real annoyed by the attitude of "this clinical terminology sucks because i misinterpreted what it meant without looking into how it is defined in clinical literature and assumed i could just apply my colloquial understanding of the word and/or pop psych ideas to come up with my own definition for the term, they should have called it something else"

like have you tried maybe doing even a little bit of reading into the topic before revealing that you are talking out of your own ass. perhaps.