When you spend an extra bazillion dollars on a SoCal house so it has a decent grassy yard and she decides it’s better to sleep between the sprinkler system and hot tub heater on the concrete. #cali #laylolife #thedivorcestrategist #peacekindnesshopesass #fitness #wellness #bringingkindnesstochaos #sillydogs #giantschnauzerproblems 🦏🐾 https://www.instagram.com/laylo.life/p/ByT9mUWJB3Y/?igshid=1a6c1e3w4furm

#3 tho...❤️ #laylolife #thedivorcestrategist #bringingkindnesstochaos #peacekindnesshopesass #fitness #wellness #reality 🦏 https://www.instagram.com/p/BwV216fpJSO/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1oh4mxoz43r7q

Me, when people ask me why I have a rhino emoji in my hashtags. I love this gentle giant: Tough on the outside, mellow on the inside. I won’t hurt you if you won’t hurt me attitude. It really saddens me to think that one day the only place these beautiful creatures may live is in the zoo. I have a few charities I’m passionate about supporting and @rhinosirf is one of them! 🦏 #laylolife #rhino #chubbyunicorn #fitness #wellness #thedivorcestrategist #bringingkindnesstochaos #peacekindnesshopesass 🦏💗🦏 https://www.instagram.com/p/BwzT2UOpDrW/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1h7q2muegt2f9

There is no race. There is no finish line. The goal is to upgrade YOU. To be a better version of you. Every. Single. Day. For the rest of your life. #laylolife #wellness #fitness #selfcare #thedivorcestrategist #bringingkindnesstochaos #peacekindnesshopesass #thereisnofinishline 🦏 https://www.instagram.com/p/Bwxld8FJvYY/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=qlv7oi4cwfjf

Mental health and wellness included!! #laylolife #wellness #fitness #selfcare #onebody #thedivorcestrategist #bringingkindnesstochaos #peacekindnesshopesass 💪🏻🦏💗 https://www.instagram.com/p/BwiUwqDJMZc/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=w15iknhybej3

Writing prep... #laylolife #thedivorcestrategist #bringingkindnesstochaos #peacekindnesshopesass #bubbleyum #writingprocess 🦏 https://www.instagram.com/p/BwdLIyTpNpP/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1llmvllz9xi38

Change can be scary. It might even be negative - at first. But moving through it, you learn and grow. And change. It’s all good. #laylolife #thedivorcestrategist #bringingkindnesstochaos #peacekindnesshopesass #wellness #selfcare #fitness 🦏 https://www.instagram.com/p/Bwa-w_DJ94D/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1b115uhlw2yb7

As a habitual question asker, I’m loving this book!! #laylolife #thedivorcestrategist #bringingkindnesstochaos #peacekindnesshopesass #wellness #fitness #leadership #leadersarereaders #learnersareearners 🦏 https://www.instagram.com/p/BwZtSWsJ2pg/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=mke8el82l8h1

Sunday = post-weight training pistachios and peacefulness with all my “shoulds” parked in a corner. #laylolife #thedivorcestrategist #bringingkindnesstochaos #wellness #fitness #selfcare 🦏 https://www.instagram.com/p/BvHukbVBtgV/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=m0amjhr3a3a4

Knowing is not necessary to start. The knowledge comes from the journey. Find your North Star and follow that. #laylolife #thedivorcestrategist #bringingkindnesstochaos #fitness #wellness #juststart 🦏 https://www.instagram.com/p/Bu81yS5ju3b/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=pu1uxr3k92l5

Because you’re you. Tough but fair, struggling but determined, fabulous but doubtful. Rich, complex, and wonderful. #laylolife #thedivorcestrategist #bringingkindnesstochaos #wellness #fitness 🦏

You know, when you’re having “one of those days” and you cannot seem to shake it? Tomorrow is a do-over! Sometimes you just have to accept the present moment as is, warts and all. Let it happen, and then let it go. Aim for fabulousness #tomorrow‼️ #laylolife #thedivorcestrategist #bringingkindnesstochaos #wellness #fitness 🦏 https://www.instagram.com/p/BuCg5UbhVjM/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=6ai4p6owry7w

Not a doormat. Not afraid to hold others (or self!) #accountable - just doing so from a place of #kindness. #benice #laylolife #thedivorcestrategist #wellness #fitness #bringingkindnesstochaos 🦏 https://www.instagram.com/p/Bp18cB5FNEZ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=sx69sijl1mlm

Sometimes you taking care of yourself is going to piss some people off. You’re no longer convenient, no longer buying in to b. s., or they’ve flat out been lied to about you. You will NEVER please everyone. Even when you go out of your way to do no harm sometimes someone is going to perceive your actions to be other than your intentions. Oh well. #laylolife #thedivorcestrategist #bringingkindnesstochaos #doyou #selfcare #fitness #wellness 🦏 https://www.instagram.com/p/Bo9GXejH85b/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1aimjdv1wpk3

One of the most incredible phrases I’ve heard is “We’re going to figure this out” 🐙 People that immediately jump to “how can I help?” are the true heroes in my book. #laylolife #thedivorcestrategist #wellness #fitness #bringingkindnesstochaos 🦏 https://www.instagram.com/p/BqG2Qhhl9yH/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1flj93yxpyoh4

This made me smile - and want pizza. #laylolife #thedivorcestrategist #recycle #bringingkindnesstochaos #fitness #wellness 🦏 🍕 https://www.instagram.com/p/Bp8PAX2FpGc/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=r8bcvm3x6ief