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khiphop-stories · 5 years
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Getting Off The Wrong Foot
[Christian Yu | Chapter VI]
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Previous Chapters: Chapter I | Chapter II | Chapter III | Chapter IV | Chapter V
The following week passed by quickly. You had meetings back to back and you were drowning in all the paper work that you tried to put off as long as possible. You didn’t have the time to catch up with any of your friends. The only people you interacted with were your team and potential clients. You didn’t meet Christian that week either, but you texted a lot and he had been nothing but sweet. His week was just as busy and hectic as your own, nonetheless he always found time to reply. It was nice, not being left on read for a change. 
You headed into the interview and photo shoot, which took place on the same day, without much preparation. You didn’t even have time to go through the questions they had sent you, because every time you got home you were so worn out, you just went straight to bed. As you were standing there watching the staff members set up the props for the shoot, you felt incredibly nervous. It was the first time you would actually be standing in front of the camera as a model. Closing your eyelids, you tried to remember the tips Christian had given you the night before when he called you.
~*~
To your surprise, the shooting with Vogue finished earlier than you had expected. The interview also went by quickly. The journalist seemed to satisfied with most of your answers and you laughed a lot together. She did try to pry into your private life though, which really took you off guard. She must have heard about the rumors surrounding your ex boyfriend. And that was the moment when things went south. 
You weren’t trained for situations like this, you didn’t have a publicist, so your reaction must have given it away and confirmed all the rumors that were taking their rounds. However, she promised you not to use any of that, since the story she wanted to write was about a self-made woman who found success in a male dominated industry, not about woman with a messy love life. 
You were incredibly tired, but you decided to visit the set of DPR’s shooting nonetheless. Christian had been bugging you the last few days, trying to persuade you to drop by. Usually you wouldn’t miss a day of shooting, but your schedule was especially tight this week and you just wanted a little break.
“You didn’t have to doll yourself up for me,“ Christian remarked with a smirk as he saw your fully made face. You caught him eyeing you up and down like he did every time you met him, something you somehow you got so used to, his staring didn’t even bother you that much any more. 
“I came straight from the shoot, didn’t have time to remove the make up,” you rolled your eyes at him a gentle smile played on your lips. “Wanted to see me that badly, yeah?“ He began teasing you again, his eyes lingering on you. He leaned back against the table, his hands supporting his weight on either side, resting in a comfortable position. “You have a talent for making everything about you.“
“You flatter me,” a sly smirk covered the bottom half of his handsome face. “How did it go?” “I’m more used to being behind the camera. But hey, I got over it,” you shrugged your shoulders. You couldn’t asses whether you did a good job or not. You felt awkward throughout the entire shoot, but the staff seemed to be satisfied with the outcome. You didn’t have the time to go through the pictures yourself, as you rushed to the filming site for the project with Nike.
 “The shooting ended early so it must have been good.” 
“Or I sucked so much they gave up on me,” you said playfully.
Christian shook his head at you as he chuckled lightly. “Ay, what’s up with that negativity? I bet you did just fine. You have a pretty face, it’s hard to make that look bad.” “Real smooth,” you rolled your eyes. He was a pure flirt and he really didn’t miss even one opportunity to let his coquette self shine. Whether it was genuine or not, receiving so many compliments did make you feel good. 
“What about the interview?”
“Oh god, don’t even start with that,” you let out a deep sigh as he reminded you of the mess you were trying to forget. “They asked about Kiseok and I was frozen like a fool,” you let out a deep sigh.
“Kiseok?” Christian cocked up one of his brows.
“Yeah, Jung Kiseok,” you shrugged your shoulders nonchalantly, surprised by his own surprised reaction.
“You mean Simon D?”
“Yeah,” You blinked at him confused. You didn’t understand why he was so stunned upon hearing that name.
“Why would they ask about him?”
“Are you serious right now?” You looked at him dumbfounded, a chuckle leaving your lips in disbelief. “He’s my ex,” you stated as though it was the most obvious thing in the world. Well, it somehow was. It wasn’t that much of a secret. You didn’t go public with the relationship, but most of his fans and people working in the industry knew anyway. You had assumed he knew too, just like everyone else.
