i dont know how to apply to a job really, or at least im not super confident in my abilities. my teacher helped me apply to mcdonalds. not you. what good that worked out. i dont even know how to apply to college. it doesnt matter how many videos or tiktoks or people i ask, it just doesnt click. i dont know why. im limited to having opportunities at my fingertips but nothing fucking makes sense. its so frustrating i cry. im crying right now. i could blame it on you for being the parent and not teaching me things, but i just fee that wpuld be wrong and shifting the blame even though its my fault for being so fucking stupid. i would blame you for not helping me but what do i fucking expect. i would blame you for the time i tried to apply to a college and it didnt work out out, but both you and my dad were upset that happened. i should go to a community college and go from there i know you guys are eight but i dont know how i dont know how to i dont know how i cam only watch so kich youtube tutorials before i want to blow my brains out but it doesnt make sense. it doesnt matter how much or how many or different people tell enthings i cant because it doesnt make snese. im so fucking stupid and its so upsetting because i feel like i used to be so smart. i want to kill myself so bad its not even funny sometmes and i try to compensate but putting it off but the trith is it doesnt matter how many years go by i know im going to kill myself it just depends on when and how. i dont know how to be a human in our society and if you cant even function like that i mean how can you really do anything you know? i can only live off my parents for so long and then that gets you where? i fantasize about slitting my throat so often its bliss. everything would be so much better for me and truthfully everyone if i wasnt here. you guys like to think it wouldnt that we all ahve something to live for but thats just fake lies we all tell ourselves because people arent supposed to want that. but i do and im not just being depressing about saying that because its the truth. i dont have anything worth living for no job no friends no super fool hobbies i sit in my room for 24/7/365 days and play video games on repeat. that isnt a life worth living and im not entertaining enough outside of that to be worth it. i cleaned my bathtub and sink the other day and felt so proud of myself i remember feeling so fucking good about myself and now all i picture is bleeding all over the porcelain. i play video games all day and write serial killer smut fanfiction and watch youtube and i dont have any real friends or real connections. all my online friends have other things going for them im not a missed space in their day. i used to get mad at my sister because she left and i felt/feel like she abandoned me. but the truth is she never liked me to begin with and we were never close. i say im happy she escaped but really im just happy shes not like me anymore. shes not depressed like she used to be and she has a husband now and the amazing career that i want. im so envious really. i cant even wish she doesnt have it because im so fucking happy she does. she deserves it. but what do i deserve? do i deserve anything? is it just me being depressed to say i deserve nothing? i shouldnt have even graduated highschool, literally, my mom did my online chemistry class because i couldnt do it and i cheated the rest. why did i do that? why did i chest so often? i wish i sat down and read the books and the materials and did the hard work. but the truth is i did that for so many years and sometime between highschool and middleschool it all stopped making sense. like a sponge so eager to soak up water i was knowledge, but now im filled up and cant take anything else anymore like the sopping wet sponge cant soak up more water. it’s pathetic because you can ring out the sponge and itll be good to go again, but me and my brain? you cant ring out my brain, im just stuck being this ignorant for the rest of my pathetic meaningless existence.
i should brush my teeth and take a shower. im disgusting for how filthy i am. i could just get up and go do it now? whats stopping me? absolutely nothing. i think it comes to point where i could just blame everything on my depression but it comes to a point where i just have to accept that im lazy and disgusting and dirty. im so fucking filthy. i want to scrub myself of these thoughts and feelings and behavior but i cant and i wont ever change. ill forever be stuck as this useless waste of space. im just a money pit at this point. im surprised my mom has put up with me for this long. you could say its because of love but i think its really just because she doesnt want to deal with the emotional fallout and backlash from the family. they would criticize her like the way they do for handling my sister. is she even my sister now? we are blood related but have no true emotional bonds. she hasnt replied to my facebook messages even though shes seen them. we arent family or friends she doesnt know anything about me and she doesnt want too. no. we arent sister and brother anymore but i wish we were. i miss her so bad. i miss being a child maybe if i was a kid again i could try harder. be nicer. be more diligent. but i could do that now couldnt i? anyways; the backlash from the family would absolutely kill whatever false emotions you have built up, for saying you dont care much about what they or other people think the truth is you care more than anyone ive ever met. its sort of cringe really. but i guess we all have our issues. im a waste of space and suicidal and your emotionally damaged. you never should have been a mother i know, you know, but you are and i am a son and it is what it is. i feel bad for being such a bad son. i wish i could have been a better son.
