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suspicious-whumping-egg · 7 months

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Does anyone else see red when a dude (usually cishet) says "oh I won't fight girls" as if it's some moral high horse when it's really just misogyny and the implication that anyone with an estrogen based endocrine system is inherently weaker... like if you wanna say "i won't fight someone unless it's fair" that's a perfectly good moral to have, but don't fucking bring biological essentialism into it.

#not surprisingly this same friend who said this is also the one who misgenders me the most #like he tries but holy shit #holy. shit.#we were joking about which friend would beat who in a fight and i was like “yeah (this person) would totally beat me”#and he was like “i mean in theory but i don't hit women... i mean i don't hit anyone born female”#making your misogyny and biological essentialism inclusive of identity DOESNT MAKE IT ANY BETTER #i am seeing red #we sorta fought abt it this morning and he texted me now pissed that i “challenged that moral” like geez #im not challenging the moral of not fighting someone if they cant fight back #im challenging the fact that youre bringing biological essentialism into it #the punchline of this all is that he HAS TWO MOMS #they did NOT raise him like this #he's so sweet and sensitive and nice about everything else but jfc

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