How to preserve your citrus? Workshop a success!:) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cpwi-xxOANr/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Please come join us by creating a community altar this Friday ~ there will be hot soup & high quality tea to sip ~ places to lounge & a circle shaped altar to gather around ~ feel free to bring things for the altar 💐 Ivy, Wu, Jenny Yang, Josh Harper, Monica, Silver, Spaz, among others will be setting up a very intentional special space a few hours before. if anyone feels like helping out u r welcome to ride with me. Otherwise please come thru to pay respects to our lost loved ones 🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍 (at Omni Commons) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClojhVkpbKA/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Oakland! Stolen car, keep an eye out for me!!🙏🏾😢 https://www.instagram.com/p/CkJb1sWvwa9/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

My asexuality was incredibly easy to accept. I just didn’t like the idea of having sex, easy. But my aromanticism was incredibly difficult. I’ve always dreamed of having a boyfriend. I enjoy shipping and watching/reading romantic things. But I realized I’ve never actually felt any feelings for real people. It’s definitely really hard for me to differentiate between other feelings and romantic feelings to be fair. Like I can’t tell if I’m looking at a guy because he gives me gender envy or if I Like him. I like being aroace and I definitely don’t hate it, it’s just difficult. I’ve been thinking I’m either demiromantic or cupioromantic. This stuff is difficult

Ok, so polyamory is great actually. Being poly is awesome and you don't need to be or not be aro and/or ace to be poly. (You do you and be heckin proud of it, and I do not judge you for it in the slightest given the case that you are not poly though.)

See, polyamory is consensual nonmonogamy only, which means having multiple (whether romantic or queerplatonic or yes even recurring sexual) partners at the same time. It is something that everyone involved has to consent to, agree and be okay with and it is not synonymous with open relationships at all.

As in, it's not something exclusive either. Because people can choose to have those, too, within the context of a poly relationship. But that's an entirely separate conversation that needs to be had with everyone you are personally involved with to not be, y'know, cheating and a horrible betrayal of trust.

A few bad experiences and awful people in your life talking about polyamory when they seem to not even get the definition do not define the norm, actually, there is no norm. No two relationships are alike, Cishets-Allos™ are just awful at this, actually, and there's no need to blame polyamory for the issue when it's as much queering hetero-amatonormativity as anything else.

Sincerely, a sex-repulsed quirro ace who has a closed polyamorous relationship with my three queerplatonic partners who I love very much, whatever form that might take, and is honestly kinda a bit done with the slander. (In case this information is relevant somehow? No, we do not have sex, because three of us have no desire to and the fourth is perfectly willing to respect those boundaries. Shocker.)

Hey lovelies! I'd love to see you at the completion of our course, it'd mean the world to me and I know you'll have a great time. Will you join me? https://www.instagram.com/p/B7_Vxb0hDDe/?igshid=18rubej6ib8w4

#Bioneers2019 sweet people, their creations and life ❤ https://www.instagram.com/p/B4H8PPDB88r/?igshid=1dvovmq6lvjug

Free tech for nonprofits (at San Francisco, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/B3-lMcSAz5P/?igshid=1sr82584mp4l5

#Bioneers2019 #Heathermcteertoney #cleanAir The speaker asked us to take pictures with people around us. Environmental justice requires community https://www.instagram.com/p/B3zq1W9B3rR/?igshid=1eonbjocng55u

Dj snoopadelic at planethome.eco (at Palace of Fine Arts Theatre) https://www.instagram.com/p/B2a6Rs9g1u0/?igshid=9egpvirqf0wo

Bill Nye the climate guy! At planethome.eco (at Palace of Fine Arts Theatre) https://www.instagram.com/p/B2aouSFgVsE/?igshid=ekc1z9plm94b

Planethome.eco with friends new and old! (at Palace of Fine Arts Theatre) https://www.instagram.com/p/B2YP186hNFV/?igshid=1f6zu1qwul3hq

Tesla factory tour time! Thanks rajesh! (at Tesla Factory) https://www.instagram.com/p/B2VRj0khpb4/?igshid=1o9zno3zogbqj

Toronto,Niagara (at Niagara Falls, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/B2UrC8yBZDs/?igshid=sgqgvqd3tkcc

This is an amazing use of technology, a video mural by Jr, with full stories... A trip! (at SFMOMA San Francisco Museum of Modern Art) https://www.instagram.com/p/B1fGomqh9nT/?igshid=1nqccnyqk03px