I’m really into lazily giving hickies

like, you’ll be reading a book or playing with your phone and I just want to lay next to you and get my mouth on you

your back, your tummy, your thighs, your chest

Doesn’t matter

I want to mark you up just because I like seeing it the next morning

pretty little reminders that are in various shades

pretty little reminders that you’re mine and only mine

him calling me a desperate fag and a pretty mutt as he's pinning me to the wall and biting marks into my neck with his knee pressed in between my thighs would fix me i think

cant stop thinking about handcuffs. whats that pup, you want to touch yourself? you say im not getting all of your good sensitive parts?? if you keep pulling like that youre gonna hurt your wrists<3

cant stop thinking about handcuffs. whats that pup, you want to touch yourself? you say im not getting all of your good sensitive parts?? if you keep pulling like that youre gonna hurt your wrists<3

literally cannot stop thinking about being pinned down while making out with someone

they keep rutting their bulge against me, their weight digging into me while they desperately try to wiggle my legs apart so they can get off through our clothes

god damn I love clothed heavy petting

please just fuck me through our underwear

Bite me coward!!

All over me!!

Sink your teeth into my soft hands!

Bite my tummy!

Bite my sensitive neck ~

Taste my face!

Bite my lip, hfm ~

U-Use me like a chew toy ~ 💜

Use.. my mouth.. like a sleeve ~ 💜

💜 ~ Just.. Like.. That.. ~ 💜

~💜🪻

Please?? Wanna chew on you n hear your reactions

Wanna bite n kiss n lick you all over,,,just promise you’ll call me a good boy while I do?

Strip poker except when they run out of clothes to take off I get to put a new toy in them or piece of gear on them with every hand they lose instead. And they have to take a shot every round so their mind gets hazier and hazier and they lose more and more

whaaat no I totally didn't get hard as a rock just from blowing you that's crazyyy you totally shouldn't be mean to me about it or make fun of me that would be terribleee

I want them to spank my ass while I'm face down ass up on the bed. I want them to coo at the red hue of my beaten flesh and the precum dripping from my dick. I want them to gently tease the head of my cock while I struggle to stay up on my knees, moans stuttering from my chest, trembling under their touch, every sense heightened as they barely touch my sensitive dick.

with the way t’s made it so i need lube to keep going i can’t help but imagine being just sooo fucked out and unable to think properly only for someone to rub more lube onto me going “oh, you’re still wet? poor thing…” as an excuse to keep fucking me stupid

when you get dragged in for a kiss by your collar 😵‍💫

when you get dragged in for a kiss by your collar 😵‍💫

when you get dragged in for a kiss by your collar 😵‍💫

I’m your guard dog in public. Walking around with that big tough expression on my face, not letting anyone near you. I open doors for you, drive you around, growl at anyone who looks at us the wrong way.

But in the bedroom, I’m nothing more than your submissive pup. It’s shocking how quickly I melt when you instruct me to get on my knees. I blush hard when you praise me and ask me to tell you what I want you to do to me. You stick your fingers in my mouth and grab my tongue, just as I ask. You tell me I’m such a good, tough dog for you. Of course I should be rewarded.

thinking about a butch, loyal, distinguished & intelligent butler in a noble household.

they are everywhere at once, brilliant at their job. they’re phenomenal at keeping your notes organised, your meetings scheduled. they pour wine into your glass because they know exactly the kind you prefer, they know you better than you know yourself. they help you get dressed, and you feel their hands tremble for mere seconds, the white fabric of their gloves separating your skin from their touch. they recollect yourself immediately and apologise for missing a button, and you are left with a strange feeling between your ribs

they know you better than anyone else and so they catch you staring at them from across the room when you’re working; ‘you should attend to your writing, sir’ they say, and you hear their voice go down a little for that last word

you have conversations with them every evening and feel a sort of hunger growing inside you; they strike you as quick-witted and fierce, and yet they submit to your will whenever they greet you at the door / or hand you a lemongrass scented towel / or bend over a bit to pour coffee into your cup and you cannot help but gaze at the arch of their back and maybe, maybe you try to imagine for a split second what they look like under their suit

it’s not necessarily indecent and not vulgar in the slightest. they know your deepest darkest secrets and yet, you have only seen their hands uncovered once or twice, and you feel an odd yet comforting desire ignite inside you

when you ask them to remove their gloves, their eyes widen, and still they do as they’re told. they gasp for air as they sense your lips tracing their palm and and their wrist and it feels more intimate than whatever you had with any man or woman you’ve ever been with before

