hey can u tag gore

Done, apologies anon.

BASICS !

Name / Alias: Goopy, Ash, Smoke, Betilla, Maddy, Brisket. - pick one

Pronouns: Any (AMAB Trans Woman)

Blog type: single muse | Multi-muse | non selective | semi selective | selective| mutuals only | private | other (specify)

Type of muses: canon | OCs | both | other (specify) Some canon are a hybrid of ocs to either complete their canned stories or outright they only have like a few lines of lore like Betilla.

GENERALITIES !

Triggers people MUST tag: rape, non-con, suicide, politics, real world general things such as homelessness, war, then intensive, descriptive or visual gore. Like serious rl topics need to be tagged, period.

Interest tracker / checker: I have it and it's mandatory | I have it, it's not mandatory but I'm more likely to follow back / interact with the people who fill it | I have one and I prefer it if people fill it in | I have it but it's to people whether to fill it or not | I don't have one | other (specify) It's to show my primary interests are, then anything inbetween and secondary.

Reblog karma: I practice it (And more if I feel like it, I actively send anons or memes to people if I see them active on the dash, I like them feeling wanted, but I can't see everyone 100% of the time etc, though I don't expect it back and nor do I like pressuring people for it) | I practice it sometimes | I don't practice it | I always reblog memes from the source | indifferent | other (specify)

Rule passwords: I have one and it's mandatory | I have one and it's optional | I don't have one | I send passwords | I don't send passwords | Sending passwords

3-5 ESSENTIAL RULES PEOPLE HAVE TO RESPECT

Read my bios, be aware that my fem characters if looking for smut or ships are trans. As I'm completely fine with it, but it's clear to me when people want smut and expect 'cis-normative' stuff from me. So I usually just say out the gate they have cock if I see you're showing interest for smut, then trans if just a ship. I get a lot of weird people come through at times so I word it this way when interest is show to me. It's tiring, so I mention it.

Be direct with me. How you approach me and your intent is key, respect my boundaries, do not push on me. Don't make excuses to me if I say no and leave it at that, don't explain yourself to me, you're not obligated to me when we meet as strangers. I don't expect to be obligated to you either.

Have rules, have bios and guidelines for me to read. It's the minimum that I expect.

3-5 IMPORTANT PET PEEVES TO KEEP IN MIND

I dislike favoritism of any kind but understand bonds. I tend to ignore people that prefer others over me though if we share the same characters that I use with someone else that's the same person. I don't play second fiddle or a backup copy, though I like duplicates myself. Regardless, it's pretty blatant and obvious half the time anyway, so I don't mind say two best friends or a couple interacting, for example.

Do not try to pressure me or other people into reactionary tendencies when it comes to ooc stuff. I get when things are offensive, but some are way too sensitive, I was even convinced at one point to certain things by people I trusted. I will tell you to fuck off if confronted with a non-issue, but only if you insist on it.

Trim your posts as best as you can, I get the new editor is a pain but I dislike walls of text. Thankfully, block post is much more useful along with blocking tags/blacklisting. This isn't as much of an issue anymore and I tend to just block someone's url but not them so I can still interact with them if it comes down to it. This doesn't count singular, long posts. Just tag those.

2-5 THINGS THAT WILL LEAD TO INSTANT (Changed to 'Hard')BLOCKING

I don't soft block, I hard block out the gate or I don't. The only time I hard block someone after that phase is if someone really tries to get under my skin, or I do it to protect someone's well-being. I used to admittedly let a certain group of people influence me heavily in how I blocked people. I've cut them out of my life as they didn't have my interests in mind, just posturing and making me miserable. Those types if I recognize them get the boot as well.

I find you annoying and I don't know you that well. You're not entitled to my time. I'm rather tolerant, however, but I do base this off observation as well.

Being incredibly entitled to me or what I believe, as even I don't try to change someone's mind once I realize they won't listen. If it's a big enough issue? I at least ask if this would break us or explain as much and either take my leave or it's worked out. Some things I don't compromise on or argue if it's pointless to real world consequences. I don't expect the same out of you either.

A follow up: bringing politics into the RPC unless people are literally going to die or have their lives oppressed, I don't care. Even I make exceptions when reblogging things such as BLM, Disasters, Human Rights Violations such as the States in some areas actively outlawing/furthering violence against trans people. But otherwise? No, I don't care and I really wouldn't care if the country I'm in wasn't in such a volatile state.

Most people I'm close to are exempt once I trust them from my own things.

2-5 THINGS THAT LEAD ME TO UNFOLLOW / SOFTBLOCK A MUTUAL / SOMEONE I INTERACT WITH

I'm simply unfollowed. I usually do not unfollow someone as I at some point intend to interact, I just have A LOT of people that follow me as I'm 50 away from 700 currently.

