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CHURCH LEADER DISRESPECTS LICAB MAYOR

I believe that's the current headlines that is actually streaming on your media, or just still upcoming to stream. Whatever its status, I have to give points before anyone else gives different meaning to it. The last time, I posted the photo of mine in a dark silhouette with the billboard of our beloved Mayor Eufemia Domingo at the background basis. There's nothing wrong in the photo, however the caption "with lola nidora" made some of my friends and even other netizens hurl ober me. In this moment, they keep bragging my Church Experience as a ground for making the post disrespectful to the said town mayor, or depending on her societal status in the municipality as a primary grounds for me to call me various terms of "no brain" or "low class" and even "disrespectful" The critics were even so proud to push the said mayor to summon me at her office, to consider Cyberbullying as their major complaint against me. Three Points: CHURCH LEADER, A MAYOR, CYBERBULLYING-I'd like to give the points to defend myself in this tale. Lets begin at Cyberbullying Law that has been recently passed that they may use against me as the major complaint. The House bill 5718, or known as Anti Cyberbullying Law, amended as of 2015, having the Anti CyberCrime of 2002 as their primodial basis, has defined the term "cyber-bullying" as "acts of cruelty committed using the internet or any form of electronic media or technology that has the effect of stripping one’s dignity or causing reasonable fear or physical or emotional harm." The bill also considered "repeated sending of offensive, rude and insulting message, distributing of belittling information about the victim, as a form of cyber-bullying. Even posting or sending of offensive photos of the victim, whether digitally altered or not or were taken with or without consent, as long as it has intention to humiliate and embarrass the victim is also cyber-bullying." Well, in this case, lets go back to the caption of the post, "With Lola Nidora." As you all know, Lola Nidora became a comical icon on the Eat Bulaga Series "AlDub." Her personality (played by actor Wally Bayola) is strict yet a loving grandma of Yaya Dub (Maine Mendoza). And this icon was used to caption and post due to the resemblance of the said mayor. Ladies and Gentlemen, if we will use the Cyberbullying as the prime grounds pf complaint to detest myself, that would be inconsistent, since the cyberbullying was defined as "acts of cruelty committed using the internet or any form of electronic media or technology that has the effect of stripping one’s dignity or causing reasonable fear or physical or emotional harm." Is there cruelty? Is there loss of dignity? Is there any threats to cause the said mayor to have reasonable fear? Or is she has gone depressed after she saw the post as per emotional harm? Lets go farther: as cited on the cyber bullying law, their considered grounds were: "repeated sending of offensive, rude and insulting message, distributing of belittling information about the victim, as a form of cyber-bullying. Even posting or sending of offensive photos of the victim, whether digitally altered or not or were taken with or without consent, as long as it has intention to humiliate and embarrass the victim is also cyber-bullying." Again, is there any repitition of the post? Is there offensive, rude or insulting comments? Is the said mayor became unpopular and belittled due to the post? Apaprently, i believe as well theres no release of any confidential information or photos that lead to her humiliation and embarassment on the said post, right? Therefore, the Grounds of the said post in the accordance of anti cyberbulling law, is irrelevant and abstained. The next point here, is the Societal Status: "Mayor Kase sya." This is such an absurd and irrelevant comment. Are our politicians has been granted of such special privileges to not be captioned by this "Lola Nidora"? Many politicians has been " memefied" or created memes all over the social media and even more hurtful rather than this "lola nidora" post. Yet they werent reacting to those post. Considering the examples of Chiz Escudero being called as bamboo, or even Congresswoman Ria Vergara who was referred as Madam Claudia because of her fabulous outfits, or our very own governor Cherry Umali regarded as "Chantal Gonzales"referring to the iconic role of marian rivera at Temptation of Wife and many more. Yet they werent reacting on the said " nicknames" and even made it as their icon to make the people remember them easily. And to make themselves into the impression that they are just humble persons that can be playful anytime. So therefore, even at simple jokes like this, there is such societal caste system present in our culture wothout us all knowing it? Lastly, myself as so called "Church Leader"-this comment really made me laugh. Let me put the other side comment, " Church Goer" that has been bragged against me on this post. Me as well cant see the connection of my church history regarding on this. But to make it simpler, this has nothing to do whether you are a church leader or church goer. All of us really captions our photos differently to make it catchy. Many people gives more inspiring message, and these people were not involved to church or whatsoever, rather than those in the church: from the bishops and pastors, up to its constituents. To make it clear, im an EX CHURCH LEADER. I resigned already for a year now. And this is really not connected whatever I post. Id like to give such comments that theres still more harmful comments coming from those people inside the church both high and low echelons of its branches and ministries, rather than this caption "lola nidora." You may not hear it but those comments more hurtful, my dear ladies and gentlemen, really exist. Its not about Cyberbullying, or your societal status, or even who you are. We all do have right to defend ourselves. We all do have the right to post freely. And to this post, I think before i clicked it, dont worry. The post was made only to make it catchy and make it fun, not intended to hurt our dear mayor. And to those people who doesnt have any knowledge about it, theyre the ones who really make fun of it by putting colors unto it. This post is not a lesson for a simple post. But rather it is a lesson for all of us to strive for non OVER REACTING. because Over Reacting, really makes anyone proves that he is really is.

