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shiro-0197 · 3 years

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Hiiii, Cookie :) I wanted to give you a fast reply since I'm online and free now, so yeah (BUT DONT WORRY, YOU CAN SEND ME YOUR RESPONSE TOMORROW!)

It was a pretty stressful day indeed. A lot happened :// but thankfully it's all resolved :') how was your day, did anything interesting happen?

AHH these days I do try to make tea for myself every morning, so I hope that's something, tho I don't usually eat. But I really will start.

I really hope so!! My teacher told us we might have a mock debate when school starts, and I really cannot wait >.< 사랑해, 시로... (That's “I love you, Shiro” in Korean)

of course. It would be my honour to cheer you up if you were ever feeling down 💖💖💖✨✨

that's a really good idea!! My favourite go-to snack are actually cookies and milk... I'm like Kageyama (tho personality-wise, I'm oikawa. I think. Wby?), I just really love milk, and cookies go along well with it so yeah 😣😣✨ I see! Yeah, your love for cheese is the most adorable thing ever, I love cheese too, tho probably not as much as you 😝 but I mean oop cheese and milk are both dairy soooo—

I'd also like to ask you, favourite animal? Mine's cats and snakes (which are a pretty odd pair tbh) but cats are just SO CUTE and I love them, and snakes are just SO COOL, and I also love them 😭😳💖

thank you for reminding me, cookie :> I'll certainly remember not to overwork myself. And a books event?? That actually sounds so cool please tell me about it. Was it like a book fair, or a book review thing?? I'm glad you don't mind me talking about it. yeah... My club is pretty important to me, since my members voted me as president in January, and I really don't wanna let them down...

You're really precious to me, Shiro, and I really really love you, so much. It's okay if you can't express it, because honestly, I can't either, and "I love you" doesn't seem to be enough, but I really appreciate you :) gonna sleep soon, hope you're sleeping too <3

—Ari

Hey hey!! I was actually having a hard time falling asleep, thankfully its holidays tomorrow (it's the Independence Day for us, hehe) so I can sleep in~

I'm really glad its resolved now, I'm really proud of you for doing all that work <33 nothing really interesting happened to me, except I had called up my friend and we decided to make a fan-haikyuu team because we're weebs like that xD

That's really nice to hear, tbh I cant function without a cup of tea or coffee in the morning... literally, I have a terrible headache if I dont have breakfast -u-

Ohhh that sounds so fun!! Good luck if it does happen:D 愛します、ありちゃん~！！

Ohhh!!! Cookies and milk are wonderful, too!! Sadly I dont get to have those +cereal a lot since we buy small cartons of milk (probably the size of one's palm) and we only use it for tea😩 personality-wise I'm a mix between Tsukki and Yamaguchi, with a hint of Kuroo and Oikawa here and there XD tbh sometimes I dont understand my personality, and it was pretty hard to take the MBTI test, hehe

Ahhh imglad you find it adorable lmaooo, I try to add cheese EVERYWHERE so that's why I love making quiches, cuz that's like the easiest way to sneak a lot of cheese into something XD mom doesn't really like it when i use a lot of cheese, probs because it's kind of expensive, so I get that. Still, even that doesnt stop me from devouring a whole block of cheese in 3 seconds, you know?

My favorite animal... probably birds, frogs and toads. I really dont know why. Mom got a parrot for my birthday when I turned 13, and I loved it so much it turned into an addiction😭 then I was getting frog pictures in my insta feed and started interacting with them, which lead to more frog pics and more love for them to grow:D But, to be honest, I like all the animals. They're all so cute, majestic and yet funny, somehow?? And theres so many different kinds and species and they're all so beautiful~

You better do, or I'll break into your house and babysit you<3

It was like, a reading event, where we count pages we read throughout the week, and the one to read the most wins a prize. Sadly, you cant choose the book you want to read as they chose those and created an app with those books only:( then we had an exam, to ensure we actually read those and didnt just add 20 pages in a day. It was pretty fun to watch my classmates ask each other for the answers, because they did indeed add 20 pages in a day without reading the books. Amateurs🤪