if jesus and god are real i hope hell isnt too bad. i would sit here and hope id go to heaven but im not the type of person that belongs there. but honestly i think hell is too good for me too so where do i belong? where do i go to be punished and corrected again? you could probably beat and torture my behaviors out of me but ill always be this useless and pathetic that doesnt fucking change. its a fact just like the grass is green and the sky is blue. i want to float and i want to be with the clouds and the stars. i want to feel the blood running down my body from my throat i want to feel the suffocating as my lungs fill with my own blood instead of oxygen and i want to feel the numbing pain that i felt from the time i cut my thighs and i want to die. so bad. i dont want to be here anymore. i sont want fo breathe i dont want to feel i dont want to be like this anymore. i dont want to exist but existing means feeling like this and feeling like this doesnt change no matter how much therapy i take or psychiatrists i see or pills i take or food i eat or dont eat or games i play or dont play. feeling like this is just a facet of my life and i would believe harder in god but if god is real why would he make me feel like this? or not make me per say but give me the opportunity to feel like this. so he can pick me back up again when im dead and make me feel whole? or send me to hell to fix me? that doesnt feel right or fair to me. i hope its all just black when i die. i hope its just empty and quiet. so i wont have to think anymore. i wont have to exist or feel pressure or be a waste of space i could just be.
i swallow the lumps inside my throat and sniff up the snot in my nose and feel the sides of my vision go from blurry with tears to relaxed contentment because i write this. it’s therapeutic to me. one day i will slit my throat wide and the blood will spray on the walls and the bathtub water with turn red and maybe ill be wearing my TMG merch shirt. the tan one with the robot on the back. i love that shirt. and maybe ill have a fresh haircut and just have taken a shower too. i used to wish bad things would happen to me and bad things did happen but no one cared still no one cared not really not at all. will anyone care when i carve out my throat? not the performance act but the true meaningful bond of care? no. not at all. one day i will slit my throat and ill bleed all over but today is not that day and when that day comes no one will care. no one at all. no one cares about you james you know that dont you? dont you see dont you feel it like that suffocating feeling on your chest? you can try to hide and pretend im not right but no one fucking cares james be fucking realistic with yourself. shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up. one day i will cease to exist and i cant fucking wait for it i cant fucking wait to die.
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Shitty things my mom does (feel free to add your own)
Me: Hey, mom, its my day off and I want to relax
Mom: Relax?????! You are so lazy!! All you do is sit on your phone!!!! You cant live through those yputubers go have a life!! Get out of the house once in a while!!! At your age I was woth your dad
Me: *rolls eyes bc ive heard it before* Okayyyyyyy sorry I asked to relax for once.
Mom: For once????! You give so much attitude!!! You are so.ungrateful!!!! You poor baby you dont know the stress i deal with with our money problems, ypu need to get a full time job or get a.second job!!!
Me: *nearly in tears, but handling it* Alright fine I wont relax. Geez. I just asked a question and you went.off on me
Mom: *proceeds to scream at me and get my dad to yell at me even though I am just sitting there taking it*
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Mom: *complains about millenials* *later says something i find offensive*
Me: Wow. That was rude.
Mom: Oh you poor millennial you want everything handed to you dont you? You want everyone to be happy froofroo nicey nice to each other dont you?
Me: Better than you generation.with their bullying and homophobic/racist stuff.
Mom: Oh that w a just being silly!!! And it.toughened us up!!! The world is cruel!!!
*later*
Mom: Why are you SO scared of.living on your own??? Dont be such a baby!! The world isnt so bad!!!
Me: *internally screaming*
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Me: *genuiniely forgets something*
Mom: Thats a poor excuse. You.didnt forget you just didnt want to do it. It wasnt something for YOU so you dont care you are so fucking selfish!!
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Mom: I was doing so.much more at your age. You are not an adult. You are a child. Age is nothing, it doesnt.make you an adult.
Me: *pissed off* Then how are you an adult?
Mom: you are so hateful! I go to sleep crying every night because.of the way you treat me.
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Mom: If i do something that bithers you, tell.me and we can work ir out.
Me: (*thinking* wow! Things are finally turning around!!) Okay well *thing that genuiniely upsets me*
Mom: That bugs you???? Lol, you need to get over yourself.
Me: 🙃🤐
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Mom: *once tore up any nsfw art I had at 15. Restricted anything or:13 or more and even cursing in comics* Why dint you like when im in your room? Are you hiding anything? What are you hiding? Drugs??
Me: ??!?!?!? You tore up.art you.didnt like because it was dirty even though I was a horny teenager and that was my way of working out those feelings????
Mom: I never did that. You are.lying. you.have always lied no one will ever believe you.
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Mom: If you keep pissing me off I'm gonna punch you.
Me: Do it and I will call the cops on you.
Mom: you arent a minor anymore i can do it.
Me: ???its still assult??? Lmao
Mom: Do it. Your dad will defend me. He works for the jail. I will tell the cop that you are lying. You have lied so much to.me and your dad they will beleive me and not.you because.you are a.dumb kid.
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Me: Hey. I'm 20. Can you treat me.more.like an.adult?
