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#and yelling is toxic and unproductive bla bla
xll · 2 years
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opinion: having borderline doesnt mean youre not just fucken right sometimes.😭
#people just fucken love to discredit everything thats being said on an 'overreaction' or even toxic behavior! like yelling!#but sometimes like LOOK INWARD ! REFLECT ! what about you put the ego down for a sec and realize maybe shes right !#like ok she yelled at you cos shes having the worst episode of her life and she feels no one fucken understands her for even a sec#(WHICH IS TRUE those other bitches have no empathy brother what the hell)#and yelling is toxic and unproductive bla bla#BUT SHE HAS IT FUCKEN WORSE THAN YOU AND BEING A SHITHEAD ABOUT IT ISNT GONNA WOOORRKKK#shes mad because you have no empathy with her. youre mad because she yelled at you for it. these things are fucking different.#note: the one with the ego is TWENTY THREE (the bpd woman im talking about's daughter)#id get if if she was 15#but like Put The Ego Down#she LOVES! insisting like ''well she should go to a fucking doctor'' literally i think all you guys will get what i mean#wanting others to go see psychiatrists because youre mad that they dont pamper you? discrediting all reactions on ''being crazy''?#AND YOURE WONDERING WHY SHES SO DESPERATE#anyways. its hard to read the whole situation thru tags but theyre treating my aunt (bpd) like shes crazy and being all angwy cos theyre#not being pampered lol suck it up for a sec#LITERALLY WHERE IS THE EMPATHY THE COMPASSION IM SO MAD#they make everything about themmmmm#me.txt#disclaimer: ik whatever behavior is not exclusive or inherent to bpd i just think they relate in this specific situation#and thats ok...#its fuckin hard man#also by bpd i dont mean it like psychiatry-bootlickers would.
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