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boyswanna-be-her · 1 year

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Ok phew im pleasantly exhausted with this person, and relieved that there's a limit. I'm still second-guessing myself after manicgate and had been carefully asking myself "am i unnaturally 'funding' energy I don't have because someone is paying attention to me?" but today was a balanced day where I STILL spent ~7 hours with them, in addition to like working on other projects! Spending time alone! Developing my program for Saturday! Got a chip repaired in my car windshield (thanks for nothing louisiana) and went on a walk in a weird park. Took care of all my responsibilities, ate three meals, etc.

My friend slotted nicely into the other things I was doing. We had an extremely chill morning as a duo at the clinic with 3-5 protesters throughout the sessions, all of whom were intimidated enough not to talk to us OR approach any clients, which I've never encountered before. Wonderful. We literally sat in camping chairs with our feet up in my trunk reading for the majority, although I feel like when we both have the energy, we never run out of things to talk about. Then we co-worked this afternoon a few hours after the end of our clinic shift at their favorite spot to work (which I'd never visited before). I came back to the beach and resumed normal life. They pinged me after dinner to ask if I wanted to voice chat (??? idk, that's new) and I said thank you and that I was catching up on TV.

it didn't feel clingy or anything, it feels like when you're a child and your best new friend from class wants you to come over to play and how nice and validating that is. but I'm just like... respectfully, no, I'll be seeing you in person in <12 hours at the clinic again, and then we're coworking (finishing a major project together tomorrow! Phew glad to be done) and then after dinner (where im committed elsewhere), I'm going back to their place again for stronglifts.

I'm enthused that they're enthralled by my... friendship (or whatever??? If it's not something beyond friendship, they're intellectually very down to clown in a way that i've never experienced before without it leading to something distinctly non platonic) and it's nice to be where I'm at in this dynamic (an equal give and take of time and resources, reliance and support, jokes and down to work shit, and reassuringly i'm almost never the one initiating).

Anyway, I'm just like. Okay! I'm sated. We good. Would love to talk to you tonight but I'm also not at that "let's chit chat with irl voices while I'm sleepy" stage yet, although the potential for that is something I would've def hardcore jumped on before I was concentrating on centering and more eager to define things. I don't wanna do the co-dependency thing again any time soon, even when somone has planted many green flags, even with someone my community has verified independently as a good person who isn't just love-bombing me, even with someone cute and smart (and unexpectedly significantly stronger than me? holy shit??). Reaching an organic limit of energy I can set aside for them feels like a really healthy place to be with it right now.

#i always wanna like be so balanced in reporting back #it helps me organize my thoughts abt things #but then i'll remember like 'oh lol they complimented my smile today in a picture we were looking at for business purposes'#like... come on #come ON #the messages are not even mixed is the funny thing there's like #no evidence to the contrary #i think we're both just insane baby birds and that's great and healthy #nice to be gentle with someone who is gentle with me in turn #who I literally had to ask to stop thanking me #after teasing them about it for two days they still did not get the hint #like please im begging you to stop saying thank you to everything normal i do #WE ARE TOGETHER ALL DAY I DONT HAVE TIME FOR THIS #i just stopped responding to it today tough love #bfr

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ghostiiess · 1 year

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[NSB HEADCANONS] - sebastian moy being your boyfriend

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pov: how i think it would be if sebastian moy was your boyfriend :)

warning: none

type: wholesome!!

member: sebastian moy

PLEASE STREAM NSB'S MNI ALBUM!! it's so good and their songs are amazing!!

hear me out.

sebastian moy would be such a good bf :(

he would always make sure you're okay and safe around him and in the relationship

you would receive texts messages during the day asking if everything is okayand if you need something

good morning and good night texts from him

he care so much about you

"hey baby! weren't you the one saying you needed some gloves for the upcoming winter? well.. i bought some for you!"

this man love having fun, being with his friends, but he also love being alone with you

he love having deep conversations with you and how easy you are to talk to! he feels like he could tell you everything and it wouldn't known by anyone

he get lost in your face while listening to you

"sorry i wasn't listening, i was looking at your eyes. they're really pretty, did you know that?"

