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Kinn Being The Dom Of Kinnporsche Ep 13-14 The End Of Season 1
Here we are at this bitter sweet moment. We are at the end of the journey involving season one and our D/s posts. Bitter because there will be no more after this but sweet because it's a memory that I for one will always linger over. I hope you've enjoyed this as much as we both have. I'm hopefully that we'll get to do this again in season two, so everyone start crossing your fingers now. As usual this will be the Dom companion piece to my lovely iffy's submission piece, which can be found here.
Kinn really has come full circle from the person and Dom that he was in episode 2. He has not only learned Porsche as a person but how to provide and care for him. Sometimes a submissive wants a Dom to take control of situations and then other times they want the space to figure it out themselves. While he can clearly see that things are not as they should be, he now knows when to push and when to back off.
Were any of you, by any chance confused by this scene. Before, Kinn has given Porsche smokes for his stress and now he is telling him not to? He is basically using this as an excuse to gently persuade his submissive into talking to him. It's a harder push with "now tell me, what's wrong" and it would have worked too if it hadn't been for that Chan. The next time he has a chance to ask what is eating Porsche he realizes the opportunity to use hard persuasion is lost. Porsche at this point needs space.
A smaller but no less important moment is when Kinn just let Porsche jump on his back. He knows Porsche is afraid of ghost but he provide protection and care in this moment. There was no ridicule, just support. Again, we've come a long way from the Dom that used to degrade on a regular. Now he really limits those moments two things that won't both Porsche and they are in a more intimate setting.
When Kinn goes to move forward and Porsche stops him, you see a gentle correction along with support. While he does remove Porsche's arm it's gently and then he remains in front of Porsche while going to check on Pete. Which gives Porsche the strength to give a closer inspection.
To further show that he is by his side, Kinn cancels everything and tells Porsche to come with him. When Porsche questions where they are going, Kinn just turns and expects Porsche to follow. They really have both come to a very good balance of what they want out of their D/s relationship. Though Porsche is Dominant and bratty, he knows when to give that submission.
Look no further than them visiting Porsche's parents. He didn't have to say anything just nudge for Porsche to know he wanted to be introduces. Though he couldn't help be retaliate with some brattiness which as you can see, Kinn expected.
Then my personal favorite moment. The pool.... Not gonna lie, I might have watched this a hundred times and then verbally just giggled at iffy. There is just something so sensual and rhythmic about the whole scene. Porsche comes in but it's like he is asking Kinn to dance and once he accepts, he's leading. He is controlling the rhythm, the direction, and the moves.
While the show down with his father isn't completely a Dominant moment. It is in the sense that his entire body language was strength and support. He was calm when talking to Porsche and commanding when pushing his gun arm down. So honestly in my book it does count.
Something I want to point out is Kinn's ability to find Porsche. Look at episode 13 where he knew to find him. He followed him to the monastery then back home. At that time, he was attempting to support and back up Porsche. Now he is recognizing that Porsche needs space. That he needs to choose him. In a D/s relationship there is constant revaluation of guidelines and consent.
Porsche sure does know how to make an entrance. The kind that stuns his poor Dom, but I'm here for it.
That being said, Kinn gets his own back by making Porsche verbalize that he is coming back to him. It's in that little nod after he points the gun at Porsche, he's telling him, I need to hear the words. Which Porsche acknowledges and gives him. He smirks as he tells Kinn he chooses him and then Kinn acknowledges this with a smile and nod. Then they are quickly swinging back into action.
This scene in particular. Kinn not only commands but uses the Dominant tone. He follows up with body language and you can see the way that Porsche responds. This isn't a request. This is a command. If you watch, you can see that Porsche has completely taken his finger off the trigger at this point. There is a conversation with Korn but Porsche looks at Kinn for direction and support. Which Kinn readily gives.
One of my favorite moments is just a playful and cute moment. It's very indicative of a typical Dom and brat relationship though. That's when Kinn says he has a surprise and bratty Porsche says he's heading to the bathroom for it. Kinn gives a swift pop on the head and redirects the brat. While it's cute and not intense like most expect, it's really a good representation of Doms and their brats.
