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#cause bi pple like men and lesbians dont
butch-bakugo · 1 year
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you: im not gonna call myself a bi lesbian! also you: (a bi person who says the d slur and identifies as butch) be so astronomically fr right now
Butch has been used by all sapphics since it was coined. I used to believe the same shit you did till I bothered to get educated on the history of the terms. Not to mention there is literally no difference between a masc lesbian who follows a butch role and a masc bisexual woman who follows a butch role while with women. I'm a man and a woman and I'm masc and with a woman and my masculinity is butch in nature. I also identified as a lesbian for 4 to 5 years of my life. I know lesbianism and I know bisexuality and the two are very similar though separate.
Most LGBT pple don't look at a butch woman and immediately assume lesbian. They do however assume sapphic. No homophobe is gonna stop me mid kissing my gf to ask if Identify as strictly a lesbian or if I'm bisexual before they shout out the word dyke because why? I'm a butch with a femme and I don't pass so I look like a butch woman. I've also done research on dyke and it's always included bi wlw. Do your research. Our elders didn't die for you to not read their legacies. I've been called a dyke 3 times in my life. Once out a passing car window, once out of the mouth of my own father with the word militant before it and lastly as I was assaulted. I know the sting of dyke and queer and fag and tranny. I choose to reclaim a weapon used against me. I may not like the word queer used for me but I will always be a dyke and a faggot and a tranny.
I also identify as a Twink and I say faggot. Why? Cause I'm a man and a woman and I'm also mlm.
I'm sorry hun but your weird shit doesn't fly on a man woman butch Twink dykefag mlm wlw polyamrous bisexual. No label can constrict me. I am all and I am nothing. I'm everything your attracted to as well as everything that repulses you. I am in your walls and I am thousands of miles away. I am the revolution and I am the anarchy. Your white labels are toys in my native tranny hands. Good luck trying to understand me cause I sure fuckin don't. Thanks for the 10 minutes in your head though lol
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butch-bakugo · 1 year
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your intersexphobia post is absolutely incredible, i just wanted to let you know you used "tim"(trans-identified male) when the derogatory term for trans men/masc people is "tif"(trans-identified female); both terms literally mirroring gendered names and just adding another layer to their weird obsessive transphobia. i hope this doesn't come off "umm akshually", like i don't wanna derail your rly important post, but i just wanted to let you know in case you wanted to correct it in case anyone wanted to research the term to keep themselves safe(sorry if this sounds rude i'm autistic and not v good socializing, plz don't take this the wrong way)
Ty for your input and the compliment but i actually intended to use tim(trans-identified-male) to show that even if your a cis gnc woman who passes as a woman, terfs are so paranoid that they assume any trans-ish gnc-ish intersex-ish looking person could be transfem. Basically if your clearly trying to be fem and you dont look like a straight woman, they assume ur trans and probably transfem. To them, feminine afab nonbinary pple and masculine amab nonbinary pple just dont fuckin exist XD they like to boast that they can clock any trans person but they CONSTANTLY false clock masculine framed and poc women and constantly miss trans women.
The way i phrased it meant to assign trans mascs the identity of "traitors to their female gender" cause thats what they get accused of (showing terfs assumeing that hypothetical cis butch lesbian is "female") while the other showing their immediate jump to semi-fem trans = transfem/trans woman(showing terfs assuming that hypothetical cis butch lesbian is "male"). Really it was all meant to show that in terfs never ending paranoia, they just assign whatever genitalia they want and insult you regardless. That even if your a gnc cis person, they are still doing what they accuse trans pple of doing, seeing a gnc person and assumeing their transgender.
There are terf comics of them complaining about being asked their pronouns just because they cut their hair short and are gnc while they do the same(except instead of asking pronouns with good intentions they just insult you for being trans) just to anyone they assume is trans. They all want their anime protagonist moment where they sexually turn a transhet boy into a cis lesbian or get to "satisfyingly" turn trans lesbians away from lesbian bars. Basically they come up with senarios to boost their egos( and trans pple get called "delusional"?) and that they can genuinely turn anyone into either a terf or a terf ally..... then they say they hate bi women and their whole allyship with transphobic bi women falls through lol they cant even stop while their ahead.
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