I really feel what you mean, when people choose you it's like ... a huge relief and a gigantic amount of pressure at the same time. Please remember that not everything has to turn out perfect, so dont give yourself a burnout because of that or something!! Take care♡♡♡

And, before we go to sleep, I just wanna say that if you were an element, you’d be Francium, because you’re the most attractive😝

Good night!! I love you a lot❤❤❤❤ I hope you sleep well<33

#Ari💕#♡♡♡#love youuu #you are my angelllll

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honeyfreckled · 5 years

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we have talked a few times and im sorry for this but you are the most accepting and easiest person to talk to honestly i dont have many people in my life i can tell anything real to. but the thing is ive been thinging about relapsing a lot more since i broke up with my boyfriend and i work with him so it makes work depressing and impossible to get through a day without crying sorry this is anon but i am scared ily dont hate me i am not trying to stress you out

ok wow first lemme just say: I DO NOT HATE U. EVER.

and don’t be srry i don’t have a lotta ppl irl i can tell my shit to so i get it. pls know u can always ALWAYS ALWAYS come to me, and u dont gotta be scared to come off anon. i get it and it’s ok if u prefer it that way- but pls know i dont keep it on alot bc i get hate and then i turn it off bc i gotta look out for myself and dont post all the hate bc i dont wanna bring yall down or give them the satisfaction of knowing i have given it a read and response. so u can message me or make a sideblog or idk im just saying this so if it’s off later u dont blame yrself or feel scared to come off anon. ok sorelapse is a real thing and it’s fucked and hard and addiction is fucked up and a real life struggle and we dont treat addicts w the real tenderness, respect, kindness, and acceptance they deserve. but u DO deserve it. and there are hotlines, apps, churches, groups, chatrooms/boards, and sites that are more versed in what are the appropriate things to say to u- i say this bc while i’ve been thru it w loved ones i have not myself struggled w addiction w substances. my addictions were to self harm and victimhood so those are the things i searched for help on. but if it’s alright i’d like to give u some tips or things i used and have heard work for addicts of substances

places like i said like churches, groups, chatrooms, sites, apps, hotlines the apps and hotlines are good if u cant travel or want to talk to ppl who wont share their story bc maybe u cant hear it like its not the kinda help ur looking for. hotlines are sometimes tricky bc some of those folks are not educated they are volunteers so judgment leaks thru and in that case u ask to be redirected and report that volunteer so hopefully they dont repeat that kinda mess to other vulnerable folks looking for help

make a list of things, anything. list of foods u like to order, list of things that make u clench yr teeth, what were yr fave gifts you’ve ever got, style icons of urs, hobbies u tried that annoyed u, movies u can always watch, places on yr skin u hate being touched, any list of anything it doesnt have to be the usual thing of “what to live for” bc when yr depressed those kinds of things arent easy to think of. but if u get a list going of like “best things ive ever touched” “sounds that make me laugh” “trends that were stupid af” “popular things that i didnt like n couldnt figure out why they were popular” “weirdest ppl ive met” well those things might get u on a roll of good memories or laughing or seeing that theres more to yr life than what has been occupying yr thoughts

dancing. dance in yr room in the dark. clear some space. put on some headphones. lock yr door. do it in the shower. just dance. i had to start w closing my eyes and picking songs that i was taken by emotionally. songs that made me jump and slamdance tbh and then it’s just gotten more and more something im not as ashamed w. i spent a date night w james just dancing and then we ya know ya know bc the dancing got so wild. now i make playlists of songs that set moods for diff kinds of dancing

watch shows w ppl who arent doing better than u. they dont live in fancy places, they dont do much w their lives, they dont dress better than u, they struggle, they arent eating good food u dont have access to. iasip. freaks and geeks. letterkenny. undeclared. jake and amir. tpb. the state. youtube. tiktok/vine comps. lots of these kinds of vibes on youtube

podcasts. improv comedy podcasts tbh saved my life. comedy bang! bang! has best of’s those are good ones to start w. improv4humans bc matt besser has great guests of some of the best improvisers out there and he has musical guests and they’ll play a song and the improvisers will use it as inspo for a scene

