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#he thinks wives should not work outside of the home because she will start emasculating her husband and all that nonsense
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I was following these two masculinity accs that I thought were different from others I had come across, but then they spouted a lot of the same nonsense that others have already said.
#txt#they were self-described “trad” men and yes i do take responsibility for knowingly following accs that already identify themselves with a#movement whose many values i don't identify with#like one was like “men don't cry on wedding because that's means they are a b*tch”#he didn't exactly say it like that but he did say that he thought men who cry are pathetic#he thinks wives should not work outside of the home because she will start emasculating her husband and all that nonsense#because she will allegedly cheat on him with another man because he isn't man enough or sumn'#i mean this idea is more correlated to legalism and wordly ideas than biblical ones#that is something that was done back then because the situation pretty much didn't allow it because of how hard it was#and the other one said that women shouldn't carry guns because it will make them more masculine#going by that men shouldn't cook or clean because they will become more feminine#just because you are doing something stereotypically “masculine” or “feminine” it doesn't mean you will eventually turn into the other sex#that post actually pissed me off and unfollowed him from then#he posted vids of men that were already exposed of being crappy towards women telling other men how they needed to do things#i'm starting to see through his bullcrap. he also got this air about him that he's always right and justifies himself by using the bible#and church#another one#it's a fact that the way we raise boys is inherently traumatizing and these mofos are still spreading that nonsense#idk. i might be the wrong one here
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