Drow elves would probably relate to humans more than surface elves.

In normal elf society, they really coddle their kids and let them fuck all and do nothing until their 100th birthday and then maybe they start easing them into society with the outside world. They genuinely give them no responsibilities until then and spoil them rotten

While in drow society, the second someone even resembles an adult, they're expected to act like one. It's so brutal, especially to males that they are forced to grow up extremely fast.

Which coincidently aligns almost perfectly with normal human maturity rate, where we're also expected to act like adults the second we look like ones, 18 to 20+ age range.