no one cares but im going ice skating tomorrow and im so excited 

bruh, can we also talk about how this is normalized in christian religious communities (i know that i cant expect much from them but wtf). A bunch of young girls start dating other guys REALLY soon because everything is about getting married early. FFS MY FRIEND STARTED TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE AND SHE ONLY KNOWS THE GUY FOR A WEEK (they're already dating, kill me)

oh OOF someone please save that girl…. This is deadass so sad to hear about because she's probably gonna have an unhappy life in a marriage out of business and duty way more than love and christian male pedophiles arent really known for their respect towards women…

PLUS MARRIAGE IS LIKE A BIG THING AND BABIES EVEN MORE AND ITS SO NORNALIZED. Marriage is basically committing to a live together!! Of course you can always divorce and im all for it but still. Idk people are always like hey weve been dating for some months wanna marry?? And im like WAIT SOME MORE 7 YEARS FOR THAT. LIVE TOGETHER. WAITTTTTTT

and BABIES ARE A WHOLE ASS PERSON. A WHOLE ASS PERSON YOU GOTTA TAKE CARE OF. Of course no one is perfect and youre never gonna be a perfect mom/dad and its going to be hard, but if youre planning to have a baby AT LEAST HAVE YOUR LIFE IN ORDER like emotional and psychological capacity and maturity to have one, the knowledge of how babies and children and teens work and how to handle them properly without trying to shame them or humiliate or treat then as things, a fucking therapist because this is heavy mental labor, etc etc etc

Like yes this all seems impossible and this is because YOU ARE GIVING LIFE TO ANOTHER HUMAN BEING. this is not something everyone can or should do especially in today's society, this is not just a dream to come true, like idk i think a lot of people esp feminists would disagree because its basically saying 90% of women shouldn't have babies but like. This isnt a right, its a whole ass person and it would be horrible for everyone involved

And idk its 100% a terrible idea to date as teens because fucking look at us but I think its important (for the people that do it) because like learning and growing and stuff but it sucks because theres no one there to protect us. No one to help us not fall into or realize a relationship is abusive or toxic no one to burn pedophiles and throw their ashes in a volcano no one to give us proper sex ed no one to help us when it obviously goes wrong, etc etc etc. But something I think its inevitable because Teens but I wish people would be more aware is how partying and kissing everyone and having sex etc can destroy you and your mental heatlh completely forever, esp if youre a girl, I've seen so many women traumatized and fucked up forever because of this stuff and it saddens me yknow. Im always so scared for my party friends

And im 100% the boring no-fun virgin too ✊😔 which sucks because since im not in this middle I can see how harmful and unhealthy it is but at the same time people r like well you dont know what ur talking about youre just a no fun feminist without a life that doesn't like seeing people having fun yada yada

Sucks