How do I figure out my gender? I feel like a woman and a man both at once and also none of them and all of them, I’ve just been saying genderqueer, but I’m unsure of myself. I think I’d feel the same if I was born a cis guy, and it’s all really confusing me
I understand how you feel :0!!! I've learned (and I mean this in the nicest way possible) it doesn't really matter offline. Figure out what you wanna do with your body first and then figure out the label later. Do you wanna go on hormones? Get surgery? Change your name? Just change the clothes you wear? Do what you WANT to do. Do what feels comfortable. Try different things. Forget the labels.
When you focus on the labels , you run the risk of pigeon holding yourself into that identity. Shaping yourself to fit the assumed definition of said label. Humans aren't that cut and dry.
Then, if you want to, you can find the best label or labels that best describe your behavior!
I take hormones, use he/him pronouns, plan on getting top surgery, and strive to navigate the world as a man. For all intents and purposes, I'm a trans man. Does that mean I identify as a man? I dunno 🤷♂️. But it's a label that works and conveys to other people effectively how my life is right now.
So, in conclusion; just vibe. At the end of the day, you'll always be yourself.
Not to be incredibly vulgar and nasty or anything, but I’d like to close my eyes and rest my head in somebody’s lap while they run their fingers through my hair
You can like whatever porn you want I don’t care if a cis man likes cuntboy anime porn. It’s just if you’re gonna be into that but not respect actual men with cunts I’m gonna make fun of you.
OO! Why do you think it's mean to idolize ppl ? /Gen q
When you idolize someone, you create a version of them in your head that's rarely accurate. Humans are naturally imperfect, but the act of idolatry removes any imperfections. The idol is thus expected to stay perfect, an unreasonable ask. Eventually, the idol and the fan are both disappointed.