She’s a mom at two! Happy birthday foundations of decay! (and happy Mother’s Day)
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How do you feel about gerard wearing the Lindsey top? As a poc it makes me rather uncomfortable - like sure love your wife but please don’t bring her into your performances, it makes the mcr fandom not feel like a safe space free from racism, victim-blaming etc
okay so this is gonna be the only ask i address about this topic because i refuse to flood the dash with this controversy again but i also refuse to pretend it's not there. all my thoughts are under the cut. i hear you and i appreciate you for bringing this up
your feelings are very valid and i actually share them somewhat. i think people saying black and brown mcr fans should shut up about lynz goes to show how white this space is. i see you and i hear you and i agree with your initial feelings. it fucking sucks to feel that sting of rejection whenever you remember just how white this place is. I'm sorry it's like this. there isn't much of a solution
I've loved mcr since i was ten. I've loved the music, the band members, the fans, everyone. i love this place to death. it's also one of the most crushingly white spaces I've ever been in.
I'm mixed and happened to pop out incredibly pale just through pure chance, so I'm in a privileged position where i can sometimes choose whether or not to present as white (not always), which gives me more mobility in this whiteass fandom. it doesn't, however, negate my ability to see the white hegemony in mcr fan spaces
the fact remains that mcr is a very white band (my king mr toro is just barely holding up the gauntlet). their music videos feature exclusively white folk, as was the aesthetic in the heyday of 2000s emo and goth culture. gerard's relationship with lynz and seeming acceptance of her past, although I'm sure built on genuine love and partnership, is still related to the extreme whiteness of their whole band and aesthetic.
I'm uncomfortable talking about lynz because i don't know her. i don't know if she's changed, i don't know if she's not, i don't know if i have the jurisdiction to say whether or not she's forgiven. personally as a (white functioning) brown person i feel very very uncomfortable engaging with her and i really wish i didn't feel that way but i can't get it out of my head. i don't hate her - again, i don't know her. but i choose to disengage whenever she's brought up because, like you said, it makes this space feel less safe.
basically, i feel disengaged. my biggest problem with this fanspace is the extreme lack of racial conversation going on. i also choose to make this blog a place where i can escape the horrors of everyday bigotry and be happy with friends and a band i adore. i don't have much of an answer for you besides whatever you feel is rooted in truth and you don't have to feel bad about feeling uncomfortable. you choose how you engage with this. I'm always here to talk.
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i just saw a like 3 minute tiktok about how lynz is the greatest and everyone who hates/criticizes her is "delusional" (which.. first of all, stop using that worddddd) and like.. i cannot believe that there are still lynz supporters and DEFFENDERS in the year of our lord 2024. get a grip people, shes a racist, horrible asshole, stop pretending shes not
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It’s interesting how race is treated in this fandom. Fuck Bob, protect Ray against all internalized racism, but please excuse Lynz for pretending to be Indian for clout just a few years ago. She doesn’t have to apologize because she’s Gerard’s wife, which is not misogynistic behavior BUT criticism of her is.
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A small bit of Lindsey's love for mcr fans
Bish you think we hate you for that? That's really funny of you you're smarter, think bigger. Your historic is messed up as hell. You bully fans and kids, you lie, you blackmail Gerard, you do a lot and we're seeing it simply by going on social media.
Who likes you simply is as idiot as you, the rest of them at least see how shitty you can be.
What the f*ck do you mean? You think Gerard is suppose to be happier when he's with you? You're the last one who could make it possible COME ON
Well I think Gerard is bigger than who he marries at, like who gives a shit??? At least if you were a nice person i could give a f*ck about that.
You don't sound like a bit*h. You are. And you know that.
LOLLL let 14 kiddos hate you! What are you Jealous???? Of kids?????
Encouraging him to be what? Gay? Yeah, gay. That's what we fucking do. I get what you said in there, you're absolute lgbt and feminism supportive woman!
I see how you're taking care of him lol. Well anyways he can do it by himself can't he? What is he supposed to be? Your pet?
Now, Lindsey. If you want to say bitchy things, at least don't do that hurting yourself with a glow stick in your head and then blame us fans. Lol that'd be so weird!!!!
I care about Gerard, you're not an mcr member.
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ugluy art of the day bat lynz mychildwill ignorethat she is playingthe bass withthe wrong hand Her ass is not playing that‼️‼️‼️
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what happened why is bro so confused 😭
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