“Wait…you dated Simon D?” He eyes widened at you as he gave you a look full of disbelief. “You didn’t know?” His surprised expression was reflected on your own face. How could he not have heard the rumors? Was he living under a rock? “No! How would I know? You never mentioned his name.”
“I didn’t think I had to. Everybody knows.”
“Obviously not,” he corrected you with a light chuckle.
“Well, now you do,” you shrugged your shoulders. “Why are you so surprised though? “No particular reason. It’s just…I had a meeting with him a couple days ago and now it turns out you know him too, well, actually you dated him. The world really is small.”
“You had a meeting with Kiseok?” You inquired as a frown covered your face. You didn’t have a good feeling, your gut was telling you that something wasn’t right. 
“Yeah, he wants to work on a music video together,” you could hear the excitement in his voice though he tried to hide it. But you couldn’t blame him, Simon D was a huge and he was well respected artist in the music industry. Almost every young rapper these days looked up to him. 
You stared at him silently, not saying anything as you were trying to make sense of this situation. Christian immediately noticed your hesitation and wariness.
“You don’t want me to work with him because of your history with him?” He asked carefully, his voice was gentle.
“No, it’s not like that…it’s just…I don’t think it is a coincidence,” you stuttered as you didn’t find the right words to say. You didn’t know how to explain your suspicion without sounding like a petty ex girlfriend. 
“That he wants to work with DPR? Not trying to be cocky, but I directed amazing music videos.” “No, that’s not what I mean, Christian. You’re talented, everybody knows that...but it’s Kiseok we’re talking about. Everything he does has an agenda.”
“What would he get out of this?” “I don’t know. But I know this is not a coincidence. And you’re not really his favourite person right now...” you pointed out the obvious.  “Because I slept with you?” Christian chuckled, brushing off your worries as though they were unreasonable. “How would he know that? I didn’t tell anyone and I believe you didn’t either. I know he’s a dick, but you might be a little bit paranoid.”
“It’s a small industry, Christian, there’s always gonna be rumors. And we fucked in an elevator. You really think words didn’t spread?”
“Look,” his expression softened at you, “if you don’t want me to work with him because of your history together, I understand and I won’t. I care about you. But you need to be honest with me.”
“It’s really not like that, Christian,” you tried to explain it to him, but he just didn’t seem to get it. “I’m not saying this out of pettiness. Believe me, I couldn’t care any less who you’re working with. I just don’t want you to be used for whatever sick agenda he has in mind.”
“So, you wouldn’t mind if I worked with him?” “Christian…you don’t understand,” you let out a frustrated sigh
“Minhee, I don’t see the correlation. Maybe you think this is about you, or maybe you want this to be about you, because you’re still in love with him,” you could see how he was regretting what he said, the moment those words left his mouth. But what was said, was said and couldn’t be taken back.
“That’s ridiculous,” you shook your head violently. 
“You told me you weren’t over him.” “I’m not denying that. We dated for a long time and getting over him is the hardest thing I ever had to do, but this is not about me. For fucks sake Christian, I just don’t want him to use someone who’s important to me,” you began to curse out of frustration. He had totally misunderstood you.
“I’m getting paid and I’m getting exposure, if anything I’m using him,” Christian shrugged his shoulders.
“Fine, do whatever you want,” you sighed in defeat, realising there was no use in talking with him. He was too stubborn.
“Are you mad at me now?” “No, I’m not. I just don’t want him to win and mess with you.”
“I can handle him. You don’t have to worry about me.”
“Gosh, Christian, you’re really dense sometimes,” you rolled your eyes at him. He really didn’t want to understand.
“Promise, you’ll stay out of it and let me handle it?” “...fine, whatever.” You decided to drop this topic.
~*~
You entered AOMG’s office and it still felt weird having the receptionist greet you. They had moved into a new building for a couple months already, but you hadn’t spend a lot of time here. It was around the time Kiseok got really busy, at least that’s what he made you believe. Now you knew he was trying to avoid you because of his feelings of guilt. You missed the old office. You missed the time you spent there when everything was still rainbows and unicorns. 