make things. moodboards. pinterest. playlists. fill a shopping cart and tell yrself “i’ll get it when i win the lotto and move away from anyone who knows me so i can be the me i wanna be w/out judgement” make tea. make a meal if u can. make yr bed. clean one thing. clean the sink. hang some clothes or go thru yr drawers and clean them out. throwing things out feels hard at first but then it’s nice bc u feel less bogged down

find something to throw yr obsession at for a bit. something that wont hurt u as bad, being obsessed in general isnt good. everything in moderation irl. too much of something is bad just as much as too less of it can be bad. but yr looking for something lower risk here and if u gotta be obsessed w a celeb or a song or a food that’s ok. yr focusing the energy on something that isnt a substance so be proud of it

give yrself a break. give yrself some credit. everyday isnt gonna be on the “best of your name here’s days” but sometimes u just live to live bc that’s what u do. u wait it out and get thru it and wait for the sun to come back out. and if u cant get outta bed. or if you hate yr job and wanna scream- that’s normal it’s more normal than always being happy ppl just dont like talking abt bc society kinda trains us to hide our fucked upness idk why but thats how it is. they dont wanna tell us to do preventative care until we’re in the pits

all in all- it comes down to (at least for me) not planning w an endgoal in mind. it’s not over til it’s over and rlly we dont know. it’s all fluctuating and not meant to be a finish line we cross and then suddenly we’re done and we dont suffer anymore and the feeling of shit is gone or the risk of relapse is gone and the depression is cleared away never to be seen again. it’s not realistic. bc it isnt real. on the real- risk is always there and the downs and ups mix and run together and depression is not curable (this isnt something to be miserable over tho) depression isnt curable, yeah ok, but it is manageable. it can be quieted down from time to time and if u keep up w yr healthy routines and coping mechanisms- depression will still find its way to u bc the real world is not something u can manage. death in the family, loss of money or job, car breaking down, sickness outta nowhere, depression grows wild when these very real life stressors come into our lives. but all that too eventually gets easier and easier at least from a “ok i have some distance now” standpoint. and then as those days get more and more btwn it u can then be like “oh wow, ive made it thru X amount of days! ive put up w it this long! whats one more day, whats one more week, hell might as well see how much prouder i can feel once ive got a year under my belt!” plus u will be more capable of handling the bullshit if u know u can still find some safe places in yr coping skills or friends or resources.

ok so this is prob a mess but bottomline know this:

I love you and i will be here the best i can should u ever wanna come spill or if u need me to just send u pics of my dog or boring pics of knickknacks or selfies or memes or links or anything just tell me what u need and i will try my best to show u my love. i hope u can see that u reaching out is just already a HUGE major step in the right direction, give yrself credit! thats amazing! yr already doing it pumpkin look at u! it’s hard ik. but i also know if u are capable of saying u have this problem going on, u are capable of getting thru this. u are a light in the world. u offer goodness and u offer yrself and that’s enough. even if yr fucked up right now- u are contributing to the world by simply being u. there is literally NO ONE ELSE WHO IS YOU. so u are unique by definition. i hope u get something from this post and if not i hope it strikes an idea or thing u can do that will help. i hope u know im here and i hope u see this.

i am sending u all my light and love and good vibes and i can’t wait to see or hear from u again. u are never bothering me, a burden, or stressing me out. tbh it stresses me more that u might be struggling and not telling me or anyone. i dont ever want u to suffer in silence bc u feel guilt or scared or anything. u deserve to have a place to voice yr shit. im here to listen if u do wanna tell me anymore.

everyone else-if this helped or if u can think of anything that might help anon or anyone else- feel free to reblog and get some good NONJUDGMENTAL advice or tips and tricks going, but please please please remember to not come off as judgey or flood it with your drama. keep ur drama out of this post so anon or anyone else doesn’t get triggered by it.

and dont ignore my rule and do it anyway and then say some shit like “ik u said not to but i think this will help lol sorry” like we need this post to stay on this vibe that i set in motion and not a struggle contest or dick measuring or all sad personal reminiscing. go make yr own post for that this is NOT the space.

