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spaghetti-n00dles · 8 hours
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As a lesbian, it’s happened twice already that one “guy” stands out to me and I think “huh maybe they’re kinda cute and interesting, I wanna get to know them” and then I get to know them better and it’s a closeted trans girl who I somehow sniffed with my little nonbinary lesbian nose
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spaghetti-n00dles · 13 hours
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Whenever I see an Ivan Aivazovski painting the sea monster in me goes absolutely feral
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spaghetti-n00dles · 3 days
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I recently had surgery, and at the time I came home, I had both my cat and one of my grandma's cats staying with me.
- Within hours of surgery, I wake up from a nap to my cat gently sniffing at my incisions with great alarm.
- I was not allowed to shower the first day after surgery, and the cats, seeing that The Large Cat is not observing its cleaning ritual, decided I must be gravely disabled and compensated by licking all the exposed skin on my arms, face, and legs.
- I currently have to sleep with a pillow over my abdomen because my cat insists on climbing on top of me and covering my incisions with her body while I sleep (which is very sweet but not exactly comfortable without the pillow). She also lays across me facing my bedroom door, presumably on guard for attackers who may try to harm me while I'm sleeping and injured.
That's love. 🐈‍⬛🐈❤️
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spaghetti-n00dles · 3 days
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reblog w the song lyrics in your head NOW. either stuck in yr head or what yr listening to
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spaghetti-n00dles · 3 days
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Finding other trans people attractive is a crucial part of reducing one's own struggles with dysphoria, I am not joking about this. Obviously it is not ever a bad thing to want physical changes to help get where you want in your transition, but, once you start to realise people built like you now can be beautiful or handsome or even enviable for what are usually considered transgender traits, it can go a long way towards helping you feel like those traits aren't so bad to have after all...
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spaghetti-n00dles · 3 days
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victor j. seidler, from unreasonable men: masculinity and social theory, 1994
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spaghetti-n00dles · 3 days
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My boyfriend's professor doesn't believe I exist, so I sent this email
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And his professor responded with this
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spaghetti-n00dles · 3 days
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i need to write this essay and i need to work on this presentation but it feels 1000000 times better to lie in bed and fall asleep. literally everything sounds better than doing work right now
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spaghetti-n00dles · 4 days
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I do sort of wish western anime fans would analyze anime and manga from a framework of japanese historical and cultural context. Specifically a lot of works from the 90s being influenced by the general aimlessness and ennui that a lot of people were experiencing due to the burst in the bubble economy and the national trauma caused by the sarin terrorist attack. I think in interacting with media that’s not local to our sociocultural/sociopolitical sphere it’s easy to forget that it’s influenced and shaped by the same kinds of factors that influence media within our own cultural dome and there ends up being this baseline misalignment of perception between the causative elements of a narrative and viewer interpretation of those elements. It’s a form of death of the author that i think, in some measure, hinders our ability to fully understand/come to terms with creator intent and the full scope of a work’s merits
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spaghetti-n00dles · 4 days
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just a concept I wanted to get down. always remember there are treatments for this stuff and you can change
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spaghetti-n00dles · 4 days
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I have a folder called Time is a Flat Circle in which I collect evidence of humanity. Here is most of them.
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spaghetti-n00dles · 4 days
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not my meme but you all do know about this right? It feels like it's getting buried right now and I feel like its proponents are trying to take advantage of that.
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spaghetti-n00dles · 5 days
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maybe it's just because I've been having these conversations for too long but sometimes watching a youtube video essayist analyse something is kind of like watching a third-grader run through their times tables. it's like... yes, very good, that's all true! so... what now...
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spaghetti-n00dles · 5 days
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happy lesbian visibility week
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spaghetti-n00dles · 5 days
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Transfem to Transmasc solitary must exist as much as any trans solidarity must exist.
Protect my boys.
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spaghetti-n00dles · 6 days
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guy sitting in front of me in class was vandalizing wikipedia and i kept reverting his edits as soon as he made them and he couldn't figure out why it was happening
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spaghetti-n00dles · 6 days
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men love to be shoved and grabbed and thrown around and pinned down its like enrichment for them
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