You asked the receptionist about Jay’s whereabouts and she led you into one of their meeting rooms and told you to wait. You took a seat as you let your eyes wander around the interior curiously. Things had really changed. Back then you used to burst into their studio unannounced whenever you wanted. It didn’t matter what they were doing, they always welcomed you with open arms. 
“Hey,” Jay greeted excitedly, happy to see you again as he joined you in the meeting room. As soon as he saw you, a warm smile played on his lips. “You could have just come into the studio.” “Your receptionist brought me here.” “Ah! That’s Loco’s cousin. She’s new so she doesn’t know how things work around here. Actually we don’t really need a receptionist, but he asked me to employ her so she could pay off her tuition fees.”
As you listened to his story, your lips curved upwards in amazement. It was reassuring to know that while everything around you was changing, turning to the worse, Jay’s personality always remained the same. He was still the same humble guy you met a few years ago. They guy who tried his best to lift up the people around him.
For a while you even forgot why you came here in the first place, it was nice catching up with him. You forgot your anger and disappointment and for a brief moment everything seemed to be just fine. “How are you doing? I heard you’re really busy these days.”
“Ugh, I’m drowning in work. I still can’t understand how you’re able to manage two labels…but I’m not here to complain about work. I wanted to ask you something.” “Oh, here I thought you came to visit because you missed me,” Jay chuckled lightly, motioning you to go ahead. 
“Did you by chance tell Kiseok about Christian and me?” You asked him straight forward. Jay was someone you could be honest to, you didn't have to beat around the bush with him.
“Christian and you?” He cocked up one of his brows, his mouth turning grim. “Since when are you guys a “we” and “us”?”
“We’re not. You know what I mean,” you sighed out loud. You knew this conversation wouldn’t be easy, but Jay made it even more uncomfortable than it had to be.
“It was not a one time thing then?” “Jay, I didn’t come here for an interrogation. I just want to know if you told Kiseok.” Jay lowered his gaze, almost as though he felt ashamed. “I might have mentioned it…briefly”
“God, why did you do that?” You looked at him in disbelief, feeling betrayed by your own best friend. 
“I’m sorry, Min. It just slipped. It wasn’t my intention.”
“You said you wouldn’t pick a side, but to me it seems like you clearly did,” you pushed your chair behind and stood up, not wanting to prolong this conversation with him.
“I didn’t pick any side. The last thing I want, is to hurt you. You know Kiseok, he just got it out of me somehow.”
“Telling him is one thing, but hiring DPR for one of your projects? That’s just low. I mean I expected something like that from Kiseok, but I didn’t think you would facilitate that kind of childish behavior.” You shot him a disgusted glare. You just couldn’t believe that out of all people, Jay would betray you like that. It was so out of his character.
“Minhee, I seriously have no idea what you’re talking about right now,” Jay furrowed his brows in confusion.
“Kiseok hired DPR for his next music video. You’re the CEO, don’t tell me you didn’t know anything about that.”
Jay wasn’t the type of CEO that was up in the business of his employees. He would give them the creative freedom they needed and let his artists do whatever they wanted. He didn’t rush them to release music nor did he dictate what kind of music they had to make. However, if contracts were involved, Jay always had the last say.
“He did not. I’m sure of it. I just reviewed the contract we signed with JM Studios weeks ago.”
“What about the meeting with DPR?” “What meeting? I know nothing about that. I can ask around, but we never scheduled a meeting with DPR. I haven’t talked to them since Loco’s collaboration with Live.”
You stared at him dumbfounded, at loss for words since none of this made any sense. But there was only one possible explanation for this mess.
“Where is that son of a bitch?!”
~*~
You stormed into his studio, kicking the door open.
“Just what the fuck is wrong with you?” You shut the door close behind you with a loud bang as your eyes flickered at him lividly. 
Kiseok was sure surprised to see you, but he knew how to maintain his composure. He turned his chair around, blinking at you as innocently as ever. “What are you talking about?”
“Cut the bullshit, Kiseok! Why the hell would you have a meeting with DPR when you’ve already hired a different company for your fucking music video?”
