#but I'd always thought of tinder as the app where you swipe right on hot people so that you might get to fuck them
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#met a new friend via tinder. now we're playing video games together. it's pretty cool.#ngl making friends is really easy for me. which is nice because I have so many other barriers to being a social person ☠️#if making friends were hard I don't think I could take it#the amount of people on tinder just to meet new people and make friends surprised me. it makes sense though#but I'd always thought of tinder as the app where you swipe right on hot people so that you might get to fuck them#which.. sure. Plenty of people are. I got a dude instantly trying to hit. but like. it's not all a single experience#every medium humans live on will necessarily contain a multitude of expressions#I mean. we might still end up fucking. sure. that's very much in the cards.. but it's not all hookups or straight guys looking for a ltr#going into it with the clear idea that I'm not interested in romance at all has been incredibly freeing.#emotions are so hard for me to navigate and social obligation makes me so immensely uncomfortable.#so being able to set that boundary of 'no romance or I'll end things so fast you won't even realize I've blocked you' is so freeing#so maybe I'm not ace but I think aro is definitely still in the cards#I have such a hard time not flirting with men ngl. I have to actively restrain my 😏 impulse. it's compulsive#tag talk
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