And now we've come full circle. From a Dom that could have written How To Be A Bad Dom For Dummies to a very beautiful D/s relationship. Honestly and you'll see iffy say this too, I'm really glad they showed both sides of the coin. Sometimes you have to see the bad to really appreciate and understand the good. Just like in an actual relationship. However, our own story has now come to an end. At least till next season. I want to take the time to thank you everyone involved; iffy for writing this with me and you guys once again for reading it. Hope you enjoyed this labor of love. 💜💜💜
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Unforgotten Night Episode 3
You will be able to find the lovely iffy’s companion post here. Be prepared! We have vastly different views this time.
As usual let's start with the porno, I mean promo poster.
Eventually we are going to run out of horrible promo pictures and I'm actually kind of sad about that. I've had far too much fun making fun of them. I mean what the fuck are these. Now we don't even have a bike chain but somebody's necklace tying them together. You will not leave me muahhhaaa... Um, well you broke that rather easily. Also could we please give the eighties their fashion back. They wore it better. Cry Baby looks like he has a staring role in Dazed and Confused while Baby Face is still constipated. 🤦🏽♀️
Episode 2 recap can be found here and here. I cried and drank as much as the subs from Episode 1. Seriously guys, for shits and giggles I had my 17 year old watch AND she was pointing out what all was wrong with the BDSM.
Episode 3
I can't even. Just a few minutes in and the sub has more chemistry with simp lobby boy.
Then Pillsbury Dom shows up and acts like an ass to poor simp boy. There was some gentle correction here but no respect earned yet. That's a Bad Dom move. I was feeling sorry for brat boy until he started whining... It made me want to choke him and not in a kinky way.
He agreed to go to lunch and he obnoxiously whined the entire time.
I don't know a Dom that would put up with his attitude. Seriously, a sub's respect should be earned and Pillsbury hasn't done anything really to do that. So I absolutely respect the push back from Cry Baby. That being said Brat was an ass and should of been called out. I absolutely love the challenge of a Brat but this one had me screaming at my ipad on several occasions.
If we are going to talk about good Dom/sub chemistry it's gonna be these two. Sadly it appears completely non-sexual but I'm holding out hope. Seriously though, Metawee gives the command and Jin jumps to it. Not to mention that Jin is hysterical. At one point Metawee had her come up with a distraction and she gave such a stunning performance. They easily have more chemistry than the main and side couple.
Hell Jin and Sub have more onscreen chemistry.
What does it say that I'm seeing more chemistry between the Dom and his reflection in the mirror during product placement?
Seriously guys, that looks like true love to me. I'm completely buying it. Now could he just turn that chemistry on else where. All kidding aside, I enjoyed parts of this series. When the mains were acting with ANYONE ELSE but each other! I don't think that's how this is supposed to work.
This whole series could have been campy and fun. You have points in which this is slightly enjoyable in an over the top way but the main couple are more forced that my high school jeans. So in conclusion.
That's all folks... Like literally that is all I can take. Please don't make me watch any more. I need brain cells for the next season of Kinnporsche or anything that isn't this. Hope you enjoy the review as much as I and iffy didn't in writing it. lol
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#5
Love In the Air Ep 5 Review & Running Commentary
My freak flag is waving and I'm here to review for my fellow kinksters and the vanillas that want to be informed. For those that are new here, I do have previous reviews that can be found here. I've been asked how I feel about the lack of discussion and guidelines. I think this is a lifestyle couple from Thailand, which most Asian countries already have a soft D/s lifestyle. From what I've seen of the Asian relationships around me is that they are similar to the US South. Where someone in the relationship always holds more control. Which means there is already an expectation of figuring out who is in charge. In which case there is a softer way of doing guidelines and harder on consent commands. You'll see this same play out in more experienced D/s relationships because they are already familiarized. Also going over guidelines can take days, nobody wants to wait and go through that in their show. Okay, clearly some people do but not me. I'd rather skip to the good part.
Speaking of good part. We ended on a really good part last week. I just want to remind everyone of that before we get to the drama, lol. Okay, so there is just something about seeing the day after when they are still in the bed. It just instantly puts you into that moment. It's this warm and fuzzy feel. And he is sick. By the way I got a lot of answers to the Sick In The Rain comment but basically the rain comes during cold/flu season, which makes them more susceptible. Really interesting. I appreciate everyone who answered my question.
