#but seeing it aaaaaallllll weekend? makes it so fucking clear
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#welp I was definitely right about everything. i was so right that I was proven even more right than I even thought I was!! lmaooo#thankfully my wife is on the same page#because the amount of physical violence we witnessed that child inflict upon our child?#every couple minutes he was throwing something at him or shoving him or hitting him#and his parents do this ‘gentle parenting’ bullshit where they say in sweet voices ‘we need to be gentle with others’ bodies’#being subjected to that for three days? my wife has finally seen the light#it’s all stuff we’ve seen before but when it’s here and there it’s so easy to downplay#but seeing it aaaaaallllll weekend? makes it so fucking clear#so fucking clear that the first time someone lays a hand on my child should be the last fucking time#and I can’t believe I’ve allowed it to get this far#but they met when they were 2 and the other kid is autistic#so it was like… okay. we get it#still learning how to regulate your emotions and all that#but my kid is 4 and your kid is 4.5 and I have to CONSTANTLY stop your kid from hurting mine?????????#what the FUCK kind of universe do you think we fucking live in#need to be gentler with peoples bodies my fucking ass#fuck that!#I’ve never heard a single stern word from those parents to their kid which is just… in hindsight I can’t believe#I can’t believe I never thought that was weird.#but then again! never been around them that long at one time!!!#to see your child get physically attacked over and over and watch the other child’s parent do NOTHING#just say we need to be gentler with peoples bodies#over and over and over and over#the more I think about it the more enraged I get#i don’t believe in yelling at kids but if a kid physically hurts you or someone else?#it’s COMPLETELY APPROPRIATE for them to experience a natural consequence!!!!!!#the natural consequence of pissing someone off??? they get pissed off at you#needs to be age appropriate of course but these people LET THIS KID DO WHATEVER HE FUCKING WANTS#what kind of message are you sending your kid if you won’t give them ANY natural emotional/social consequence for their behavior?#fucking unbelievable
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