I know we joke and jest but lan wangji sitting in the boat holding wei wuxian, asking wen ning if the core transfer hurt, and wen ning describing how wei wuxian had to watch and feel for two days as his golden core left his body and his spiritual power died, how no one in the world had yet been willing to do such a thing but wei wuxian had begged, all while he's just lying there unconscious, is one of the most heartbreaking moments in the entire show. fuck. wen ning in that damn boat with wangxian