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tuiyla · 2 years

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Blaine says I'm drunk AND I'm sorry. Not "I did it because I was drunk." What Kurt was most upset about wasn't the touching, it was canonically that Blaine wanted to have sex while he was drunk and in a car instead of their first time being special. It makes sense that Blaine brought up being drunk in his apology bc it's what Kurt called him out on.

Make no mistake, I'm not saying what he did was ok. It was really bad and he shouldn't have touched Kurt no matter whether or not Blaine was drunk. But there's a huge misconception around his apology where people think Blaine/the show is excusing his actions bc Blaine brought up being drunk, when actually there was a reason for that.

He also doesn't mock Kurt? Wtf? He just says "who cares where we are." In the whole ep he keeps telling Kurt that it's not silly or stupid to want a special first time. And in that actual scene he talks about wanting to be spontaneous. He doesn't mock Kurt at all.

also like you said, "not talked about enough" is so inaccurate. It's one of the most discussed topics and is the biggest reason why people hate Blaine.

Sorry for venting. You don't need to post this or answer if you don't want. I just hate the misconceptions that so many people have ab this ep.

Since I really do not have many eggs in this basket and have said all I can, I'll be closing this discussion here but you took the time to write all this down so I'll be publishing this as well just to cap it off.

I really think all perspectives are valid here, because it is an upsetting scene but ultimately it is Blaine being stupid for which he apologizes and is forgiven. Kurt's feelings are so, so valid here, so is his hurt, but he as a character ultimately forgave Blaine for all aspects of the debacle. It was very shitty of Blaine to do any of it and I do think there's a devaluing of Kurt's wants but it's still a mistake to do that, part of the mistake that's later forgiven.

Like I said to other anon, people will judge this episode by different standards and I think that's fair. Personally, I judge it all as one big mess lmao and the saving grace is just WSS itself (well, y'all know which parts I mean). It's a messy topic and I can see why it's controversial.

Thanks all for keeping it civil, I wasn't sure what to expect when this convo started but I think we managed to keep it chill. I have one more ask about this but that opens the topic up to a more general Glee one so that's why I'll still be answering that even though I'm kinda "closing" this one.

#glee asks #anon #klaine asks #i should go back and tag this 3x05 thread #eh

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