What the Four Queens Taught Us: Amihan: Resilience- The ability of such leader to rise up after falling. Regardless of how little the steps to move forward, as long as its forward, everyone can survive and win. Pirena: Self Exploration- The ability of such leader to compose and explore the inner self; to know thy self and try it deapite of people's rejection and opinion. What the matters most is to discover what you can do to change the world. Danaya: Defense- The ability to protect and nurture your constituents. The skill to protect what you have and cherish them: be it a property or human being. Alena: Peace- peace is not the absence of war, rather the state of staying focus and calm despite of the presence of violence. Be it a problem or tragedy, being peaceful is really worth to have. (at Hacienda Gobernador)

It was always my childhood dream na makagawa or to host documentaries e. Hahaha. Pagbigyan nyu na! (at Sta Lucia Old Zaragoza Nueva Ecija)

Hi pa! Happy Fathers day. Thank you for always being there for me. My service, my defender, my alarm clock and everything. You are my life dad, and no words can express how lucky i am to have you. There will be no Gob Jo if theres no Konsehal Senen. Love, Your Miss Universe

Stop the drama. Put your polbo on and smile. Pagkatapos, ieject lahat mga taong walang kontribusyon sa kagandahan mo sa friends list mo. Tapos ang usapan. (at Hacienda Gobernador)

GOVERNOR'S NOTE: Building the Nation

Have you ever knew that the essay "Building the nation" written by Butch Dalisay, one of the respected Romblon -born writer, who won 16 Palanca Awards were actually written as his mere reflection essay? The writer himself, mentioned that he's attending that time the 2nd edition of "Taboan"-the Philippine International Writers Festival way back February for celebrating National Arts Month. The event has Dr. Resil Mojares, an internationally recognized scholar of Philippine literature — who drew such deliberately provocative topic for his address: “Will Magdalena Jalandoni Ever Be a National Artist?” Jalandoni, is an Ilonggo writer who wrote 36 various novels, and sich number of fiction, poems, and plays. Writer (Jalandoni) produced such detailed and noticeable works of art, yes but its not actually the criteria being mentioned to be the national artist. So what is that thing that hinders Jalandoni's nomination as National Artist? The reason is very simple and indeed unacceptable-THE LANGUAGE USED IN HER WORKS. The speaker, (Resil) even mentioned "he simply didn’t know her work well enough to make that judgment." Indeed, this topic may not be that noticeable unlike various teleseryes pr news that gets thousands of shares or retweets but this is a hot topic that everyone should pay attention: this is one of the century old issues of the nation: REGIONALISM VS NATIONALISM. More likely, the council who reviewed the nomination of Jalandoni, followed procedires yet sadly, 2 of them haven't read Jalandoni's works due to an absurd reason: either due to language, unavailability of texts or translations, or simply because Jalandoni did not fall within their area of expertise. At this point, the presence of politics within the selection or should I say, "Partial Discrimination" to the works of Jalandoni due to the language used, is really unacceptable. What does it really makes us to be recognized? Is it we have to be a native Tagalog Speaker, or a fluent English Speaker or just to use what language we are comfortable? This issue is not different on the usage of interpreters at Miss Universe or any International Pageants. Sad to say, that we seem to be not proud of the language that nurtured us. We have Ilocano. We have Kapampangan. We have Hiligaynon. Yet many of the works remain unrecognized due to "language used." Writers wh uses these dialects were even considered as "Regional Writers" while the people hailed from NCR or Luzon Area who speaks Tagalog or English fluently, were considered "National Artists"-this is not different upon the comparison made by the writer, that addresses to the superiority of Manila Region, or mostly Tagalog Region. As Rizal quotes on his poem "Sa aking mga Kabata (To my Fellow Youth): "Ang hindi marunong magmahal sa sariling wika, masahol pa sa hayop at malansang isda" (He that knows not to love his own language, is worse than beasts and putrid fish) he doesnt mean that the Tagalog is the National Language. Of course, history has a way of redefining itself: ultimately, as the Constitution was passed way back 1935, instead of all languages, it ended up that the national language should be based on one language, hence why we have the wikang pambansang batay sa Tagalog, that people outside the Katagalugan , the Tagalog heartland to which Manila belongs, so despise. This is what the writer addresses: the equality within the languages. Any council, be it from the government or any NGO must play a proactive role in ensuring the survival of our so called "local languages", sustaining and intellectualizing our people to destroy those who want to impose their hegemony over everybody else. We must ensure equal opportunities, appreciation and recognition to all Filipinos across the nation, for their various works that promoted equality, liberty and fraternity towards enlightenment of our people so that Filipinos in general should be able to speak their local, regional, national and official languages with equal fluency to be able to stay alive without the threat of being "overrun" by each other, so that they can get services in those languages without prejudice, and they can presented their ideas that really contributes in uplifting our nation-Be it Hiligaynon, Kapampangan or Ilocano, and other dialects across the archipelago. These languages, were all FILIPINO- and thats what makes us a FILIPINO. Ladies and gentlemen: Is it really the language really measures the intelligence of a person, or his abilities to contribute for the success of our nation?