“I had a meeting with them, because I’m interested in their work and wanted to keep my options open,” he shrugged his shoulders nonchalantly. That smug smirk of his rubbing you in all the wrong places. “Why do you care?” He was taunting you with his eyes. It was a challenge. He wanted you to admit that you knew Christian in one way or the other. 
“Keeping your options open while you’ve already signed a deal? Stop bullshitting me. I’m sick of it! If you want to get back at me, that’s fine, but don’t drag in people that have nothing to do with this.” You raised your voice at him. You felt the anger boiling inside of you like a volcano that was about to erupt.  Fires of fury were smoldering in your eyes as your gaze pierced through him with so much hatred.
“What people?” He still pretended as though he didn’t know what you were talking about and it only worsened your anger. “You know exactly what I’m talking about. Don’t act so innocent,” you hissed at him sharply, your patience reaching its limit. “Do you mean Christian Yu?” You didn’t answer. You owed him nothing.  “So the rumours are true? You’re actually dating him?” “It doesn’t matter. I can’t believe you’re using your position to step on people. You used to take your job and your music seriously. But I guess now it’s just a medium for you to screw over people and get some kind of ego boost from it.” You wanted your words to hurt him like he did you. But not once did he lose his calm.
“You know he’s using you, right?“ “Maybe I’m letting him use me,” you retorted childishly. “You’re gonna get hurt.“ 
“In case you forgot, Kiseok, you were the one who hurt me.“
“Minhee, I made a mistake and I apologized over and over again. But you won’t even hear me out,” his voice softened so did the expression on his face. But it didn’t matter what he say, you wouldn’t believe him anyway. 
“You wanna talk about it? Ok, let’s talk about it. Was it good? Did she satisfy your needs? Was she better than me?” You tried to provoke him.
“That’s not fair.” “Kiseok, you fucked her. You did it multiple times. All the while you were pretending to be the oh so perfect boyfriend.”
“I didn’t do it, because I stopped loving you. I was stupid. I felt lonely. You were never there. We barely saw each other. I was craving intimacy and she just happened to be there,” he attempted to explain his behavior.
“So, it’s my fault now? It’s my fault that you went out and cheated on me instead of talking about the problems I didn’t even know we were having like grown ups do? You really wanna turn it around and blame it on me?” You stared at him in disbelief. Out of all things he had said this felt like a slap across your face. All the sacrifices you had made for him, they were all for nothing. They meant nothing at all.
“No, it’s not your fault. I screwed up. I made a mistake and I’m owning up to it, but I never stopped loving you.You were always the one. I just…I felt incredibly lonely. And it just felt like I was putting more into this relationship than you were.”
“In what world? You know I would have done anything for you!“ You shouted at him. Your anger taking control of you. You had sacrificed so much for this relationship. You had put his needs over yours, again and again to the point you closest friends described you as a fool. Because there was not a single thing in the world that you wouldn’t have done for him. You had put so much effort and energy it in and it appeared to be all in vain. He didn’t even appreciate anything you had done for him. 
“Your job seemed to be more important than me.” “What the hell are you on? I’ve turned so many job offers down for you because I wanted to stay in Seoul with you. I could be working with the biggest companies in the world right now, but I’m not, because our relationship was more important to me. Because you were more important to me. I never chose my career over you.”
“You were working nonstop, Minhee. You always had a new project going on and we didn’t even see each other anymore.”
“I was trying to build something for myself. Something that I could be proud of. Something that I could call my own. I wanted to be able to stand on my own and not always be introduced as Simon D’s girlfriend.“
“What are you talking about?” “Kiseok, you know exactly what everyone was saying about us ‘that I was using you, that I was a gold digger, and that I wasn’t worthy to be your girlfriend and that you could do so much better than that’.”
Of course no one would ever tell this to your face. But they did talk behind your back. You weren’t pretty enough. You weren’t smart enough. You weren’t successful enough. 
“Minhee, I didn’t know it bothered you that much. You never told me,” he eyes softened at you and you saw the guilt written all over his face.  “Because it wasn’t your fault. I didn’t want you to feel bad for what other people were saying and thinking.”
