#from someone ive known for like. five years. who has predominantly known me as nonbinary they/them | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

lathrine · 1 year

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tangentially related, it is unbelievable how uncomfortable the question "do you prefer all gender neutral language?" made me. not because i dont (i do) but because of the implication that i, a nonbinary They Them, would have been fine with gendered language if i hadnt spoken up

#esp bc 'gendered language' here quietly means 'explicitly female'#from someone ive known for like. five years. who has predominantly known me as nonbinary they/them #im pretty sure hes known me as such anyways??? he addresses me as they/them but has literally never asked #at least hasnt asked before now??#admittedly i dont openly share my gender fuckery with him. he doesnt even known im demoing a new name #bc he acts like the end-all-be-all authority on queer experience and i simply am not interested in engaging with that

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