#if i had to pick the absolute simplest surface level explanation would just be nonbinary
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1/2 Do you think you really understand your gender and sexuality?
yeah this is a rough approximation of what it looks like
#that WAS a meme but i daresay. it's not even that far off#at least in the sense that 'it looks like a sprawling contradictory monstrosity at first glance but makes sense to whoever made it'#i've known how my gender genders since... well. since. hard to think of a time before that#i could explain it to you in a couple dozen approximate labels but 99% of the time i only use the relevant ones#if i had to pick the absolute simplest surface level explanation would just be nonbinary#the layer after that would be 'definitely not male and definitely not a woman'#and the layer after THAT would be 'sometimes a girl but i don't think you and i have the same definition of girl'#the next layer would be 'genderqueer and gnc' and so on and so forth until its a near infinite tesselation of asterisks#i'm just whatever words best help convey me in the moment i guess. am i genderfluid? flux? agender? demigender? yes no and sometimes#trans too but i consider that more of a framing for lived experience than a big identity for me mostly#as for sexuality i have completely given up i don't fucking care anymore. it's too much interplaying together to explain in conversation#i'm whatever i call myself queer if i have to#the only sexuality labels i still find useful are aromantic/arospec/demiromantic and asexual#because that is like a whole other different dimension of thing and it conveys it accurately
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