Mom: Sure. Pay this.much retn, this much bills, this much everything. You have to have it next week.or.else you will be evicted from MY house.
Me: You.know i dont make that.much a paycheck???? And this isnt what I was talking about???? You know this?????
Mom: I am.the parent you are the child. Get over it. No matter what i will be the adult and you will be the kid.
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Me: *shows my.mom something nsfw i did bc I was proud of.it, gave fair warning of what it wpuld be*
Mom; This.isnt talent. This is garbage. Why are you wasting.your talent
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Me: *draws fanart*
Mom: I wish you would make.ypur own works. Not cpoy someone else's creation. You habe potential. Use it. Go to.college.
Me: I cant.afford.college. I dont.make.enough to save.
Mom: Stop buying bullshit (art supplies to help.me). I know how. to save. I have taught you. I must be a failure.
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Me: *age 16* Mom I think I have bipolar disorder.
Mom: If you.really think thst call a therapist and set it up yourself. I habe watched you and.you.dint look like.you do, you are always smiling.
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Me: *accidentally says 'we' when talking about the lgtb++ community, even though i have come out at pan repeatedly*
Mom: We???? Lol you arent GAY I have seen the way you check guys out.
Me: No but im.not straight. Im.pansexual. I habe told.you this.
Mom: Whatever.
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Mom: *watvhing some transphobic piece of shit* Well, they do have a point that once you are a boy you are always a boy
Me: Abd thats what horomone replacement is.for???
Mom: Thats dangerous i don't get it. There are only two genders.
Dad: Even after surgery you are still a guy. Even if.you.look like a girl and act like a girl.
Me: ????thats awful and transphobic?????
Them: no way!! We love everyone!!!!
Mom: the inly ones that bither me are the nonbinaries. I will call THEM 'it'. I dimt get how they can be nothing. Women that are nonbinary just hate women. I refuse to call them they.
Me: *explains it.in a way she can understand*
Them: Dont.understand. wasnt in my generation. Doesnt make.sense. there are only.two genders.
Me: *red flags for homophobes and transphobes*
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Mom: i cant wait until you finally get a boy friend. *stops* or girlfriend or ITfriend. I want to see you happy.
Me: ?????????? How do i meet people
Mom: put.make up on and make.yourself.look nice and.not.like a scrounge once in a while. *also tries to set me.up woth COMPLETE STRANGERS I DONT FIND ATTRACTIVE*
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Mom: *got.pissed when i was 12 and chatted online, telling me everyone I talked to was pedophiles*
*now*
Me: *chatting with online friends*
Mom: What are you doing?
Me: Checking notifications.
Mom: I bet you are talking to.your booooyyyyfriends oooooooooooooooo
Me: Nope.
Mom: Uh huh
Me: no.
Mom: Whatever. You are chatting eith strangers. You are an adult.if you.dint want.to.listen oh well.
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Mom: You dont love the pets like.I do. You forget to feed an water them. Thats how.your dog died. (She died of old age :/)
(Also note i feed and wster them when i remeber AND do the cat litter AND play with them. She cuddles them and.pets them)
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Me: I think i habe depression.
Mom: No you dont. I do. Look at my self harm scars I habe always wanted to kill.myself. you smile how arr you.depressed??
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Mom: *uses stuff from when I couldnt do things in my own against me, like changing my diapers*
Me: Hey this makes me feel bad about being alive and makes me wish I was mever born
Mom: Oh I'm joking. Get over it you sensitive snowflake.
(Feel feee yo add your own! My dad is a gaslighter and mental abuser, starting to realise my mom isnt a poor abuse victim. Theres a reason she loves my dad. Too much alike. Anyways I wanna hear your own!!!)
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Till next life...
I don't know why is she keep talking about her brother. Her brother is so inteligent, brainy... Blah blah... And he is the 50th of all Island final exam but not the first because he had to teach his friend mathematics the day before the exam. So he is very generous person too. Ok so what! Who cares? She has a lot of friends yet why is she being with those people? Isn't she was like the best friend of dianne over there? She should be with her. I have so many thoughts going around and I'm looking directly at her siting two rows behind me. I hope that nobody noticed that. Anyway life is boring and my best friend is being with everyone else in the class other than me. I often wonder why do all them have so many common things. I feel so fucking different sometimes.
