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danothan · 2 years

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after getting those asks yesterday and talking to a few friends abt it, i think i'm comfortable using the term aromantic for myself now! they pointed out a lot of things abt myself that i thought was an Everyone Experience and it's been incredibly relevatory and euphoric ngl. ofc i still have a lot of life to live and if it turns out that i'm not, then i'm not, but for the time being it feels right. thank you to everyone that helped me realize this abt myself, i'm so happy rn 😊

#danbles #the amount of 'holy shit' moments ive had in the past 24 hrs has been intense #it seems so obvious in hindsight but my love for the concept of love made me put it off #even tho i always turned down my crushes callously without realizing #or that i'd get irrationally upset when ppl interpret my behavior as flirtatious/romantic (which is often)#or how i never understood why ppl insisted on monogamy #ah the classic polyamorous to aromantic pipeline #it's like ppl who thought they were bi before realizing they were ace #it all makes sense now #it's funny that my fav holiday is valentines day and my fav aesthetic is lovecore #oh my god i just remembered i used to have a ton of aroace ocs that were actually matchmakers/cupid themed #*holds up mirror to myself* BITCH THATS YOU!!!#wow this is so funny laying it all out bc its like. fucking duh #i think the only problem now is that i wont be able to call my fav characters my husband/wife anymore </3 #ykw idc i can still call them babygirl gender neutral #nothing romantic abt it babey jayce is my babygirl and we go thrifting every week #how do i keep derailing my own posts anyway time to project aromantic hcs onto a bunch of characters now #starting with jinx. you will be aromantified.#(sorry ekko you never had a chance to begin with 😭)

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