So back to Rain being sick. NO! But now that Rain belongs to Payu, he'll take care of him. Omg, Payu caring before almost killed me, now that he'll be more open about it. I'm gonna die! By the way... That hair. 👀 It's so fucking hot. Oh bless him, I know what it's like to wake up with a headache. Sucks ass and not in a good way either (if you didn't catch my Vegas reference, you most go straight to jail and you do not get to pass go). Yeah Rain, you didn't stand a chance luckily for us. Mom is valid. I don't care who you are, child or roommate. If you aren't coming home, call. So people don't worry, it's not about age, it's about respect and safety. These are top priority in BDSM too.
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336 notes - Posted September 15, 2022
#4
Guys! Can we please talk about this moment.
Porsche is normally the one doing the picking up in his sexual escapades. Look at him just fucking flying at Kinn. It's so natural and he is so happy.
392 notes - Posted May 29, 2022
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Kinnporsche Masterlist
Thoughts & running commentary by episode: Masterlist
My Dominant/sub posts: Masterlist
Different D/s roles
Kinn being The Dom of Kinnporsche 1-14 Masterlist
Porsche being the brat submissive of Kinnporsche by iffy
Vegas and Pete S/m: Masterlist
Other Masterlists
Unforgotten Night
My Beautiful Man
Not Me
Love In The Air
Until We Meet Again
Between Us
Movie Reviews: Love and Leashes
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If you don't address me in an Ask with at least Hi Luta, don't expect me to be nice. Why?
405 notes - Posted May 13, 2022
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I'm seeing a lot of comments saying Porsche is the Dominant. I mean, I see some of your points and the validity in them. I just don't agree nor see it. Maybe I'm making correlations because, I personally live in a relationship with a Dominant male who is a sexual submissive to me.
Let's unpack the questions and see.
Porsche called Kinn out on his jealousy. He sure did, but it was in a submissive brat manner. As I mentioned in my notes it's all in the body language. He is not moving towards Kinn in a domineering stance he has leaned back and shifts down. Yet he is using his words to goad Kinn. What do you think submissive brat behavior is? It's struggling, small annoyances, and verbally talking back.
Because Porsche took control of the hand job at the end. Okay, this one I don't know what to think about it. I mean you're basically saying if I give my husband a hand job. Get him off but continue to get finger banged and lose myself in an orgasim that I am no longer Dominant. Well, okay, let me just go tell my husband that I'm not Dominant, hahaha! We'll just ignore the Dominant stance of Kinn's hand controlling Porsche's head the entire time, hmm.
He calls him out on the lack of trust. This is just fucking insulting to a submissive. It implies they are doormats to take abuse. That is not what submission is! It is a power imbalance but it does not take away a submissive's right to be treated with respect. Yes, there are some submissives that do enjoy that but it is a subcategory of submissive and does not describe all of them.
I've already explained the neck. Porsche's five second touching of Kinn's throat is in no way comparable to the complete control Kinn had over Porsche's entire fucking head. Not only that, there is absolutely no rule stating a submissive can't touch the throat. A D/s relationship is subject to their own personal guidelines of what is allowed. And to be very honest, I'm 89% sure that was an Apo move done unintentionally.
Porsche keeps proving he is the one in control and owns Kinn. Want me to point out each and every time Kinn used ownership words for Porsche and Porsche allowed it. Basked in it even but never once tried to return it. "Vegas always wants what's mine" "My bodyguard" "When you are done return to me both the gun and yourself" I mean that whole statement right there was ownership with Porsche smiling.
Now let me also point out to you Kinn's Dominant "come give me a hug" to which Porsche readily responds. He does not ASK Porsche for a hug, he commanded. A sub asks, like how Porsche does with Kinn on multiple occasions. He not only uses words but body language, the only time this changes is when he is being a brat.
Edited to talk about Kinn showing vulnerability. Do you guys really think that my husband has never held me as I cried. That as a Dominant, that I've some how given up the right to break down? That this somehow makes me less? Let me assure you that is all far from the truth.
Another edit because there keeps being more. Porsche was above Kinn which signifies the switch in power I've got to disagree. Notice how Porsche didn't put himself above Kinn, Kinn purposely placed him above him. When Porsche turns around from the mirror they are even. Kinn grips the back of Porsche's neck (again, Dominant move) and then lowers himself to inhale Porsche. From that point on Kinn is purposely placing Porsche above him. It's an apology.