Life should be about living not suffering, yet most of the people just waste their lives by not doing what they want to do. When you are so consumed with what the world would think, you will never be able to live your life up to the fullest. As long as what we want to do, does no harm to anyone, we should just do what we wanna do irrespective of the others point of view. With that been said, here I'm struggling to accept the crush I have on her. I have some theories, she is super beautiful and that is why it is hard to resist those feelings where she is just an anomaly; this is only temporary and crushes always fade away; she is the one and only soulmate in this life and I will end up alone forever. Let's get real here. I don't wanna end up alone so, the last theory is not up for discussion. Now that I have lot of besties I should specify them. My bestie, Su is the longest friend that I have. We have been besties for years now. She is a super stylist girl which kind of makes us so different, but we kind of get along well. She has a bf, whome I don't like much, but I'm not like against it or anything. I hope he is the right person for her. So the one who is the center of my thoughts and another bestie is Briana. She does not have a bf which is kind of a relief, but soon she will also have a bf. It is so hard to keep everything piled up and not being able to share everything with friends makes me so miserable. Taylor, another bestie who used to be the closest friend of Briana and now we all are so close. Anyway if I start talking about the other besties it will take so much time. Therefore, I'm not gonna talk about them.
I'm devastated right now Briana's grandma died. She has been crying for so long that made her eyeballs out. And I feel so sorry for her. She loved her grandma so very much. It is painful to be helpless. Soon, it is the alms giving, I have been helping out with the alms giving preparations at her home. Me and Taylor stayed with her for four days now, it was so busy around here lately and did not have time to think about my feelings also. It is the final day at her home as I barely got the permission to stay at her home from my parents. Anyhow today it is not that busy as the alms giving was over this evening. We were having a bit fun with her cousin childrens. Briana's sadness is gone a little bit which makes me a bit happier. I had a wash at around 11.30 at night because had to help with the household cleaning a bit. We three had to sleep in one bed as her cousins occupied all the other beds. Taylor had already slept. Briana leaned towards me and gave me the one part of her handfree indicating to listen to music together. Eventhough she is been this close makes me uncomfortable, I grab the handfree and suddenly she lost her part of the handfree. She pulled it up and layed her head in my shoulder while putting the handfree in her ear. I felt like I strucked by a lightning. Holy shit. No way. Is this feeling is? Ok I have to admit that I have feeling for. How I feel right now, I have never experienced something like that before. These feelings are so genuine and I wish I could tell her how I feel but I'm so afraid that it might damage our friendship. We listen to music for an hour or so but all I remember was her warmth. I didn't care what songs were playing. We put the handfree and the phone away and slept. She is gone to her side of the bed and already sleeping. I looked at how calm she breathes and she is so beautiful. I don't what to do with my feeling. I feel like I'm betraying our friendship.
It has been weeks after the alms giving but I still remember her warmth as it was yesterday. I wanna tell her. We are so close these days and I'm getting more more unconfortable with little moments with her. It has been two years now and I have been messaging her quite a lot. School life is over and I'm lucky that I still get to meet her because my university is nearby her hometown. I get to meet her time to time which I cherish so much. I have sent several messages since noon but she did not reply yet. I'm looking at my phone at every vibration and get disappointed as it was not her. I have been having late replies from her for two three weeks. It is so sad, I used to be the first person she replies to now I don't even know what happened to us. I have promised myself that I will not put my feelings in the middle of our friendship but I want a closure for why she is not replying me quickly as before. So I opened her chat and I saw her online. Are you kidding me right now. She is not replying me and chatting with others but not me. Finally I tapped on "Why aren't you replying me?" I got a reply sooner than I thought. "Hi" Seriously it is not what I wanna hear. I asked a question. I hate to bring up fights so I didn't said anything bad. Instead I said, 'how r u doing these days?'. "fine wbu?", she replied. "Not bad. I'm feeling sleepy. Good night dr". I went offline even before she replies. I feel so sad. Next day she asked me is evrything ok and I decided to tell her what is going on. 'Hey I wanna tell you something' I messaged. She said after two three minutes of no replies, "there are so many msgs from friends here will you download this chatting app". It is a new one, and downloaded it and replied to her... 'Hey'. Until she replies, I checked her account friends and she has only two friends in this app, one is me., other one is a boy. My heart literally stopped. He must be someone special. I knew that this wpuld happen one day but didn't know that it is gonna be this painful. I had her reply with tearful eyes I read it.
Her: So what is it that you wanted to tell me?
Me: Who is the other guy here?
Her: Friend of me
Me: Is he special?
Her: He is a really nice guy. We have been chatting for sometime now.
Me: Is he ur bf?
Her: It is not like that... We just chat.
Me: Dont lie. I know he is
Her: Did someone tell u!
Me: So others also knew! Why didn't u tell me?
Her: Sorry. Not many knows this yet
Me: You used to tell me everything before everyone else...
Her: Sorry dear. I couldnt tell you. Keep it aside ok? Tell me what were u gonna tell me
Me: Nothing. Gn
I'm devastated. I'm crying all alone in my bed. I can tell no one. I can't share how I feel. The only person whome I could tell everything is the one I'm in love with. So I ended up patching my own heart.
It has been a while, I kept on being miserable around her. Finally, the moment of truth came. I master up some courage and said, it is so hard for me to see you with someone else cuz I like u little more than I should. I don't know whether it gives the right idea, but I can't tell all of it right now.
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