‘allow me,’ they whisper under the breath, ‘allow me to take care of you’

they preface their every move with ‘may i?’, you tell them firmly yet tenderly to untie your lace /remove your rings / undo your buttons / kiss your neck, and are as eager as ever to obey; and now their hair is a mess, their gloves are on the fine wooden floor where you left them, their collarbones and shoulders are exposed and yours to mark; your fingers dance around their lips and slide into their mouth, you feel their tongue on your skin; a long evening awaits

just thinking :)

Choking Safety

I've been seeing some kind of scare-mongering type posts going around about choking during sex, so I wanted to address how to approach choking in a safe way. Choking is not a 0 risk activity, but it is also not so dangerous that you will just randomly die either. Anyone who does martial arts will confirm that thousands of teenagers are being successfully trained to choke each other safely (for self defense) every day! There's no reason you can't learn to do it too.

First you should be familiar with some basic anatomy of the neck and throat:

The carotid veins on both sides of the neck and the trachea/windpipe in the center are the most important things to be aware of. If you want to enjoy the psychological element of having someone's hands around your neck with relatively little risk, you can do "choking" play that avoids putting any pressure on those arteries or the trachea. As with all choking play, safety is highest when both parties are fully sober. I'm not actually sure if there are people out there who are into having the windpipe or trachea blocked. This tends to hurt like fuck and cause an autonomic choking response. You'll know if you went too far center because generally the bottom will be like "WTH". I don't know if there is a way to do this play safely or not as I don't have experience with it. It probably carries some risk of the trachea collapsing which would be a hospital trip for sure. Most choking play is done with the intention of cutting off the blood supply to the brain by applying pressure to both the left and right carotid arteries. This type of choking is not really "breath play" because of the way it works (though many people refer to it that way.) This creates a pleasant light headed feeling, but is also where the higher risk comes in. It often doesn't take long for a person to lose consciousness once these arteries are blocked, often less than 10 seconds. Sometimes getting completely choked out is the goal, sometimes not. Either way, the top has to pay very very careful attention to every aspect of their bottom's body language. Once you realize that a person has lost consciousness, the choking must stop immediately. Because of this: the most dangerous way to do this kind of play is alone. (hence all the auto-erotic asphyxiation deaths you hear about) It goes without saying that intoxication also dramatically increases the risks. It's not recommended to lose consciousness this way on a regular basis. It's just not good for your brain to repeatedly go through, especially in rapid succession. Generally, the more time spaced out between this type of play: the better. Though some people may have medical conditions that make the risk higher, as long as you stop choking when you reach the desired headspace, this play is approachable. Anyone who's REALLY into the idea but feels unsure or scared, I highly recommend taking a few martial arts classes. MMA guys do this to each other all the time! For sports! The key is just stopping at the right time. There are two main ways to go about blocking the carotid arteries. The main one used in martial arts and self defense is the rear naked choke.

This type of choke is incredible effective at choking someone out quickly and easily. The forearm and the bicep are squeezing each artery until the desired effect is achieved. The risk here is how quickly it works in combination with not being able to have a visual on your bottom's facial response. When someone loses consciousness they will go limp and begin twitching somewhat. This is normal, and you should stop immediately if you notice those signs. The more common method of choking play during sex is what looks more like typical choking. Facing your partner, using both hands.

You want to find the arteries with both hands, and use the meat at the base of your thumbs to apply gradually increasing pressure upwards towards your partner's head. You can keep the thumbs tucked to avoid accidental pressure on the windpipe. (Though this is not required so long as you remember not to apply pressure to the windpipe.) This type of play has a few safety benefits. First, you can see your partner's face so it's more obvious when you can see they've hit a headspace that is desirable. Additionally, it's just a little more difficult to find the arteries and push up on them correctly. If your goal is to get a little light headed without losing consciousness, this is more easily accomplished with this type of choke. However, losing consciousness is still a risk and both partners being fully alert will ensure the lowest risk environment. I know choking play is incredibly popular, even 'vanilla' people participate in this type of play on a regular basis without really knowing the technical details. Most of them don't get seriously hurt...but knowing what you're actually doing with risky play is a base component of risk aware consensual kink. Anyway I hope people find this helpful! Happy choking!!