I would like to thank these guys for showing me an alternate escape to the armbar.
Why? Because some pint-sized blue belt decided she wanted to boost her ego and armbar me for real at 150% strength when it was just a technique exchange during a break time in class.
I easily escaped thanks to that YouTube video.
Said blue belt then went to complain about injustice to the instructor when I beat her again at another discipline. I didn't even use 15% of my strength.
I think it's time for me to accept that I have a tremendous advantage in any of the sparring martial arts (except capoeira) and students learning with me who may not be as adept will be triggered. Some may even think I'm the 'bad guy' who joins martial arts classes to push others around for fun. Their reasons for getting triggered will inevitably be irrational.
It's also time for me to accept that perhaps thieves and burglars will avoid me like the plague because I look like the predator, not the prey. I should be safe provided I maintain my fitness and agility; skinny, unarmed thieves won't be. 😂
I guess when I started on this martial arts journey I was figuring out the answer to a question--could I hold my own in a full-contact street fight?
The answer was a "yes", I could hold my own. The answer to that question was figured out somewhat during past intense training sessions and mostly during a full-contact Japanese MMA session (Kudo) that I did with a local community. I absolutely loved the session and my interactions with the multi-talented martial arts practitioners there.
Imagine people who trained karate, judo, muay thai, boxing, BJJ--all in one place. It was glorious. We sparred a little bit and gave each other valuable pointers.
I learnt that I leaned a lot on my boxing and Muay Thai techniques (Thank You, Krus 🙏) because I had leverage with my reach and height plus I was confident in a few effective combos that I had learnt before.
The funny thing was, I found myself automatically doing what my coaches had drilled (and sometimes scolded at me) many times into my sensorimotor cortex. So literally, parts of my coaches were embedded in my brain. Maybe that's why once a teacher, always a teacher.
Thank you all for being part of my journey, and now my brain. 🙇♀️
There's a lot of unspoken/unmet emotional and mental needs when people fight without reason.
More often than not, the triggered emotion is a past emotional wound that hasn't had a chance to heal. Or conditioning that someone else had put onto them.
A trained eye would know the right questions to ask to single out a moment or moments in time of a person's life that require reframing.
In the interim, de-escalate.
And ask, what unmet need is the aggressor trying to fulfill here?
Perhaps they're not too good at verbalising their needs so they resort to fighting?
6 Martial Arts Experts Took Realistic Self Defense Tests
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Deescalation is also a self-defence technique. I thought Jeff Chan did it very well. Same for Ramsey in his job scenario--he basically flirted his way out of a lose-lose situation. 😂
Mizuno Hayato Judo Gi Review #judo #judogi #grappling
Speaking about gis, here's a review I made of the Mizuno Hayato Judo gi.
It's marketed by Mizuno as a multi purpose Judo, Jiujitsu, and Aikido gi, but I think I'm gonna extend it's multi purposeness even more! 😂 (Edit: with Kudo, of course.)
Good lightweight gi, will shrink approximately 5cm at the first wash and dry though.