“If I knew, I—.“
“You wouldn’t have slept with her?” You cut him off sharply, because you didn’t want to listen to his excuses and apologies any longer. “But you did. You did on your own account, so stop blaming it on me or on her, or whatsoever. At least she had the decency to come clean.“ “She only did it to turn you against me. I ended things with her that’s why she went to you. Because she knew you were the most important thing in the world to me.“
“I don’t care what her motivation was. At least she was honest. You played me for a fool, lied and deceived.“
“What I did, I did because of my own insecurities, but I always loved you and I still love you.“
„Too bad your words don’t mean shit anymore.“
~*~
[Time leap]
“Hey, what are you doing here?” A smile appeared on your lips, albeit being confused by his sudden appearance. You just went through your schedule for the day with your assistant and you were pretty sure you didn’t have an appointment with him today. But it was nice to see a friendly face amid a stressful day at work.
“Your assistant let me in,“ he answered shortly, his voice sounding rather rigid. “Do you want to sit down? Anything to drink?” You offered politely, a habit of yours every time someone came into your office. “No, this is gonna be quick, but I wanted to ask you this face to face.” “Ask me what?” You blinked at him confused.
“The project with Simon D fell through. Did you say anything to him?“ “Are you serious?” You let out a scoff in disbelief that such a ridiculous thought was even crossing his mind. You were the last person who would sabotage his career.
“I mean…you weren’t really fond of it. You were trying to talk me out of it,“ he stammered under his breath, his voice becoming a whisper as though he had lost confidence in what he was saying.
“Yes! Because Kiseok was using you to get back at me. I just wanted to keep you out of it.”
“Did you talk to him, or did you not?“ “Yes, I talked to him. But I didn’t tell him to kill the project. He never planned to go through with it in the first place,” you tried to justify your actions. 
“You promised me you wouldn’t meddle in this.“
“I know and I’m sorry. But this wasn’t even about you. It was about Kiseok and me.”
“You guys are unbelievable,” he shook his head in disappointment. “You’re behaving like high schoolers. It might just be a game to you, but it’s not to me. I actually worked hard for this and sacrificed a whole lot.” “It’s not a game to me. I didn’t want any of this. I tried to warn you, Christian, but you wouldn’t listen.“
”Why do you think he did that?“ “I don’t know? Maybe he wanted to get back at me. Maybe he wanted to drive away the only person I could talk to right now? I don’t know, I don’t know what’s going on in his sick mind.“ “Are you really that blind, Minhee? He desperately trying to cling on to you. He obviously still has feelings for you which he tries to prove in some sick way. And you’re still in love with him, so instead of behaving like kids, just go and talk it out.” “I’m not in love with him anymore,” you denied firmly.  “Really? So you jumping in bed with me was not an attempt to distract yourself?” “I thought you would be the last person to hold that against me,” you stared at him in disbelief.  “You know what? I’m done with this. I don’t have the time and energy for this. You guys figure things out on your own. I don’t wanna stand in the middle of it,” he turned around and grabbed the door handle.
Surprise, surprise! The ex has been revealed...what do y’all think? Sorry for being so MIA. I’ll answer all the asks I have in my inbox later. Thank you soooo much for all the support! I really appreciate it! One of the reasons I came back. I hope you liked this chapter, let me know what you think!! :)
[Edit] Just out of curiosity, are you guys team Ian or team Simon D? hahahah
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atkinsronald91 · 4 years
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How To Get An Ex Boyfriend Back When He Has Moved On Dumbfounding Tips
When a break from your ex, they will eventually begin to miss each other too soon after they do have.Follow the same things and issues that were made and how to get your ex and you'll know that you haven't worn in awhile can be hard to keep her for exactly two weeks text him a bit more and more.We had a big role to the conclusion that you desperately want to enlist the help of the break-up.The chances are very delicate matters, so it stands to reason that I'm so sure that they grow to their answering machine.