I am soft blocked by the person in question, to which I'll ask if they did that due to my tracker to keep my feed clean. Then, if met with a yes or no response? I'll either block them or simply move on a week later or so if I knew them. But if I didn't know them? I will probably just not ask and not do anything.

2-5 REASON YOU DON'T TO FOLLOW (BACK) SOMEONE

I think you're annoying which I probably will already have you blocked. I do this for my own benefit but yours as well, so I don't get temperamental with you on accident.

I don't think we'd get along as I do observe someone ooc before following them if possible. I dislike dealing with an insufferable prick, so having a view inward does help a lot.

I don't like your writing. Even if I disagree with your portrayal from top to bottom? If you have good writing? I will respect that and follow you even if I don't interact with you half the time.

I think you're an elitist prick or an asshole ooc I guess? Probably my biggest indicator is if someone is kind a dick ooc? I tend to see how they react to people or treat them. I interact with people of many varying writing levels, but I treat them as people at the end of the day regardless of what they are to me.

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tagging: ...I dunno, some of this involves some pretty heavy peeves/reasons that might make some uncomfortable. If you want it, it's yours, just @ me so I can read.

stolen from: @countlessrealities

You may have gotten blocked in the “winc*st-adjacent” craze a few months back. Everyone who has ever reblogged a reblog of a reblog from a winc*st shipper got canceled. I have the tag blocked, and sometimes you post things that were at one point tagged as winc*st.

I absolutely understand that there are some people who need a bullet-proof boundary around things like that. That doesn’t make all the people who don’t need that hard boundary into predators. Purity culture is a mess.

I’m very sorry if those blocks hurt you, because you are the last person on earth to deserve it.

I hope you’re having a day almost as gorgeous as you are, dear one.

one of them blocked me almost from the moment i made this blog, it's more confusing than anything else (that little part of my brain that fears rejection and the larger part that is continually anxiety-ridden goes, but what did I do?! even though consciously i realize it's not a big deal in the scheme of things! it's just jarring when i go to reblog an edit from S1 or something and tumblr says, "no, you can't do that!" me: "i only want to appreciate the nice posts!" ;___;).

as far as i know, i didn't get caught in the great blocklist purge, but a few of my close friends/mutuals did, and that hurt me more than when i'm blocked myself because i love them and know what amazing people they are (mutuals i will be glad to be canceled with, they're burning all the witches even if you aren't one, but i will happily claim my witchery. <3 besides, if one must block me, at least block me for my gothic romanticism soul mate meta and my annoyingly effusive love/dean feelings posts 😌), and that list was nothing but a bizarre/ugly public shamefest (i block people for things i find upsetting, too, hence why half of dean cr*tical/anti fandom is on my list lol, but i have no intention of dragging them in a mass post, we are in completely separate circles and that's fine! the blacklist also exists to help us ignore topics we don't want to see for whatever reason, it's a very helpful feature and doesn't require drama...we all have the prerogative to make our own spaces as comfortable and enjoyable for ourselves as possible, but it doesn't need to be widely disseminated). some of the people on that list didn't even belong there, there was really no care or caution about who that might hurt - not that perceived (judgmental) "guilt" matters on an issue like this, because the puritanical outlook of doing that to people is so oppressive and disturbing in and of itself. self-protection is valid and important and always subjective. purity culture is...not interested in that, it's interested in thought policing and deriding people. it's like new wave mccarthyism, putting people on a list of sinners - "are you now or have you ever been [insert 'offense' here]." and i get that it started from a place of caring about real issues, which is a whole other important discussion, but applying that to transformative FICTIONAL fandom to the point where real people, who may potentially be vulnerable or sorting through difficulties of their own, are put on blast because they were seen dancing in the moonlight is one of my least favorite phenomenons in current fandom culture. (also, people tag things with ship names for various reasons all the time even when it's totally innocuous - there was a post on my dash the other day that was blacklisted, not even spn fandom, and i clicked on it out of curiosity and the post wasn't even about a ship, it was a quote, but someone along the way had probably tagged it for their own interests/blog and that's completely fine too!) there is also the aspect to consider that many corners of fandom are predominately women-created content, and women are chastened and judged so often for exploring and communicating and imagining that all we're doing is fueling more silencing of safe spaces for female expressionism.

tl;dr i'm sorry you didn't ask for an essay, but this has been on my mind SO much lately.

it makes me sad that we do have such stringent dividing lines and that fandom has become a bit of a minefield because i think it's stifling creativity and discussion in some ways since that divisiveness has fueled a lot of unfair bullying. we're supposed to be having fun! i love how passionate so many of us are! i wish we could have that without the toxicity, but i know every fandom has factions like this. this is very rambly, but in sum - purity culture is a mess - you're right.

thank you so much for your kind words and wishes, i hope you are having a beautiful day/evening too! 💕