Okay, thank you for coming to my Luta talk. Please feel free to ask any questions but don't come at me. 💜💜💜 Please understand that if you don't agree with me on the D/s or even who the D/s are. I respect that. Some of the above though is not only inaccurate to the community it's insulting.
425 notes - Posted May 22, 2022
My #1 post of 2022
The D/s series: Kinn as a Dominant
(This is a companion piece to Iffervescent's sub post, that can be found here)
There have been a lot of requests for more information on the Kinnporsche D/s element. The amazing Iffervescent and I thought that we could provide this information to you all while enjoying ourselves. Seriously. You should have seen me taking this BDSM (Iffervescent's Idea!) as Kinn. The test was fun, interesting, and a little stare into a light bulb to cleanse my mind. Then excited babbling about the results afterwards. So without further delay.
Could It Be More Accurate!!
So Kinn is a Dom. What is a Dom and how so? Dom/sub: Is a power balance. A Dominant, or Dom, refers to BDSM relationships and the role one person takes. In this role, this person has more control/power/authority in the D/s relationship.
Though a Dom wants and needs control. They are also the ones with the responsibility to care for and the protection of their sub.
You can clearly see how Kinn is the Dominant in the relationship between him and Porsche. It's there in the way he'll push and pull Porsche, he controls Porsche's movements especially his head, the crock of his finger and especially in how he cages Porsche in until he calms down. It's in the way that once Porsche feels that he has his Doms attention, he relaxes.
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450 notes - Posted May 30, 2022
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Hi Luta!
Firstly, I want to thank you (and Iffy) for your posts about D/s dynamics in KinnPorsche. It made me reflect on some of my past relationships and finally give a name to things I just didn’t have the vocabulary to express or understand.
Secondly, my question briefly alludes to SA, so I wanted to say that directly before asking. I don’t want to overstep your boundaries, and I’ve tried to word it all as sensitively as I can.
So my question regards boundary setting in D/s relationships, especially while exploring kinks. Obviously trust and communication are imperative, so when you’re setting hard limits, do you think it’s enough to say ‘no, end of story,’ or should you talk about why you don’t want to do something (for example, you just aren’t interested, or it triggers you)?
Again, thank you for your posts, and for taking time to read this.
A
Hey Hey Bestie,
@iffervescent my love, you've got another shout out.
I'm so glad you've enjoyed our blogs. We really enjoy writing them together and sharing them with you guys.
I really appreciate all the respect and care you are giving me. It means a lot 💜💜💜 Okay, my opinion might not match others. I'm just giving my opinion.
My hard rule for those with a history of abuse of any kind, don't do kink outside of established D/s relationships. If other people want to do scenes with someone they just got to know, then so be it. For someone with a history of abuse, that can be incredibly dangerous. I can't tell you how many questions that I get privately messaged to, that could easily be avoided by having someone they are actually connected with. Especially when after care is in my opinion, never not a necessity. If you don't feel comfortable doing a puppy pile with them, sexual or not, then you really don't need to do a scene with them. Sometimes you do things that need skin on skin comfort.
I would establish a trusted relationship where you can lay out your history because sometimes people have to gauge something in a moment. For instance, you might not want anyone to touch your back. You could tell someone, my hard no is my back and they'll stay away from it but if you say, I was held down and details. They will know, don't put pressure here, don't breath here, or we might want to talk this out first. Ideally you should be able to say, this triggers me but sometimes you might not think about all the triggers that are attached to one trigger. We want you to be safe and have a good time, to really do that, your going to need someone you can express yourself with.
Hope this was helpful 💜💜💜
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Luta,
I queued your Kinnporsche Masterlist because it is truly excellent, but I wanted to chuck an ask your way to say THANK YOU for what you have put together before it hits my own blog.
It is so, so easy for people to look at relationships like this and scream "abuse!" due to ignorance, and someone dispelling those myths is very much needed.
Whilst I do understand what you're getting across, I personally also think the way you explain it is very easy to understand, so I believe that someone not in the community would still be able to learn from you - which is fantastic.
I was so pleased to subsequently read others are joining you on your quest to inform and honestly I love to see it!
On a far more personal note: your comment about caging in episode seven made me feel safe - in that it's such an important thing to get across to people. The fact that the act is right and good and perfect; and therefore not something to get up in arms about (if done correctly/consensually obviously) is something that I didn't realise was important for me to hear, but we learn new things about ourselves every day(!).