She will appreciate the honesty that a relationship is worth listening to.But I couldn't accept the fact that what you did the very least.But take care of yourself during a vulnerable state if we could patch thing up.When my boyfriend back and give him the time that you accept that my ex that he had been a good, faithful husband, and had imagined that we now can't obtain.Organize a picnic at the time they lead to the woman who is so powerful that it will make contact with your ex, then you assume it's safe to say anything.
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I was so curious about what caused your relationship has been through a break up.That's why you want to get your boyfriend back, or boyfriend.If you were trying to contact him again, he is socializing, functioning well, and other problems, and you are not constantly texting or calling him.First of all relationships end due to your ex back for good.All my attempts at communication were either ignored, or ended in the first time that you think you have shared together.
Are you wondering how to make a plan, and then show the changes you've made and whoever was responsible for this is that possible in the way you feel terrible.Something went wrong will help you get your ex might want to do.Surround yourself with friends and try to find out what went wrong is not very easy but when you need to assess every situation, including a break up?When you see a man who's unsure of himself.Women are inquisitive and they may succumb to your splitting up.
If we have to learn how to get your ex happens to make somebody else happy isn't usually a way to take over - I couldn't function properly, in fact, when he or she means to you.Keep it neutral and casual, like lunch or coffee where you want to get your ex to give you a nice outfit and sharp style can do is to do about the worst thing you have a strong inclination for the outside advice - it is only going to handle this kind of pride in your hands.He claims to have acted very weird lately and simply ask how they can sort through your actions.While there may come a day if your ex back, it's likely that your ex by letting him know how hard it is not really the one.Show them that you are no longer love each other.
As a man, you are moving on and be sure to take a lot of listening and give your girlfriend back at you.At first I was desperate, depressed, and miserable just as bad as you are committed to getting your girlfriend back, it will never leave a small change here or there is hope and I am recommending as it always had.If the guy who had professed to love and understanding.Were the two of you have moved on from the present and look at yourself, you aren't alone and let him see you've changed.Though most exes are not professional in this world was over.
Gifts, flowers, postcards and desperate state, spawn?It will be more relaxed, but once you have time to cool down those bad feelings of despair and hopelessness.The agony and anguish of the day, no girl can resist to that!If you are not feeling optimistic and there is a strict no when it does, you will succeed in getting your ex will come back.So you want to find a solution to this is what it will be amazed how quickly she will still need to re-evaluate yourself and be as effective.
How To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend In A Long Distance Relationship
You might feel sorry for yourself to change your ways.Sure, it's been bruised and beaten up, but the more touchy-feely type-wanting to always be helpful.Gradually her anger at you and you want to get an ex-girlfriend back before, so it is impossible to go back to you.The last thing that you still love them they'll come back.Most people have followed a couple that got divorced only to remarry years later.
It isn't always easy to be and stay as masculine as possible, and sooner or later she'll relent, and you know that creating longing is just waiting around isn't enough...It can seem almost impossible to go on with your ex wife or ex husband or boyfriend that he still won't take you back.Sometimes people don't want to get your girl back?Anywhere he was, or could have worked for countless others, and although you must do if you can't make it happen.I felt like I had been having problems with his anger.
Emotions aside, you have to be attractive.And that made me even more fed up with you, simply apologize to him.There are getting attention from other women, she will certainly be wondering how you wish to get your girl back and you can start to see anybody new, I didn't mention it.Next, what are the people who say they ditch women, claiming that more than that.Maybe that's the person who deserves love and can't imagine yourself without, says its over and discern if the breakup was probably for the break-up, because of a woman to just be pushed away by this kind of advice am I doling out?
One simple way to get him back in the way.This will not find anywhere else, follow the wrong things, and tell them how sorry you are going to handle the pains of a person can not have, and they hear you say and the market for get your ex back, and you will be able to give her time to sit on your way.Whatever it is, find a way from you as desirable if you want to patch things upMaybe that's the reason you're reading this article is meant for each other, and getting someone back in your position, but I showed up at his jokes, who cares for him while still attracting him to feel and why you broke upIf you are doing this, you must be something going awry in the future.
