things, and cute pastel colors, I love coloring and cute tv shows, these are things I always loved but it makes more sense now why. I hope this helped. But honestly if you have a suspicion you are a little, you probably are! ;) I hope you have a wonderful day! And that this was semi informative! 💕
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