LOT of facetimes and pictures (mostly shirtless.. we know seb)

he would definitely send you his tiktoks and his gym's pictures

talk about you without him realizing it

"well, i don't have that kind of thing, but my girlfriend do! she's so amazing, istg- you should see her, she's so talented and.. wait-"

you're always in his thoughs

would always compliment you

"look great, bubs!"

"woah.. is this the new shirt you brought last week? looking good oooh!!"

sorry, but he would slap your a$$. he already do it with his best friends, so i'm sure he would do the same towards his significant lover

but if you don't like it or feel uncomfortable, he would stop! as long as you're comfortable and happy, he's happy

this man would give you his clothes (mostly hoodies)

"is it my hoodie?? oh my gawdddd, you are so adorable!!!!"

would be a bit sad if you would wear other nsb member's hoodies (since the boys exchange clothes quite often so.. it's a bit hard to remember which hoodies are whom) lol

he would pout 🤭

his pouting face is so cute

"don't you rather wear my hoodie instead?"

this man would hold your hands randomly

"aaah your hands so cold, bubs! i'll keep them warms, don't worry!"

he love being with you

he already said in one of his car talk that his love language is quality time so... expect to have some with him!!

he would watch anime with you if that's something you like loll

you would meet his family (and Mateo aka his younger brother 🥺)

mateo would love you for sure

"seb... when y/n's gonna come back to our home?"

"probably next week... why? you like her?" he said smiling

"yes. she's very nice.."

i feel like seb would send you random texts messages to make you understand he think of you

"finished my gym sess!! here's a pics for you.."

he won't say it, but he love it when he's the little spoon

like for real

let him be the little spoon

he would sing you to sleep if you can't sleep or have nightmares

his voices oh my god, can we talk about it?

he sing so well

ngl, when i first saw him singing, i though his singing voice was really relaxing and peaceful

he would do videos with you

"hey guys!! today's video will be with my pretty girlfriend y/n!!!"

sebastian would do his gym session with you and hype you so much

"yeah!! you're doing good, bubs!"

he would stream with you times to times! although, he love streaming alone to talk with the stars, he would love to stream with his significant other while playing a game together

"wait! how did i loose?? i'm the BEST at this game!!"

sebastian would always make sure you're okay

he would come into your room, see what you're doing and kiss your head

"just wanted to check up"

if like me, you have anxiety or random stress in you, he would buy you stuff to calm you down or things that can help you

2 or 3 months ago, a star gave him an anxiety pillow, so im sure he would use it with you if it ever start being too much to handle or something like that

he wouldn't be too jealous, but still..

if he get jealous, he would hold your hands and do a cold glare to the person who flirted with you and kiss your cheek

"baby, i think it's time to go.. the boys just texted me.." (they didn't)

"what? no! i'm not jealous! stop! i'm totallyyy fine!"

he would try his best to hide it.. but you would actually find out in less than 5 minutes lol

"ok.. maybe i was jealous, but did you see the way he looked at you? only, i can look at you like that!"

if he remark that you're the one getting jealous, he would hold your hands and give you a kiss on your forehead and try his best to reassure you

"is my pretty girl jealous?"

"you don't have to be. my heart belong to you and only to you. i would never want another partner if it's not you, baby. please, don't be jealous of them."

random date

"hey bubba! be ready in 30 minutes. im going to pick you up!!"

like we know, seb is really a spontaneous guy so he would totally ask you on dates at a random time

"wanna go on date tonight? i want to see you!!! (also i miss ur kisses)"

to conclude this headcanon, sebastian would always be there for you if you ever need something. he's super genuine and would LOVE to write love songs about you!!!

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