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submissivesissy2005 · 8 hours
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1. Keeps her sub on their toes metaphorically, sometimes literally.
2. Knows that you don’t have to be cold, cruel, or bitchy to be dominant, but may decide to play that role sometimes.
3. Doesn’t need to be wearing black leather and high heels to feel powerful, but might wear them occasionally when the mood strikes.
4. Can be strict and controlling but also sweet and loving, all at the same time.
5. Understands the importance of aftercare, and that includes for herself as well.
6. Is trustworthy, and tries to instill a deep level of trust in her sub. Shows them that safety and preservation of reputation are paramount.
7. Adds intimacy to the relationship by creating a culture of ‘doing things for each other’, instead of just looking out for themselves.
8. Teaches her sub that there is no shame in their submission to her.
9. Uses her words to project power, not the volume of her voice.
10. Knows how to be classy, graceful, and elegant to command respect.
11. Makes her sub feel loved and wanted the most when they’re at their weakest.
12. Doesn’t hesitate to enforce discipline when required, and won’t feel the least bit guilty for doing it.
13. Loves herself and is confident and comfortable about who she is.
14. Understands that Dommes are human too, and she won’t be put off or discouraged by the mistakes she will make while leading the relationship.
15. When she inevitably does make a mistake, she will own up to it once, apologize if needed, learn from it, and move on without dwelling on it further.
16. Knows that Female Led Relationships are about her wants an needs first, but for a relationship to work, both need to be happy and a little compromise is required. She sets aside time where they can meet as equals to voice concerns and negotiate solutions to problems as they arise.
17. Believes in safe-words and safe-gestures and ensures her sub knows how to use them properly.
18. Doesn’t believe in equal relationships and tries to avoid them. To be truly happy, she knows that she needs to be in control and will choose a mate that is amenable.
19. Hunts down and kills the male ego for sport and then teaches him to feel pride in his submission to her.
20. Is introspective of her needs and knows what she wants from a relationship, so when she meets her sub, she is ready to guide them from the beginning.
21. Understands that speech control can be a powerful way to control her sub and uses it to her greatest advantage.
22. Knows her subs deepest, darkest, and dirtiest secrets, kinks and fetishes, but believes in their right to privacy and will take that information with her to the grave.
23. Takes the time and effort to learn what words will humiliate her sub in a good way, and what words to avoid because they will be harmful to her subs state of mind.
24. Prefers to do the driving, in the car, and in the bedroom.
25. Teaches her sub that, in her eyes, one of their greatest strengths is their ability to be weak for her.
26. She can be incredibly selfish with regards to sexual pleasure, but very selfless in her love and devotion for her sub.
27. Makes the rules that will guide them through their life together, and enforces them through discipline.
28. Knows the difference between when her sub wants an orgasm, and when they really need one. She practices orgasm control to regulate them to their greatest benefit.
29. Never threatens her sub, but she may make certain promises they won’t like to hear.
30. May make her sub suffer many humiliations and indignities in private, but ferociously defends their honor in public.
31. Her rules and instructions are always clear, concise and unambiguous, and they never conflict with each other.
32. She knows that calm, calculated words whispered into a subs ear will be more effective than shouting at them hysterically.
33. Her sub may feel unworthy of her but she will often remind them that they are what she wants in her life.
34. Maintains a level of inequality in the relationship to make the dominance and submission more genuine, and has overcome any guilt she may feel about it being unfair to her sub.
35. Knows that her subs favorite kinks and fetishes will be much more enjoyable for them if she forces her sub to experience them, instead of just allowing them to happen.
36. Through tease and denial, uses her subs own lust against them to train them to become obsessed with her.
37  She likes to keeps her sub guessing by withholding certain plans or information and then springing surprises on them.
38. Knows how to motivate her sub to do the most mundane of tasks by creating an erotic atmosphere filled with sexual tension surrounding it.
39. She knows that she doesn’t have to imitate a man to be a powerful force to be reckoned with.
40. Understands the intricacies of a consentual non-consent relationship and knows how to apply it to her own relationship.
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submissivesissy2005 · 8 hours
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you’re not going to do well.
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submissivesissy2005 · 8 hours
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I’m proud but sad..
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submissivesissy2005 · 8 hours
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Finger trap!
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As a straight male this would be humiliating
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submissivesissy2005 · 8 hours
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yes, the answer is yes.....
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submissivesissy2005 · 15 days
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Seeing my sub wearing my clothes is such an innocent sign of our dynamic.
Most of my clothes wouldn’t fit a man, except for my graphic tees.
I buy them oversized on purpose, just so that they are that tempting to steal.
Imagine stealing my shirt baby. Imagine me fucking you in it, while all you can smell is my perfume.
Every-time you see that shirt, all you’ll be reminded of is how good I make you feel, how hard you cum with me 🖤
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submissivesissy2005 · 15 days
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Cuddling is truly my favourite past time activity.
Im working from home? He should be cuddling me during.
Im playing video games? He should be on my lap, tucked into my arms.
Im cooking? He should be holding onto me from behind.
Reading? His head should be resting on my chest.
No such thing as too clingy in my eyes x
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submissivesissy2005 · 15 days
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Imagine all the cum you squirt out just because mommy touched your boy part. No stroking, squeezing, or pressing. Just a soft touch into mommy’s hands and you already came all over your little belly. Puppy having a premature ejaculation is so damn adorable. Mommy knows just how much you adore to cum so quickly when she touches you.
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submissivesissy2005 · 15 days
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i love riding subs
your dick may be inside me, but i'm the one in charge
i'll move my hips however i like, and you'll thank me for it
i'll grind down on you torturously slow, letting the head of your cock grind right up on my cervix
if you're naughty and try to thrust up into me, i'll just have to tie you down nice and tight to make sure you don't move
i'll let you cum in me, but i won't stop riding just because you came. i'll keep going until i'm satisfied and you're a whimpering, overstimulated mess.
and then i'll slide your dick out and shove my pussy right in your face so you can clean up your mess. you would look so pretty with your own cum smeared all over your face, baby boy <3
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Tween Queen
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