actually that dreampeek setup is the perfect excuse to introduce breeding kink into your relationship with dan heng because I feel like you may hesitate to bring it up to be mindful of his feelings (since breeding you is something he cannot actually physically do and you don't know how he feels about it), whereas dan heng would never bring it up simply because he's not nasty enough to have it occur to him. but accidental voyeurism is a great conversation starter 👍