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#AFTER A WEEEEEEKKKK!!! and then goes back to 'i wasted my time with you you were so unnecessary im in a bad mood bc of you'
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some men are textbook villains fr
#tw religion?
#kinda need to rant.. kinda wanna explain what's going on
#some ppl are part of humanity but don't know how to be humane... like the guy i started talking to almost 2 weeks ago
#liked him a lot bc he was funny sickeningly sweet mature and understanding.. until he was not
#tl dr version is that we somehow drifted to the topic religion and i told him im not too religious and don't believe in superstition much
#i was extremely respectful and even when he said that he does believe a lot i was like 'thats cool!! different people believe in different
#things!!' and at first it was a normal convo until man went all psycho on me (after one damn week!!!) and started talking about how
#id have to be religious in a relationship with him.. my dude i barely know your fav food can we not talk about relationships yet
#but he says he doesn't even need a woman who cooks/cleans just someone who believes.. n im like i get it but i can't change myself like that
#and then guy moves to marriage and is all 'well my entire family is religious' n my mom and sister (who's 16) would be putting pressure on
#you n force you to pray etc.. and I'm like???? who can force anyone to a thing like that are u kidding
#things escalate and my absolute STUPID ass tells him about my deepest fkn trauma to explain what made me abandon religion bc
#life just never got better and this trauma remained for yrs... and he gets so angry that he says he wants to stop talking to me just to spam
#me all day next day.. he'd keep messaging me switching between 'i still want you we shouldn't throw this away i have feelings for you'
#AFTER A WEEEEEEKKKK!!! and then goes back to 'i wasted my time with you you were so unnecessary im in a bad mood bc of you'
#even said 'you'll never find a guy with a trauma and mindset like this. i will find a religious girl but no one will love you like that'
#and the worst thing is that he told his friends and mom about the trauma i had just to spite me.. note that he promised to never tell anyone
#(and then still asked for forgiveness and for me to rethink whether we want to end this after telling me 473626x he wanted to end it)
#(nothing even ever started you bitchass)
#also note that his mom knows my mom n basically most of my relatives.. so i was here trembling for days fearing they'd get to know about it
#mom somehow convinced her to not tell anyone bc it's important to me and very very fucking personal..
#but he harassed me all day - i wouldn't answer and he'd send 55 messages.. multiple missed calls like dude i got so fkn scared
#my heart jumped whenever he texted he was so fkn aggressive and SO MEAN
#'you just needed to adjust and we would've been okay' 'tell me are u gonna fkn be religious or not????' 'you ruined everything' kinda mean
#i just :') it was the worst time and i don't think i've ever seen someone degrade me so much or make me feel this defective
#but.. it's finally over. his mom called my mom and mine was like pls teach him some manners.. n since i couldn't and wouldn't text him back
#and literally avoided whatsapp bc of him she ended it all for me and now it's hopefully done forever
#anyway i saw jks gcf performance yday n him singing still with you put a genuine smile on my face.. ill stick to THAT boyfriend honestly lol
#def gonna delete later
#but ty for reading if u did <3
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