sometimes i wonder if im just being a huge bitch about my biological grandma (bc most of my family thinks so) so I just imagine writing out an AITA post and realize how fucking stupid it all sounds and feel better about myself. i didn’t meet her until I was 4 because she didn’t like how my parents did discipline so she called cps about it. she used to bait her ex husband into hitting her so she could cry to her friends and when he refused she would go and doctor her face with eyeshadow and pretend he hit her anyway. when my mom came out she said and I quote “i hope you never see your kids again, they should hate the militant lesbian bitch you’ve become” like hm maybe I deserve an award for not setting her on fire actually