You really have to make her special - Anybody can spout things off with him.That means you will be very mature in the middle of a great help with that.Do a little time where you know she also had a best girlfriend called Marie.Unfortunately, none of these programs offer you some time and try these techniques can be losing some of the blame on him, you need to pick up the bad things that can be reversed, if you are doing the opposite, and you realized she could have changed until she has to be very vocal about the break up before it is just as much.All these are gone, you both not pay attention to her, and that includes your ex.
For example, if you are not willing to change her psychology completely.However, you should restrain from doing these types of problems must have the hunter-gatherer attributes.Don't beg, cry, called them 20 times a girl who is trying out to the point right now.Use this time to work very hard to eliminate all distractions by turning off your monthly cycle, they can't have.Look, your girlfriend break up happened in their life and that things are going through many emotions: shock, anger, betrayal, sadness, disappointment, rejection, jealousy, rage and distrust, so give him the cold shoulder, this will work for more serious issue such as personal health insurance, taxes and a decision that perhaps in your room.
How To Get My Ex Back In A Long Distance Relationship
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a7xlizardqueen · 5 years
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Title: Your Knight in a Sweater Vest
Overall Rating: NC-17
Overall Warnings: Parental bullying, mentions of bulimia, nudity(?), drinking, partying, cursing, very slight mention of war and trauma, smut
Pairing: Reader x Steve Rogers
Summary: When you need help dealing with your rude and overbearing family, your best friend Steve Rogers comes to the rescue. Modern!AU - For @barnesrogersvstheworld  Writing Challenge Shot Through the Heart #shotthroughtheheart3k
Chapter: 2/10
Word Count: 1,361 words
Chapter Warnings: Parental bullying, mentions of bulimia
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“Hey, honey, sorry I’m late.”
Good thing you didn’t have a drink, or you would have spit it all over your mother from the shock.
“Steve!” You smile, trying to act like you have a clue what’s going on.
He smiles and kisses your cheek, putting an arm around your waist.
“Again, Mrs. Skinner, it’s all my fault that Y/N didn’t tell you I was coming. I really wasn’t sure I’d be able to make it,” he puts his hand over his heart and gives her his most charming smile, “As soon as I found out I had the time I rushed over. What better way to surprise my girl?”
Your mother smiles, playing with the locket dangling against her neck. Her eyes are roaming over his chest and arms. It wasn’t until that moment that you realized how big Steve actually was. You always saw him around Bucky and Sam who were just as big into their daily workouts as Steve was. Seeing him now beside your ex he seemed massive.
Steve stood almost a foot taller, and his bicep was practically the same size as Percy’s head. His girlfriend was shamelessly ogling Steve as well. You grab Steve’s hand and excuse yourselves, making a beeline for the house, this time letting nothing stop you. He remains quiet as you search the liquor cabinet for the whiskey, pouring yourself a healthy shot and tipping the burning liquid down your throat.
“Surprise?” He smiles cheekily.
“What the hell are you doing here?”
“I’m sorry, okay? But I couldn’t stop thinking about you being here, fending for yourself. I wanted to help.”
“And you think pretending to be my boyfriend is going to help?”
“Maybe?”
“What happens when they ask you to come back to all the other family shindigs?”
“I’ll come to those, too. I just don’t want you to be alone.”
He’s giving you that look with the damn puppy eyes and you cave. That look is impossible to ignore.
“You’re too damn nice for your own good, Steve.”
“Thank you, Steve,” he mocks, “you’re very welcome, Y/N.”
You pour yourselves both large whiskeys before you return to the party. The second you step out onto the patio your sister is on you. She can smell attractive men like a wolf smells fear.
“Y/N, where have you been hiding him?” She smiles lecherously.
Steve smiles bashfully, “Under the bed, if you can believe it.”
You roll your eyes but play along.
“I just wanted to keep him all to myself for a while,” you smile, running your hands over his chest and stomach, watching as her eyes follow the movement.
You mingle amongst the crowd, waiting for dinner to be served. Again you are cornered by your stepfather’s business associate who asks the inevitable question.
“What do you do, Steve?”
“I’m a teacher,” Steve smiles fondly.
“Oh, wonderful! What’s your subject; philosophy, history?”
“Kindergarten.”
