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spitblaze · 1 month

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One day you will reach a point where someone will misgender you and instead of feeling the jab of disappointment or fear or mockery, you will only feel confusion or bewilderment or even just...nothing, whether you correct them or not. And you will realize how far you've come, and how resilient you've grown, how much comfortable you are in your own skin.

#spitblaze says things #i complain too much about transgender stuff. lets get some positivity going #anyway yadda yadda usual disclaimer. i cannot speak to everyones experiences or lives. im not psychic i dont know ur circumstances #i just know that reaching the point of some terf misgendering you to get a rise out of you will one day be less dehumanizing #and more like. annoying or pathetic #yeah thats great i will never be a man uh huh sure. u got any better material i dont have all day #or like someone will just...casually misgender you. you will be in the street and someone will 'sir' or 'maam' you wrong #and instead of stressing about what made them clock you you'll just be like 'what'#and if ur still in thr place where ur not sure if you will EVER be in a spot where itll be either chill or confusing #remember. cis people get misgendered too #men with long hair will get ma'amed. women with broad shoulders will get sir'd.#there are individual pieces of clothing that will make people gender you a certain way and you will not know why #ultimately there are a million things that could cause someone to clock you or anyone else incorrectly and its 1000000% subjective

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