#Anonymous #sorry if this is a mess but i got a lot of feelings abt the shitty advice that's out there for addicts and i dont know shit except my ideas #and all i can do is pass it along but pls still remember there are plenty more things that could work so if these dont strike a chord lmk #and i can try to think of more and reach out to my friends who are addicts and see what works for them #i love you i love you and i love you and i like you

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legolasgoldy · 7 years

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((Finrod + Rhys for the ship meme.))

// Thank you!!! :D @blind-mutant

Send me a ship and i’ll tell you

who hogs the duvet

They cuddle so close that I dont think thats a problem really, but Finrod definitely makes sure Rhys gets plenty of blanket around him to keep him snuggly and warm. Especially during the winter, Finrod doesnt like the cold but his body can regulate its temperature if he gets too cold even if it’ll sting his skin a lil from chilliness, he’ll make sure Rhys is all wrapped up. After all Rhys weighs less and need to retain more warmth. Altho, during the summer if their AC were to break it would probably be the opposite, they’d probs only use a sheet? He’d listen to hear if Rhys’ heart was beating to fast from being hot, or if he just felt he was too hot he’d pull the sheet off him a little and probably adjust his hair so it wouldnt be keeping him hot.

who texts/rings to check how their day is going

They dont have cellphones. Finrod may call during Rhys’ lunch break to make sure hes okay during the first week Rhys was at his job. Or if Rhys hadnt been feeling well the day before he’d check up on him. Or, also, If Finrod was having a bad day at work he’d call Rhys just to hear his voice. I feel like this could go vise versa, if Rhys needed to for what ever reason he could ask a coworker to help him use the phone and call Finrod.

who’s the most creative when it comes to gifts

Well.. this is a tricky question. I think they are most creative in their own way. So its a tie. Rhys cant see what he wants to buy so most likely, he’d ask a neighbor ( or friend at school depending on time period) to help him. He’d have to feel things to know what he wanted to buy as well as a friend’s help, and hes not gonna buy just anything, its gonna be something he knows Finrod would love.

Finrod does the same thing essentially, he makes sure to get things he knows without a doubt Rhys would love, whether it be just something cute for him to have, or something to help him (like a braille watch, etc.), or something for them to enjoy together like books.

who gets up first in the morning

Finrod XD He gets up at around 6 am/6:30am depending and always lets Rhys sleep as much as he can so he’ll be well rested. He knows sometimes its harder for blind people to sleep at night, and Rhys doesnt like getting up early either. So, typical routines are listed below:

As teenagers, Finrod gets up at 6 am and gets ready for school and gets as many things as he can ready for Rhys as well, then at around 7 am he’ll lay back down next to Rhys and attempt to wake him up too, very gently. If they are just best friends he’ll probably put an arm around him and whisper to him, and move hair outta his face. If they are dating he’ll kiss his cheek along with that.

As adults living together, on days where they work, its very similar to when they were teenagers with school. Finrod wakes up at around 6 am and gets up, makes tea, gets ready, then crawls back into bed with Rhys around 7 am and tries to gets wake him up with soft kisses, cuddles, and whispers.

On days when they are off work he’ll get up at around the same time, maybe 6:30am, and he’ll make tea, take the cup back to the bedroom and sit on the bed super carefully, finish the tea, then lay back down with Rhys and stays there. He doesnt go back to sleep, he just snuggles Rhys like he had been doing before he got up and lays there for a while relaxing with his bf. Probably a good 4 hours or so around 8:45/9am he’ll finally start to wake Rhys up with his usual gentle kisses and whispers, although this time he’ll be asking about what Rhys wants for breakfast since they’ll have time for a lazy big indulgent breakfast.

who suggests new things in bed

Rhys lol. Finrod is a lil too polite to suggest things often.

who cries at movies

Finrod. He reacts to movies so much. He’ll cry, growl, whine, whimper, etc.

