thinking about. vince & tyler sharing the burden of responsibility, filling that role in a family unit where they're the figurehead. where if anything happens to anyone they care about it's on them, something that's an irrefutable fact to themselves and the people around them. having to make the tough choices because nobody else is saying a word ... and no matter what's done someone's always left unhappy. they even share some little things ; like the art of playing fixer upper and the desire ( the ambitious idea ) to own their own business. vince never explicitly mentions this, which i find fascinating, but if you go for his dream he ends up having his own school. he's the boss. it's all in his name, it has his logo ... even if vince didn't have that desire before, he gets exactly what tyler wanted ( something tyler can tell him he wants ) where he's the owner of something that's his dream job. which is !! sooo compelling. they share a core value, they share a role in the story despite being on opposing sides at first, and then they share the tiniest stuff like this. there's differences, of course, but like i am looking so much