Random funny note, because I don't even think I make attempts to be particularly butch and I'm certainly not taken for a guy because my boobs are, sadly, enormous. I have long hair (a pretty long ponytail with undercut, to be exact) and, well, huge boobs.

And yet one reaction of some of my new colleagues was a friendly but kind of surprised. "So you're married... To... To a man?"

And I think that's hilarious.