who gives unprompted massages

Well i think its safe to say they both probably would if they really wanted to? Although in all honesty, Rhys has never seen someone give a message but would try his best if he decided to give one, while Finrod is a bit.. afraid to give Rhys massages. He can control his strength super well now, but Rhys does bruise easy so he’d be extremely cautious.

who fusses over the other when they’re sick

Finrod fusses over Rhys so much, even when Rhys doesnt like it. He’s gatta make sure his love is okay.

who gets jealous easiest

Ohhh XD What a queston haha. Well.. this is trickyy. Probably Rhys. but Finrod does get jealous sometimes when they are teens.

who has the most embarrassing taste in music

Hmm considering the times, I would have to say Finrod. While everyone else is listening to the typical popular music of the 70s-80s ( and granted he does too) he listens to a lot of classical music sometimes. Like Mozart for example. He really likes classical instrumentals.

who collects something unusual

Um..I dont know of anything unusual that they would collect? Finrod collects seashells but most he has on display are ones they collected together at the beach. Finrod collects jewelry. The collection of books, belongs to them both. Rhys has a collections of bunny plushies that Finrod keeps buying him and other things that feel nice.

who takes the longest to get ready

Finrod, he fixes his hair, picks out an outfit, decides which earrings to wear, maybe a bracelet. Where as Rhys cant see to really do much, he gets dressed, brushes his hair, and brushes his teeth?. BUT Finrod always helps Rhys get ready, especially helps with his hair, and if Rhys wants a tiny touch of makeup sometimes he’ll stop everything hes doing to help him put it on.

who is the most tidy and organized

Finrod is, but always tries to include Rhys in on everything. They equally decided what goes where so its a mutual thing? Altho as for cleaning the house, Finrod does that.

who gets most excited about the holidays

They both do, but I think Rhys a bit more. He never really had that big happy family holiday thing, and ever since he met Finrod he suddenly has this huge family that loves him. It took a while to get used to, but by the time he and Finrod are dating everything would have become a bit more comfortable and absolutely love it.

who is the big spoon/little spoon

Rhys is the little spoon, Finrod is the big spoon. But they do switch sometimes during the night, and sometimes Finrod is the lil spoon too.

who gets most competitive when playing games and/or sports

They dont play sports, but they do have training together in school. They play chess too. Hands down, without a doubt, Rhys is the most competitive. Finrod is the push over who always lets Rhys win haha.

who starts the most arguments

They dont really argue, but one can say technically its Finrod. XD The only time they argue is when Rhys is sick and grumpy, and Finrod unintentionally aggravates him into starting arguments.

who suggests that they buy a pet

Finrod! He knows Rhys is worried about having them even if he does want them. So, Finrod suggests solutions to how both he and Rhys can both take care of the pet safely without having to worry. That way Rhys can actually have a pet for once. They get fish first and describes all the different kinds so Rhys can pick out which he wants.

what couple traditions they have

Reading

what tv shows they watch together

Rhys doesnt watch tv shows, so anything Finrod watches is sort of on a whim.

what other couple they hang out with

Well they’ve hung out with Finrod’s brothers and their girlfriends. When they’re living in their apartment they hang out with their neighbors. Oh, and probably as teens they hung out with Jean and Scott.

how they spend time together as a couple

Tbh i feel like you can get the idea from everything above haha. They simply just live their lives together loving one another. Finrod makes sure Rhys can live his life to the fullest now without being held back as much as possible. They take care of each other, and read, go on vacation, take walks through parks, have picnics, play with each others hair, just cuddle. And once older, certain daily things that the neighbors hear are added into the picture X’D

who made the first move

Hmm another tricky question but i’ll say Rhys. He turned to kiss Finrod first. The drunk encounter doesnt exactly count bc Finrod was extremely drunk and didnt really know what he was doing.

who brings flowers home

Finrod

who is the best cook

Finrod, Rhys cant cook XD.

#OMG FINALLY <333 #blind-mutant #My Finrod Headcanons #Answered #rp related #this-is-gizmo #The bunny of Finrod's heart <3

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