how to tell if someone likes you

1. they don’t

friends can break ur heart too

boys are extremely confusing and unpredictable

don’t ever go on a car ride with me because i won’t talk to you i’ll just stare out the window the entire time

repeat after me: I am a fucking awesome person who has dealt with so much shit and I have made it through it all and am still cute af and smart and funny and nice and intelligent and I kick ass

I’m too fucking old for games. If you think I’m cute, tell me. If you wanna kiss my neck, do it. If you like me, act like it. I don’t have time for bullshit and mind games. I’m down for you and you only but don’t manipulate me.

“It drives me crazy waiting for a text that’s never coming”

— 3 am thoughts (via suspend)

being in your early twenties is like [grocery shopping alone] [having instant noodles for dinner] [remembering random details about that one friend you haven't spoken to in five years] [feeling overwhelming guilt for every purchase that isn't strictly "necessary"] [having midday naps] [finding out through facebook that the girl who was mean to you in high school has a husband and a baby] [falling a little in love with every stranger on public transport] [pretending you're not afraid of being alone] [wondering when you'll feel like a fully realized person] [listening to bands you liked in middle school] [blinking and it's suddenly december] [failing to imagine yourself ten years from now] [feeling like you're running out of time]

25 and still struggling.

Life is hard. Especially as you get older. We have created this social construct that you have to be in a certain place at a certain point in your life and if you haven’t reached that yet, you start to feel behind and like you’re slacking or that you’re doing something wrong. 

25 and I’m still living with my parents. 

25 and I don’t have a stable career. 

25 and I have never been in a serious relationship. 

25 and depressed and anxious. 

But just because I live with my parents, don’t have my career set, or don’t have a significant other at 25, does not mean I am a failure. All it means is that I don’t have to waste money on rent, I’m still figuring out my passions, and I am figuring out who I am. 

Life is not a race, and although I feel discouraged that I am not where I’m “supposed to be”, I know this is my path, and I’m gonna be successful and happy anyway. 

This isn’t 25 and struggling. This is 25 and still figuring out life and how to love myself. 

nobody gives me butterflies anymore y’all just give me brain damage

First date locations pros and cons (via mattsurelee)

shoutout to everyone who doesnt actually have a solid Best Friend bc their best friends have better best friends or bc they dont bond enough with people to have best friends or bc their ‘best friends’ constantly come and go and it just kinda leaves em feeling vaguely isolated even though they might have plenty of regular friends