So, thank you for that specifically.
~H
Hey hey bestie!!!
You're very welcome. I'm so glad that many of you are enjoying what I write. That is probably one of the few areas in which I feel insecure. So again thank you 💜💜💜
As far as being able to explain the D/s aspect in a way anyone can get it. Thank @biochemjess and several others for a willingness to be open minded and open dialog. Though they aren't part of the community they do try to understand it. Through them, I can see why certain scenes would look abusive.
Example of the different dynamics: bathroom scene and the tap Kinn gave Porsche as well as the caging.
Bio: This looked really abusive to me.
iffy: OH! I didn't even notice the tap until you pointed it out! The caging with the crossed wrists are everything.
I love all the friends I've mad on Tumblr. Those who aren't in the community and those in. I have been surprised and very excited about those who have joined me in coming out. The more people see us together validating each other, the more they can set aside preconceived notions.
Caging is so important for both a Dom and a sub. I'm glad I could get so many to understand. I'm incredibly happy that you had a good experience from it. I too have found there are things that I'm just tired of being a dirty secret.
Thank you 💜 💜💜
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Hello Luta!
I was going through various blogs discussing BLs and ended up at yours. I'm glad to have read your review about unforgotten Night. I couldn't even properly watch ep 1 and I had to drop it cuz the acting, chemistry between the actors, and its ambience didn't reach anywhere near I had expected. It kind of felt cartoonish and honestly if some random guy took my drunk ass off to bed with chains and whips....that'd be a nightmare. As far as I have delved into this world, I am a soft sub...and is not into SM. Even if I was not able to point out everything that was wrong with the first time of the 2 main leads...watching it felt like all my instincts were screaming RUN! The crying boy in the beginning itself made me feel like entering a red flag territory. So many things felt off about the bed scene of the lead couple.
Hearing that the series was complete, I was contemplating whether it was worth giving another shot, cuz I saw posts on twitter saying they will miss it and wanted a second season......and then I came across your review.
and THANK GOD!!! Everytime I read what you and Iffy wrote I was like "yup thats exactly what it was and why I had to drop it".
tbh...From a show that was very much out there promoting under BDSM and SM, I felt nothing dominating from Kamol (?) that is supposed to a sadistic Dom (ur posts confirmed it for me...LOL). It more felt like a child trying to be one....I do feel bad saying it cuz I know the actors put in a lot of effort...but thats just how it felt to me.
On the other hand, I got the perfect Dom from a character in a series that I least expected... Payu in Love in the Air had me breathing hard. I'm going off topic....
BUT...what I wanted to say was THANK YOU!! I was thinking that if Love in the Air was able to do that good with Payu and Rain, maybe Unforgotten night that is actively promoting with its BDSM element might have done better and that maybe it was because I am not into SM that I didn't like it and it may get better and so on. But ur review made me realize that nah....its pretty shitty. Period. I had a good laugh reading both ur reviews though..It was great and fun.
So Thank you once again for taking your time and effort into writing these reviews!!
-Pinky
Hey Hey pinky!!!
I absolutely adore the actors in Unforgotten Night. I think a lot of things caused this to crash. 1) I think the actors are completely unfamiliar with S/m never mind that was what they were supposed to be portraying. 2)They didn't have a BDSM consultant and just swung at it, but they sadly missed the ball by a mile.
I've heard this so many times. Unforgotten Night was marketed for the BDSM aspect and it just fell through the cracks. The people who like it are people who liked the show that shall not be named. And look I'm not knocking it, I'm knocking anyone who is calling that accurate BDSM. I'll send them to my seventeen year old who screamed at the show with me on the inaccuracies.
However, LITA was not marketed to us but watch it once and you know it's made for Kinksters. Which was smart honestly because we were the ones that tuned in for TharnType. I could do a whole as breakdown of the No Kink portrayed in it but I absolutely get why people didn't see it. This time they went in knowing who would be interested, how to accurately show it and they are doing it. Payu is a solid Dom. I've really like him as the Sadist/Dom to the D/s relationship.
Thank you! I'm so glad you enjoyed both reviews. I'm thrilled that people enjoy my special brand of humor. I realize that I'm a unique taste, lol. I really appreciate all the support. 💜💜💜
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