rubinee
rubinee
28. bigender queer. Using this blog to explore how i feel about... all of this asks preferred over dms if we've never talked before.
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BDSM gets a bad rep as like a violent (male) dom pushing the boundaries of a reluctant (female) sub but in my experience it's a lot of subs with wildly elaborate fantasies screaming shit like "PUT MY ASS IN THE CHILI" while a new dom is like "Okay I think, we are reaching yellow for me,"
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That collar thing with Aeon
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i get the appeal of matching sets but what if i want to be naked huh??? have you thought about that????
this is such a none issue but why are the women in pegging art always also wearing a bra where is my representation for certified bra haters
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this is such a none issue but why are the women in pegging art always also wearing a bra where is my representation for certified bra haters
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I realize that seeing subs uncomfortable/crying is The Thing for some folks, but when I’m watching porn I absolutely love seeing subs that are smiling and clearly enjoying themselves, maybe even getting a little goofy with it. Like when someone gets slapped across the face and just grins? Yeah. Smiling and agreeing with degrading names? Giggling when they gag particularly loudly? Even better: when the dom pauses during something somewhat intense/gross/kinky just to kiss their sub bc they’re doing so well, and they BOTH are smiling and enjoying themselves?????? God
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You know how a pretty obvious majority of kinksters are submissives? You want to know a big part of the reason why it's hard to find a dom that's into the same hard kink you are?
Ask a hardcore masochist what they think of being whipped.
Then ask a hard sadist what they think of whipping someone.
Do you notice that the sadist/dom will often either dance around an answer or try to use soothing language/euphemism not unlike the way how in many places people are still expected to discuss sex if at all. Gentle, calculated language.
The issue is, especially with a new surge of purity culture overtaking so-called "leftist" online circles, is that fantasy becomes a moral judgement.
Sub with a noncon kink: "I want to be raped" (cnc but like. People can talk ab it how they want don't cancel me fr.)
Response from Normies: "well that's weird and kinda dark but ok"
Dom with a noncon kink: "I want to rape"
Response from Normies: "I'm calling the police and you should kys and you're also a sexual abuser and even though you haven't said anything about kids you're also also a pedophile :)"
Not only does the attitude of murderous hatred against doms/tops with hard kinks/fetishes/paraphilias make it difficult for them to practice those kinks (safely and ethically) out of fear of social backlash if it's ever found out even if both they and their partner[s] had a great time and are fine-- but, it actively puts innocent people in danger by equating thoughts and attractions of ANY KIND to the act of hurting others against their will. It equates fantasy, which can oftentimes be played out safely if in a modified way with real harmful actions.
Also, kink is still illegal in many places, so don't "its illegal" me about harder kinks. Law is not morality, none of us are free until all of us are free, etc. You get the gist.
You want to see more doms? Meet someone who can indulge your "scary badwrong" sexy feelings? Then maybe don't actively promote a culture where you put ANY kind of attraction or kink under fire. It doesn't matter if it'd be unethical to act out in real life. Some of the most common kinks worldwide are unethical as fuck to act out irl, including rape. That's why we have cnc, come on, guys.
You know what? In fact, you SHOULD actively shun people who shame others for their sexual feelings. EVEN if you think it's gross. EVEN if it wouldn't be ethical to act on irl. Let these types know that their puritan ideals are NOT accepted here. Let them know that if they want to go to church they can do that but not in your space, not forcing other (non consenting!) people to listen to their hateful and repressive ideology.
Like, hey, I'm not into ABDL, for example. But I will defend to the death other people's right to be into that. To think and feel whatever they think and feel. You think diapers are sexy? Great! I don't personally see the appeal, but you do you boo. There is no Correct Way to be sex/kink negative. Either you believe in thought crime or you don't.
And yes, this post includes "harmful" paraphilias (I put it in quotes because they're only harmful if acted on), sadomasochism, mutilation fetishism, etc etc. Every "gross" or "evil" kink, fetish, para you can possibly imagine. The stuff that makes you horny is just stuff that makes you horny, and being horny is normal. Being "weird horny" is also normal. No one deserves to experience shame, let alone public harassment or hate over feelings they most of the time don't Choose to have. Be mindful of puritan rhetoric and strike it down when you see it.
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i should be fucking ass instead of going to this fuckass job
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doing my subs makeup inbetween making out with him and punishing him when he inevitably smudges it...........................................
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i'm at critical health if i dont touch a mans tiddies asap i will perish
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I’ll pay for your nails if you mark my back up with them later
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buying him a big plushie so he can hold onto something soft when i rail his ass mercilessly
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sorry i didn't respond to your message i've been thinking about trailing soft kisses along a sweet sub's back and listening to them mewl as they push themselves deeper onto my cock. i just think it would be so nice to hear them whine as i rock my hips into them to stroke that spot they like best. oh hey, you're blushing. that's so...cute. anyway, are you doing anything later? how do you feel about spooning?
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Power Bottom
Just ActiRangers Green and Blue being dorks.
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Kissing the tip of the strap ever so gently. Licking it slowly all along its length and moaning softly against it. Gripping it at the bottom and slapping its weight against my awaiting tongue before I gag myself on it. Things of this nature. You get me. You feel me.
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