Minsan mapapatanong ka na lang sa sarili mo kung masaya ka ba talaga sa ginagawa mo. Kung ganyan ba talaga yung gusto mong maging ikaw.

You know if you're home if you can move freely without hesitating that you'll be judged. (Haliya, Danaya, Pirena, Amihan, Banak, LilaSari, Paopao) #TeamMasisiba #EncantadiaLicab #BoodleFight

Were untouchable!

3 Kinds of Love

Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives meaning on it... It’s been said that "We really only fall in love with Three People In Our Lifetime." Yet, it’s also believed that we need each of these loves for a different reason. Often our first is when we are young, in high school even. It’s the idealistic love—the one that seems like the fairytales we read as children. This is the love that appeals to what we should be doing for society’s sake—and probably our families. We enter into it with the belief that this will be our only love and it doesn’t matter if it doesn’t feel quite right, or if we find ourselves having to swallow down our personal truths to make it work because deep down we believe that this is what love is supposed to be. Because in this type of love, how others view us is more important than how we actually feel. It’s a love that looks right. The second is supposed to be our hard love—the one that teaches us lessons about who we are and how we often want or need to be loved. This is the kind of love that hurts, whether through lies, pain or manipulation. We think we are making different choices than our first, but in reality we are still making choices out of the need to learn lessons—but we hang on. Our second love can become a cycle, oftentimes one we keep repeating because we think that somehow the ending will be different than before. Yet, each time we try, it somehow ends worse than before. Sometimes it’s unhealthy, unbalanced or narcissistic even. There may be emotional, mental or even physical abuse or manipulation—most likely there will be high levels of drama. This is exactly what keeps us addicted to this storyline, because it’s the emotional rollercoaster of extreme highs and lows and like a junkie trying to get a fix, we stick through the lows with the expectation of the high. With this kind of love, trying to make it work becomes more important than whether it actually should. It’s the love that we wished was right. And the third is the love we never see coming. The one that usually looks all wrong for us and that destroys any lingering ideals we clung to about what love is supposed to be. This is the love that comes so easy it doesn’t seem possible. It’s the kind where the connection can’t be explained and knocks us off our feet because we never planned for it.  This is the love where we come together with someone and it just fits—there aren’t any ideal expectations about how each person should be acting, nor is there pressure to become someone other than we are. We  are just simply accepted for who we are already—and it shakes to our core. It isn’t what we envisioned our love would look like, nor does it abide by the rules that we had hoped to play it safe by. But still it shatters our preconceived notions and shows us that love doesn’t have to be how we thought in order to be true. This is the love that keeps knocking on our door regardless of how long it takes us to answer. It’s the love that just feels right. Maybe we don’t all experience these loves in this lifetime, but perhaps that’s just because we aren’t ready to. Maybe the reality is we need to truly learn what love isn’t before we can grasp what it is. Possibly we need a whole lifetime to learn each lesson, or maybe, if we’re lucky, it only takes a few years. Perhaps it’s not about if we are ever ready for love, but if love is ready for us. And then there may be those people who fall in love once and find it passionately lasts until their last breath. Those faded and worn pictures of our grandparents who seemed just as in love as they walked hand-in-hand at age 80 as they did in their wedding picture—the kind that leaves us wondering if we really know how to love at all. Someone once told me they are the lucky ones, and perhaps they are. But I kinda think that those who make it to their third love are really the lucky ones. They are the ones who are tired of having to try and whose broken hearts lay beating in front of them wondering if there is just something inherently wrong with how they love. But there’s not; it’s just a matter of if their partner loves in the same way they do or not. Just because it has never worked out before doesn’t mean that it won’t work out now. What it really comes down to is if we are limited by how we love, or instead love without limits. We can all choose to stay with our first love, the one that looks good and will make everyone else happy. We can choose to stay with our second under the belief that if we don’t have to fight for it, then it’s not worth having—or we can make the choice to believe in the third love. The one that feels like home without any rationale; the love that isn’t like a storm—but rather the quiet peace of the night after. And maybe there’s something special about our first love, and something heartbreakingly unique about our second…but there’s also just something pretty amazing about our third. The one we never see coming. The one that actually lasts. The one that shows us why it never worked out before. And it’s that possibility that makes trying again always worthwhile, because the truth is you never know when you’ll stumble into love. “You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.” ~Jo