i just don’t think “is dude gender neutral” is that productive of a conversation because a word can be gendered and still used regardless of gender. i call my male friends girlypop and my female friends man but i don’t think anybody would agree that those are somehow not gendered terms.

the real question is just “would you be willing to apologize and stop using a word if somebody told you it made them uncomfortable?” the answer to which in a surprising number of cases is no mostly because it seems like overall ppl r more upset abt getting accused of transphobia than they are abt being transphobic

"I don't want to be this way.. not forever."

Crying because of the new trailer and short of Helluva Boss. Ugggh I can't wait for the Full Moon to be out! Find me on Twitter!

oooold stolitz doodle i finished up~

i'm not at lvlup expo but maybe we'll hear some stolitz stuff from the con! :'D

when i see him

i wasn't gonna post these here but fuck it! I'm excited to see more of them!

"I don't wanna be this way... Not forever."

HELLUVA BOSS: SEASON TWO TRAILER

#you're not fooling anyone blitz

HELLUVA BOSS 2.02 - Seeing Stars

Sinner’s finale ✨

*dusts off this account* I keep forgetting that I have a tumblr lmao

all enstarries should get attached to a nearly forgotten relationship it keeps you humble

laundry day~

“Who knew the pain would lead me all the way to you.”

StolitzWeek2024 | Day 5/6: Duet / Date Night (+Blending Families)

dreaming together 😴

can't wait for full moon... i miss them

The concept of a stolitz marriage does mess me up because these are two characters who believe a happy marriage is impossible—not for others, mind you, but for themselves.

Blitz is sure that he will die alone, that every romantic relationship in his life is destined for the scrap heap. Stolas only knows marriage as an obligation, and, once it’s made his reality, a form of punishment. I mean, can you imagine?

Blitz getting married would mean he’s acknowledged that he’s not waiting for the implosion anymore. It’s him holding the belief that tying himself to someone could be a positive experience for both parties. He’s not running, not avoiding—instead looking his desire for a partnership in the face, accepting it boldly, and being rewarded for doing so.

Stolas getting married would mean a second chance to live his life, this time guided by his own desires. Getting to choose a partner that he’s attracted to in body and mind. It would be a previously dreaded experience replaced with anticipation and warm curiosity for the future. Being chosen by another for himself and himself only.

These two individuals who see themselves as loveless being bound for love, surrounded by the friends and family they made for themselves that cherish them… it hits.

Nah but for real, please please just just block people. Blocking people is self care, it’s not admitting defeat, it’s not being rude or vicious. Block people liberally, block people over petty things, block people who you don’t want to see the posts of on your dash ever again. Blocking people is better than pointless arguments and feeling yourself seethe. We’re just all strangers on a little blogging website and the world is on fire.