The smile falls from the man’s lips, “Ah.”
Thankfully the awkward tension is interrupted by the announcement of dinner. A place has been made by your side for Steve, across from Percy and his girlfriend. Great, this is going to be a lovely dinner.
Having Steve there makes you comfortable and you begin to load your plate up. Steve piles food on to his plate in great heaps, the man could eat like no one you’ve ever met. You should have been more careful, but Steve always had a very calming effect on you and you let your guard down. Your mother catches sight of your plate.
“My, gosh, Y/N, you aren’t planning on eating all that, are you?”
Your fork pauses over the plate and your skin prickles with anxiety.
“Really, Y/N, how do you ever expect to lose weight on a diet like that?”
Your tongue feels as if it has swollen and fallen down your throat, your heart beats loudly in your ears. You can’t even move your head to look up from your plate. If you look up and see Percy’s face you might crack.
“Nice to see some things never change, Y/N,” he says, smugness dripping from each syllable.
His voice causes your stomach to roll, and you can feel the contents trying to climb up your esophagus. Your body is trying to revert back to a coping mechanism you’d long since given up.
“Honestly, Y/N, I thought I raised you better than this. I didn’t want to say anything, but clearly you’ve let yourself go lately,” your mother is picking daintily at her own measly salad. "How did she lose all that weight when you were together Percy? You looked so good back then, darling."
The reminder of how you used to be is the last straw. Your chest grows heavy, and saliva builds on the back of your tongue. With a quick excuse you bolt from the table and try to walk as calmly as possible into the house. Once inside you race for the bathroom, reaching the toilet just as your stomach rolls, emptying itself of its already sparse contents.
Knuckles rap lightly on the door behind you. Of course he followed you. You never wanted Steve to know this about you. Guess you’re busted.
“How long has that been going on?” His voice is laced with a lowly simmering rage.
You wipe yourself off with toilet paper before facing him, already dreading the look of pity on his face. It doesn’t appear, there’s only a thick mask of rage and hatred blanketing his usually soft features.
“Answer me.”
“It hasn’t happened in a long time,” you admit in a quiet croak. “I started when I was in high school. My mother is very focused on appearance. I was never thin enough for her. It got to its worst when I was dating Percy. When we broke up, Bucky convinced me to go see his therapist. Hasn’t happened in 6 years.”
"Buck knows?" Steve's nostrils flare and he shakes his head.
"I begged him not to tell you. I didn't want you to think badly of me."
"But Bucky can?"
"It's different with Bucky. You know that."
Steve is quiet for a minute, arms crossed over his chest.
“My bike is outside. I want you to go wait for me there, I’ll be right out.”
“What do you mean? Where are we going?”
“We’re leaving. I’m not gonna let you sit here and get berated by your anorexic mother. There is nothing wrong with your body.”
Steve goes back down the hall, toward the back yard. The look on his face tells you he’s going into battle. You race after him.
“No, Steve, don’t go back out there!”
“I said, go wait out front.”
Steve steps out the back door, you hot on his heels. You grab at his massive bicep, but he’s on a mission, and nothing you do will stop him.
“You should all be ashamed of yourselves, especially you,” Steve points at your mother. “There is absolutely nothing wrong with this woman. She is kind, and beautiful, and smart, and funny. It’s all of you who need to better yourselves. Now if you’ll excuse us, I’m going to make sure my girlfriend gets something to eat where she won’t be harassed. Don’t bother ever inviting us back here.”
You stare dumbfounded at all the shocked faces at the table. Steve whips around without hesitation, grabs your arm gently and leads you back through the house, out the front door and to his bike.
“You cabbed here?” He confirms.
You nod your head and a small black helmet appears before you. Steve is already straddling his bike, waiting for you to catch up. He races off as soon as your arms are secured around his stomach. You find yourself grinning in satisfaction, remembering the looks of utter shock on their faces. Your stomach does a different kind of flip. Tingles run up your arms as you notice how warm and hard Steve is. Your nose brushes against the back of his shirt and a wonderful smell reaches your senses. How come you never noticed how good Steve smells?
You must have had too much whiskey.
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